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In a relationship with someone I want to be with, but not over ex. Ex just broke up with their lover. We talked for a little bit, just civil chat but I'm wary of doing anything that would hurt my current relationship, I've cheated before and don't want it to turn into that (lover knows and we worked it out a year ago). Now me and ex aren't talking because they still have feelings for their last lover and couldn't even handle being friends with me. But I still miss them, our relationship before I got with this rebound was the most intense and funnest part of my life so far, partially because I had more freedom in my current relationship. My current relationship may be more boring and my lover clingy but I don't think I want to risk ruining it because of that, those things can be worked on right? My question is either 1 how do I get over this ex and/or 2 is it possible to be friends with them knowing they have their heart elsewhere now? bb gotes bcuz cute
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got a precalc final in an hour and I havent studied shit. could someone tell me a good website or a good cheat sheet I could print out and hide during the test? thanks
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>Been seeing this girl for 2 weeks >Had sex with around 5 girls in the 6mo before (not bragging, just integral to story) >Used contraception with all but one who said she was on pill (didn't cum in her anyway) >Find out crazy cunt that I had sex with 2 months ago has a chlamydia >get tested, tell girl I'm seeing about me being tested >tell her I'm like 99% sure I'm sti-free (which I was, no symptoms) >I wear extra-safe condoms anyway >Find out I have today I have chlamydia >my treatment coming in post tomorrow/monday >Need to tell girl I'm seeing about it today What is the best way to go about this? What should I expect?
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Hey /adv/ I constantly have this pain in my stomach, it's a physical pain but not due to any illness or obvious reason. It's been there for the last 2/2.5 years and I'm getting pretty sick of it. It's been getting worse lately as I've completely lost interest in, well everything. Anything of value or 'importance' is completely meaningless to me because i know that deep down everything is the same. I've been seeing the world through >pic related lately, just as a green web of elementary existence because everything is the same when you go deep enough. >takeout i ordered, made by some guy who hates his job and made that item for the 100th time that day >favorite character that died in a tv show, actor probably went for a smoke break 20 mins after that scene > cool book, just some guy wrote it >travel to exciting places, its not exciting to the people already there >playing games, painstakingly coded to do the exact same things depending on your actions by some guys who spent hours there >listening to a banging tune, oh this was made on Ableton through a boring process that is probaly half fluke in term of sound design The list goes on and on. Basically the more i try to do new things the more i realize im never gonna get that buzz because i've already accepted everything is the same and meaningless. I want to cry, but have nothing to cry about. Meeting friends is fun but I get the pain even worse when i go home to my shit family, also this year i feel i've lost some friends due to my college location. What do I do fit? I dont want to kill myself because then i wont see what happens in life, but that's about the only motive i have to stay alive. and it's a pretty weak curiosity. So, yeah, I guess it is an illness, depression. What do guys? ;_;
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I hate my life everyone I trust ends up fucking me over. I buy pointless shit to shroud my depression and I am lonely as fuck. Please can I get any help
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Hey /adv/, where do you draw the line? My somewhat significant other, somewhat because I'm unsure at the current state of affairs, is halfway ignoring me and giving me the incredibly cold shoulder. I mean, she doesn't even treat me like a friend, just straight up cold, ignoring half my texts, inviting me over for a drink just so we sit on the couch watching TV not talking to each other and sitting there like strangers in a waiting room at a doctor's office. The background is that she's having an incredibly, or so I think, hard time in her life right now, as huge chunks of dirt have surfaced from her childhood. She said she might be a bit odd, but straight up ignoring me and living her life on(ffs, every other time I get a reply she's out doing things or doesn't have time after work) doesn't count just as a bit odd. I mean, it's just a shitty move. I'd love to support her and offer comfort and whatnot, but if she excludes me from every part of her life, it's hard to do so. But it's not fair that she pushes me back and back and drags me back just a bit. So, I suppose I should just draw the line? I should try talking to her about this and I will, I'm a bit pissed off and somewhat passive. But should I feel like a bastard for not trying enough? I mean, it's just, I think I'm not trying hard enough, but when I try a bit harder I get nothing in return, NOTHING. I hate relationshit.
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Hey /adv/ I wanted some quick opinions on whether you think my significant other is going to propose to me or not and how I should handle it. My S.O. and I have been together a year now and have had our home together for 7 months. We both fell really hard and really fast for each other and since then we've been inseparable. Our anniversary is Sunday and he's been acting like he's going to go propose to me lately. It started when we went to JCP to return something and he blatantly took pics of their engagement rings and then asked me my opinion on several of them. I got caught up in the moment and dragged him to a nearby high end jeweler and looked at engagement rings there as well. We ended up leaving without one and I was disappointed to be honest as I really liked some of them and I started feeling like he was just in a whimsical mood and that he wasn't seriously looking for a ring. He wound up telling me that he wasn't going to buy any of the rings I pointed out anyways and I wasn't sure how to take that then later on he asked me to stop talking about it which put me in an even worse mood because to me it was like he got half way through proposing and then took it back. Since then though he's changed my mind almost completely. He's told me that he already found the perfect ring and last night he said he a had a huge secret he was keeping from me but that it was a good secret. He also told his brother he couldn't hang out this weekend because "We have big plans this weekend" and told a sales guy at a store that "Sunday is going to be a big day". Tonight he called me to tell me he's going to be late coming home because he has to pick up something that's a surprise for me. He's also texted me today at work saying that "I'm his heart and soul" and when I replied with "You're my whole life" he said "I will be soon." He also made a comment about one of my existing rings saying that it will look really pretty next to my engagement ring. What do you think?

