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Hey /adv/... Since i dumped my gf years ago, i have been trying to get back on track. After getting over her, i started lifting, running, learnt to drive, traveling, playing vidya and basically doing everything i wanted, i got my life back. But i have a huge problem, talking to girls. I just cant fucking do it. I have seen the simple pick up videos and im trying to do things like that, but fuck is hard. I cant do shit. I go out, with my positive mind, excited, looking forward to talk to some girls, but as soon as i see one my brain fucks up and freezes. I start getting thoughs about "she may have a boyfriend" "she is too beautiful/ she is too ugly" "she looks busy" "she looks lesbian" You know pretty fucking stupid excuses. I dont want to get laid, i dont even give a fuck about getting dates, i just want to be able to talk to girls, i want to stop being scared of them, i want to feel in the same channel and able to start a conversation with any girl without even thinking about it. How do i fix my fucking brain? >inb4 an hero >been thinking about it More info: Im 28, dress ok i have sense of fashion, exgf said im not ugly, i had 2 gf before, 1 for 6 years, 1 for 6 weeks. Pretty much i call this woman phobia or something.
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I love my boyfriend and he'd do anything for me & told me he loves me unconditionally but yesterday he told me that he realized he still loves his ex (they broke up 9 months ago but they talk all the time). Him talking to her so often never bothered me but now I don't know what to do.. if he hasn't gotten over his ex, being with him isn't fair on both of us if he's too emotionally immature. Help?


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What are some ways of making money online? I have about a month so no long term stuff, just quick money


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Anyone have any advice on moving money / items from one person to another with no trace?


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odd fantasy

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Hey Advice, so im a 21 year old guy, and i have this fantasy i dont know how to deal with.. first off im tall and muscular and do get attention from girls, so thats not why i have this fantasy my ex first got me into it by making random comments about it, and eventually they started turning me on, they werent obvious or anything, just stories about other girls and what not well the fantasy is basically having a hot wife/hot gf, a gf that cheats basically, or acts slutty i dont know why, but the thought of having a gf act really sexual is a huge turn on i dont think i want this fantasy, so i need to ask: how do i get rid of? or is it something i should get rid of? if you dated a guy with this how would you feel about it? please state your gender so i know if its a girl or a guy answering, answers would vary between genders i assume
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Hey /b/ Have a thought here. My ex girlfriend is back home visiting for the summer and has left her car and her "roomate/brother" who she's probably fucking on the daily behind. I was wondering if I should go there and destroy her property because her car means her world to her and to fuck up this roomate just cause

Fire, and it is Hot

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Dear /Adv/ How do I stop myself from setting myself on fire? I realize shooting myself would be faster, but I can't help the idea that setting myself on fire would be better. Actually, I'd like to set myself on fire, then shoot myself to ensure my death, since I've apparently learned through research that self-immolation doesn't always kill. Gone to suicide "counseling" weekly for months, and I've made virtually no progress. I don't see a point in living any further. I'm 30. I'm tired. My job is crumbling every day. I live in a roach-infested, mold-ridden house I can do nothing to fix. Life is not going to get any better. What good is reaching out if you can't stand on your own power? Nothing but a burden. If I make a fire hot enough, I can burn my own remains to less than ashes. It'll be like I never existed. Tired of fighting. Tired of resisting the reaper every morning just to get up. Normal people don't have to deal with this shit. Normal people don't have to exert effort to stop themselves from wanting to die on a daily basis. I can't remember the last time I went more than a week without thinking about killing myself.


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I asked my GF to promise me she would never use cocaine again and she was reluctant and told me to accept her the way she is. I blackmailed her saying she could choose to keep using and never talk to me again or stop using. She made her promise but she is mad as fuck. She knows I've had a lot of problems with this drug, alot of friends that got fucked up in life, my best friend even died in a car crash because he was so fucking high. She isnt addicted or anything she uses occasionally. Did I do wrong? I care too much about her to watch this kind of stuff silently
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Here's my situation. I like this girl and ive been texting her for about a month. The thing is im always the one texting her first and carrying the conversation on. I've been told that she was and may still be interested in me, but it really doesn't seem like that. She sometimes responds with 1 word replies. I was thinkin about asking her out for lunch or something, but wondering if its even worth it. Should I just wait and see if she bothers talking to me for once? If I was to ask her how would I do it? tl;dr people say girl is interested, but she doesn't seem to be.

