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I would like to be able to cold read people. For example, knowing their work, behavior, purposes,etc by the way they look (hands, clothes, etc), the way they move, speak,etc. A bit like Sherlock. Does any database, book exists to learn this kind of stuff ?
Dealing with a confused bride?
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So here's my situation. Last night my best friend got married to his girlfriend of 6 years. I've known him for 13 years and her since they started dating. At first I had a bit of a crush on her but that quickly subsided. We eventually became really good friends. My feelings for her never ventured further than that. Last night, after popping out for a smoke, I notice she follows me out. She hugs me and kisses me on the cheek thanking me for being there on the night. Of course I tell her I wouldn't miss it for the world. She starts getting a bit emotional telling me that she hopes she made the right decision marrying my friend. I tell her that she shouldn't be thinking about these things on her wedding night. She gets a little bit more emotional and asks me if circumstances were different, would I see myself with her. I didn't really know how to respond to that so I said "Look, Andy's my best mate and you're his wife but above that you're also a close friend of mine. I can't answer that question least of all on this night". She starts crying and apologizing. I give her a hug thinking it would just calm her down. Soon as I embraced her, she leans in for a kiss. I stopped her and just told her "Think about what you're doing right now". She pulls away wiping tears and goes back into reception. CONTINUED