Catholicism

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I've found myself in the odd situation of being a very liberal athiest with a quite devout catholic girlfriend. As you can imagine this comes with a whole host of sexual and relational problems. We've been going for about a year. It's kind of bending my mind right now. Anyone ever been in a similar situation? It fucking sucks. :/

Does she like me?

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I was sitting at a table, she walked up to me, smiled, and asked what school I go to. She had a lollipop candy in her mouth when she did - which I didn't find arousing but certainly different.
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I'm so miserable I came here. I am suffering from severe allergies. A few warm, windy days with no rain in the Pacific NW has me sneezing non-stop. I live out on a farm, with a LOT of pollen-creating plants. Normally the wet rainy climate up here keeps things under control, but the summer-like weather we've been having has amplified everything ten-fold. Here's my prevention so far: - 10mg Zyrtec (my usual allergy meds) - 50-75mg Benadryl - A large-size Honeywell HEPA Air Purifier - Those Chinese SARS masks - Rinse in shower after any outdoor contact - Freshly laundered clothes after outdoor contact This can usually get me somewhat stable but there's a noticeable problem when I wake up. It takes a bit for the pills to kick in, but in that 30-60 minutes beforehand, I'm sneezing at least a hundred times. It took me several minutes to write this out because of all the pauses. What else can I do to prevent the Outside Where It Is Not Safe from killing me in the safety of my home? (Allergy shots are a last resort; I live half an hour from the nearest clinic for that.)
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>Part 1 of 5 I'm not going to constrain myself because some feminist out there is afraid of her own shadow. If you don't want to talk, say so, it's not hard. I'll do whatever the fuck I want. What are women going to do? Fight me off? I could crush them with my pinky finger. If I want to talk to a person, I'll talk to the person. If said person tells me to fuck off, I'll fuck off. If women are constantly paranoid and expect me to give them special privileges because of that, then too bad. Women just say stuff like this so that the bottom 80% of guys will avoid them, and they'll only get attention from the men they want. Just wanting to keep the betas lonely and sex deprived. Guess what though. I don't care. A lot of women DO want guys to approach them. I'm not going to alter my behavior become of some sex-negative cunt. Sorry. I'll creep out whoever I damn well like, thanks though. I reserve the right to exist on my own terms, and if people can't show me a minimum of decency or respect, I'm under no obligation to treat them with either.