Necessity and Importance of High School Courses

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How important and valuable are AP/IB/etc courses in High School? I'm a senior and I'm going to be a Computer Science/Math major at university. I've usually always been in advanced classes but I was never in the really advanced classes. I've been taking AP tests and I feel really stupid while taking them. I beat myself up a lot when I realized I've only taken Calculus AB and not BC like I should be in (I got dropped from Algebra 1 in 7th grade for being a lazy retard) or that I'm only taking Physics B and I'm pretty sure I bombed my exam today. My question is, does any of this really matter? I feel I shouldn't have such a low self-esteem
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How did you guys figure out on what you wanted to do with your lives? I'm 20 and in my second year of college, but I feel so fucking lost right now. People ask me what am I into, or what are my hobbies and the thing is I don’t really do much. If I’m not studying or working then I’m on 4chan, watching boxing, or listening to music. When I started college I wanted to go into graphic design, but then soon realized that it isn’t for me. Then I want to go into business, but people have told me that’s not a stable place to go in and that I should pick something else. The thing is that if I do go into business I'm not sure in which area of business I should go into. I know I'm still young and I've had a lot of people tell me that I still have time to figure shit out, but I just want to come up with a game plan before it's too late. I still do want to go into business though. Also I’ve tried talking to my advisors, but they’re not much help. Also, not being able to figure my life out has really fucked me over. There are days where I just don’t really do anything but sleep or just fuck around on useless things. My depression is starting to come back and so because of that my grades have dropped pretty badly. My gpa will probably be a 3.0 if I’m lucky. Even if I wasn’t completely depressed I still would have a hard time in school because I find it hard to focus and sit still. It takes me hours to finish reading a few pages from my book because my mind wonders off and then I have to re-read the pages because I completely forgot what I was reading.
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So guys, here’s my dilemma. >gf breaks up with me to date other guy >ok >life sucks for a bit >they both lie to me and fuck me over a couple times >decide that if I can ever do it, I’ll somehow strike back >not actively, just when the opportunity comes by >talk to girl for a week or so, get really friendly >a bit overly friendly >realize my chance >decide I’ll fuck her for the lolz and then her and her bf break up >confession of feelings >she “doesn’t know what to do” >we talk about our relationship and what we could do til like 4 am >agree to meet tomorrow evening to discuss what we do >realize my chance to fuck with her is here >but then suddenly, feelings >I realize that I don’t necessarily want to fuck her over, I’d date her again >going against all the promises I made to myself because she was toxic >I still like her >temptation to just be with her is strong >but at the same time, I’ll never forget that loneliness I felt after we broke up >starting to lose sight as to why I started this >maybes and what ifs everywhere >help me cute unrelated

Getting a crush out of your head

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>be 20, female >Halloween >meet guy, 22, through friends I'd just made >hit on him but he ignores flirtations >become fast friends >pry regarding his dating life >says he's been too busy with work to date >says he isn't sure what he wants regarding women >end up dating his best friend >they both move away after three months because they lose their jobs and it's cheaper to live at home >his friend and I break up because LDR sucks >talk to crush after the breakup >he lives six hours away in the middle of nowhere with shit Internet >he says we can still be friends >says the reason he didn't date me was because he didn't want to have to deal with an LDR because he saw the move coming >nobody had told me they saw it coming >he assumed I'd been told by my ex >ex didn't tell me jackshit about anything >keep talking whenever he has Internet >he's looking for a job in my area again >I've helped him with his search and just recently may have secured him a position via an acquaintance >he still wouldn't be moving back until maybe end of June I have a final on Wednesday. I need to study for it. All I keep doing is thinking about my crush. I blocked anything related to him on all my web browsers and haven't cheated, but fuck. I feel creepy as shit, I've had a crush on this guy since Halloween 2013 and the most we've done is hung out together and hugged a few time. I overanalyze everything he tells me. I pay attention to what songs he listens to on Spotify and whether they're songs I told him about or could be songs about me. I wonder about whether his "feelings" playlist, which is all emo stuff about girls, is about me. I already know what gift I'd make for him as a housewarming gift if he moved back. I've never felt this way about someone and it scares the shit out of me. I've never had a crush that lasted this damn long. inb4 just tell him, he ignores it when I bring it up.
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I have been dating a girl for the last couple of months. She has a Kid. I know the last relationship she had with the father of this kid was kinda violent, if you know what I mean. The thing is she acts kinda fishy and misterious sometimes and it makes me wonder how stable are relationships with a girl with a child. I am worried since she still keeps in contact with the father of the kid. I have not been able to really trust her. Should I move on?
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