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Hey /adv/... Since i dumped my gf years ago, i have been trying to get back on track. After getting over her, i started lifting, running, learnt to drive, traveling, playing vidya and basically doing everything i wanted, i got my life back. But i have a huge problem, talking to girls. I just cant fucking do it. I have seen the simple pick up videos and im trying to do things like that, but fuck is hard. I cant do shit. I go out, with my positive mind, excited, looking forward to talk to some girls, but as soon as i see one my brain fucks up and freezes. I start getting thoughs about "she may have a boyfriend" "she is too beautiful/ she is too ugly" "she looks busy" "she looks lesbian" You know pretty fucking stupid excuses. I dont want to get laid, i dont even give a fuck about getting dates, i just want to be able to talk to girls, i want to stop being scared of them, i want to feel in the same channel and able to start a conversation with any girl without even thinking about it. How do i fix my fucking brain? >inb4 an hero >been thinking about it More info: Im 28, dress ok i have sense of fashion, exgf said im not ugly, i had 2 gf before, 1 for 6 years, 1 for 6 weeks. Pretty much i call this woman phobia or something.
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I love my boyfriend and he'd do anything for me & told me he loves me unconditionally but yesterday he told me that he realized he still loves his ex (they broke up 9 months ago but they talk all the time). Him talking to her so often never bothered me but now I don't know what to do.. if he hasn't gotten over his ex, being with him isn't fair on both of us if he's too emotionally immature. Help?


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What are some ways of making money online? I have about a month so no long term stuff, just quick money


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Anyone have any advice on moving money / items from one person to another with no trace?


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Anxiety question!

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Hi adv I would like some help in managing a really annoying symptom of stress/anxiety, and that is something called globus sensation. This is a sensation that comes and goes, but is really annoying, especially when I am trying to go to sleep at night. I feel like there is a lump in the back of my throat, like about an inch above the Adam's apple or so, but on the inside. I also feel like I need to keep swallowing, like there is mucus or something in my throat. Now obviously there isn't: I have no trouble eating or drinking, but it is keeping me up at night because it feels very strange. I feel like I have to keep swallowing. I know i am not swallowing anything because nothing goes into my stomach and even though I feel the lump and "mucus" in my throat, when I open my mouth to breathe, my airway is clear. This is really annoying and I would like some tips on managing it, cause it is giving me a lot of trouble with sleeping.
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Hanging out with a friend pretty soon, going to get some food and then get drunk or something probably. Though she's pretty into me and might have the wrong idea and think it's a date even though it's not. She's a pretty cool person, but fat is fat. I just want to hang out with people more often because I've been pretty solitary lately. Would it be rude to ask a fat girl who clearly has a crush on me if she wants to be my exercise buddy? I want someone to bike or lift with. I also have this stupid plan in my mind that maybe she'll get fit and then something can develop from there, but that's probably really retarded.
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Hi /adv/, I think I might have some sort of dissociation disorder. For the past year and a half or so, I have been struggling with what I called an 'identity crisis.' After dropping out of college (wasn't motivated to do any of the work), I took a summer off to really gather who I was and what I wanted from life. I realized that I had been following my parents' wishes to go to school, get a job, take out a student loan, etc. "Going through the motions." I've made several posts on here about feeling like I was emotionally disconnected from the rest of the world. Feeling like everything was surreal or just foggy/distant. I didn't feel any strong emotion with the recent passing of one of my close relatives, a romantic relationship that ended didn't bring me any joy or sadness when it was over, and several other life-changing events happened that just didn't phase me. Lately, I've been showing signs of depression: lack of motivation, excessive sleeping, pessimism, etc. I've also been really close to having emotional breakdowns at work. When anyone asks me what's wrong or is just like: "Hey, are you okay?" I get all teary-eyed and have to walk away, even though I'm pretty sure I'm fine. >So basically, (TL;DR) I have done some research about dissociation and I think I've finally hit the nail on the head and figured out what's wrong with me. My only question is: "What now?" What can I do to help besides/in addition to getting professional help? I know that seeking a therapist/getting on a medication can help, but what other things can I do in my day-to-day life to help me feel more real, and more connected? Also, feel free to share your stories of dissociation, if that applies.
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My boyfriend of 6 months is still close friends with his ex. They broke up 4 years ago and were together for 2, but she still texts him almost everyday and keeps asking him questions about me. His mom keeps accidently calling me her name because we look alike and have some things in common. He says it's no big deal, but it makes me very uncomfortable. She lives in another country but comes here 2 months a year in which she wants to hang out with him all the time. He still keeps stuff from her. Should I be worried adv?
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Going to ask out this shy cutie I really like tomorrow. I've been trying to get a moment alone with her to ask her out for a while, I think I've got a shot tomorrow. Just going to converse with her a little bit and then tell her "Hey listen I really like you, could I take you out next weekend?". Sound good to you guys?
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Fucking jews? how much money do I need for a gf? go on, how much does it cost?
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How do I make friends? I never feel the urge to go up and talk to someone because it seems weird and strange. I do want to make more friends though. help
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>10:30am every day mailman drops mail threw door into house >dog flips shit and barks aggressively and rips up mail >had to put gate around front door to save mail >everybody sleeping or at work so no way to stop dog >come back from college and my mom hasn't done jack shit about it >now it's basically an instinct for the dog How do I recondition? Should I just put up an outdoor mailbox because there is no point in reconditioning something that's been allowed for a year now?

Ask A Homemaker!

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Tips and advice on cleaning, laundry, cooking, gardening, pet care and long term relationships! I usually only post every two weeks or so, but I'm home bored today, so let's do this!

Ex-lesbian girlfriend

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My girlfriend was a lesbian before I met her and although shes dating me, ahe constantly brings up the fact that shes "soooo gay" and how hot woman are and how men are nasty blah blah blah, should I be worried? She won't leave me for a girl, and if she does it went affect me to hard, just want opinions. Pic not related.
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