Dental Implants

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Anybody have any experience with dental implants? My teeth are terrible & really prone to cavities because of their shape so sometimes I think it would be a good idea to replace them all with implants. Would be cheaper than fillings & crowns.
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Wednesday: >her: anon can we talk friday? about serious stuff. about us. >me: sure Tonight >me: when do you want to talk tonight >her: I don't remember anything I was going to tell you. I was half sleep telling i guess. >me: you have to remember something otherwise you'd have told me you forgotten earlier >her *gets defensive about me not believing her* was I in the wrong? if you plan for something two days in advance there's no way you would forget and not anything up til the night of.
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quick question. say I went out with my brother tonight, and he's 9 years older than me. and he meets up with his friends who are all old as fuck like him. it's understandable if I don't really try to socialize with any of them, right? pic unrelated
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What do /adv/, I go to my uncle's house, my cousin(female) and my cousin(male) plus wife and child live there. My male cousin's wife and I joke around a lot, but sometimes she took this too far, She jokingly tried to cut me with scissors while I had an empty exacto knife hand, when she lunged at me, I scratched her out of self defense, not cut, scratched. I apologized and told her to be careful. That was 2 months ago. I go to my uncles house tonight to buy some stuff, and we're laughing having a good time and he stands up and says that I "can't touch his wife no more, if I ever hurt her again he'll kick my face and, and beat my face in with a metal bat and stomp in my teeth" I'm not sure where the fuck it came from, but I refunded my purchase from my uncle and told him to fuck off, I know I could've kicked his ass, I'm a competitive boxer of 8 years, plus a powerlifter. But I just walked away with my money. He declared that him and I are no longer family. What the fuck do I do? | DId I do the right thing? Halp? (pic related)
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Hey everyone. Basically I got invited to a 21st tonight, and have no idea what to get the birthday boy. I'm not that close to the guy, so I only want to spend about $10, mostly because I feel it would be seen as creepy if I spent more than that. No idea what to get in that price range, any ideas? Pic unrelated.

in a cluster fuck and depressed

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long story short, I was dumped over something insane and stupid, I have been trying to work things out and re patch things. I spent over a year trying to break through a friend zone with a girl whom: Has un-diagnosed schizophrenia and diagnosed anger issues Was ridiculed and bullied in school most of her life Was abused and used intensely by her first boyfriend Was raped and abused by her second boyfriend End result she can be a cold ignorant selfish shut in and a massive bitch to boot. Who hates people and affection. I've been heeding her request to give her space, and I've been doing things like cleaning without her asking. (we still live together as roommates because rent has skyrocketed in a disgusting manner) I finally got a on call job where I will be making 13 bucks an hour and it's all union. Money won't be a issue or food. Yet it feels like I am yielding nothing. It is depressing, I am also under suspicion of her fawning and trying to flirt/date with some idiot she gave a pity fuck years before I met her. Luckily for me he lives nowhere near here. And she sucks at budgeting and saving so no traveling for her. I know it sounds despicable thinking like that, but I love this damaged goods. we've been happy before, and have been there for her when there where bad problems. A part of me wants to just give up....But I keep clinging and hoping my efforts make it through. I've cried over her and over some of the conflicts we've been in as they happen. I rarely ever cry, which means something. I have been talking with her when are in the same vicinity about fixing things and what else I can do for her....it feels fruitless sometimes. What else should I do?
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>like girl a lot >find it hard to talk to her when we hang out I'm not really sure what to say, or how to connect, we;re both pretty shy this sounds retarded as fuck, but any tips?
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My first and last gf dumped 6 years ago, reasons? I suck at sex. Most specifically I cum too fast.. way too fast. Can't hold it for even 10 seconds when receiving a bj and when penetrating I was lucky if I get to 20 seconds, Through all these year this have created confidence issues in me and I've been afraid of getting around women anymore.. I don't want to just get to the point I could get to have sex with them and then poof I finish to fast and I ruin everything, disappointing but of us and ruining potential relationships.. Any way to sort this out? There have been plenty of girls these last years I've been interested on but this issue always holds me back.
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Hello /adv/, basically I'm out of ideas and need some help. I'm currently in my first year of college taking summer classes, and I have never had a job. Not even part time or a summer job. My parents really want me to get a job and I really want to get a job to help them pay for my schooling as well as make money because I'm broke as shit. The problem is that since I've realized this and have started applying to places and calling and constantly trying and trying and trying I've gotten fucking nowhere. No luck whatsoever. Best I've gotten is a few interviews which ended with no call, even though I know I did well. I think the main reason I'm not being hired is because I have no experience. But I need a job to get experience. At this point I literally do not care what job I do, besides obvious stupid shit like selling myself or anything illegal. Is there any way I can find a job quickly that will at least pay me minimum wage? I don't really care what kind of work I'm doing, beggars can't be choosers, you know. TL;DR: I've been applying for jobs for a while and haven't gotten shit. I need to find a job fast, don't care what it is.
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