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I spend a lot of my free time... 9 posts and 0 image replies omitted. Click to view.
I spend a lot of my free time with some good friends of mine. They're amazing friends, but they have so much better shit going on in their lives. Right now my life consists of: >Monday - Friday going to college during the day, just sitting in my room playing dota all night >Every weekend I make a massive effort to travel and see my friends for the weekend, whoever's available, to do whatever And for a time, I am happy. But then when they wanna go to sleep and I leave to go home and my week starts again I'm miserable. Because I resent my family due to childhood shit and hate living at home with them. And I have no interests or activities to enrich my life and make me a more interesting person so I have some actual stories to tell my friends. I feel like I just sponge off of my friend's lives. And when I go home and hear them discussing their busy week ahead full of interesting things they care about... And I have nothing I am nothing, just a sponge. How do I become my own person, develop my own life. Im tired of living this depressing sham of existence.
Should I ruin the girl on the... 15 posts and 0 image replies omitted. Click to view.
Should I ruin the girl on the left? I have one or two pics that could end her social life
My girlfriend and I ended up... 20 posts and 0 image replies omitted. Click to view.
My girlfriend and I ended up getting in another fight, one that defines whether or not we're in our relationship. I ended up cutting myself for the first time in years. My first thought was "oh god, why did I do that I'm so stupid" But then a feeling of calm, relief, and familiarity washed over me. I feel do relaxed. Who cares if we broke up? Who cares if she goes back to her past self? She's a filthy slut, and I don't give a fuck. I love how cutting myself makes me feel, and I don't have a single worry or care right now.

ambivalence is my natural state

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I came home from working out of state during the summer. My only two friends, who are engaged and were to introduced to each other by me, introduced me to their new friend, who is a pretty girl, clever and a good conversationalist. She is kind of a slut. We went to a few parties as a group and continued to hang out as a posse of sorts. On new years eve we kissed a few times and she curled in my lap with her head cradled under mine as my friend and I played Mortal Kombat. We briefly made out later and slept on a couch together. Since then she hasn't really shown any interest other than just talking to me, her body language is now closed off and distant to me, won't sit anywhere near me if she can help it, yet when our eyes meet she looks away quickly, and I usually catch her looking at me or meeting my eyes multiple times. I don't get it. Did I scare the shit out of her or something? I'm not aggressive, I make a point to only talk to her when I see her irl. I don't get blackout drunk around her either. I apologize if I come off as selfish. I'm really interested in this girl but I'm wondering if I should continue pursuing or just settle with being eternally uncomfortable around her since I can't cut my losses as she is one of my friend's bffs, like I said.

The formalities of acquaintanceship/friendship

The formalities of... 3 posts and 0 image replies omitted. Click to view.
What do I do in order to get more friendly with a person? And how do I become better friends with the friends I have?
Hey /adv/I'm kinda stuck... 2 posts and 0 image replies omitted. Click to view.
Hey /adv/ I'm kinda stuck right now, and I have been for a while. I feel like I've pretty much ran out of options, and I'm tired of it all. For a long time I knew that something was wrong with me, I just never knew what. About 2 years ago I started to become very suspicious that I have Bipolar disorder, which I later learned that my father has. Then, about a year ago I sought help from a psychiatrist, and was diagnosed with Type II Bipolar disorder. I was prescribed risperidone (and anti-psychotic drug), to help control the fluctuations in mood and energy. The drug worked great at first, and I was pretty satisfied for a couple weeks. But then, it began to drain me. I felt completely dead inside, had lost all goals and motivation, and just kind of floated from place to place not doing much of anything, just existing. I was prescribed an anti-depressant to help counter-act the effects of the risperidone. The anti-depressant helped a bit, but I still don't feel like myself. The drugs have seriously affected my character; I am not spontaneous anymore, I am no longer creative, and I don't even have dreams when I sleep anymore. I have a very difficult time enjoying myself, and actually feeling like I'm living my life. However, as miserable as these drugs make me, they are helping me to just barely scrape by in school. Before I was medicated, my school performance was atrocious. It is still not very great, but it looks like I am going to graduate this year if I can stay afloat. I'm not entirely sure what things are going to be like if I go off of the medication, so I have two choices: -Stay on medication; remain constantly derealized/depersonalized for several more months, and most likely graduate -go off of medication; feel better, but possibly not graduate high school
Do i need to have been a... 5 posts and 0 image replies omitted. Click to view.
Do i need to have been a straight A student to go to school for nuclear engineering? How much does that sort of thing generally cost?

Dorm relationships

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How does one keep a relationship when one partner moves into a dorm and the other doesn't?I just helped my girlfriend move into her dorm today and it took everything in me to not take her away from it. Everything about it scares me, mostly the amount of single guys there. I know that I shouldn't be insecure, but sending your partner into a Lion's den like that has SERIOUSLY unnerved me. How do I control my fears and maintain an awesome relationship?

Tell me something to move on

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Hello anons, long story short: fiance broke up and moved to a different city. 5 years together. I'm a 6/10 super introverted she's a 9/10 (it was a miracle lol). Living in germany, don't speak the language. 100% alone. I'm 27 male starting my master so unemployed, breakup affecting my studies. Tell me something nice or how to move on please. I have tried going out to meet people a couple times but nobody speaks or feels comfortable speaking english here wtf. Just say something nice internetz
I want to kill myself because... 12 posts and 0 image replies omitted. Click to view.
I want to kill myself because I have no money to survive. Any advice?
>at party... 13 posts and 1 image replies omitted. Click to view.
>at party yesterday >through friends meet girl >start talking, going well >shes ;laughing at my jokes and stuff >we start dancing, positive signs, were getting close >go for a kiss, doesnt respond >couple minutes later balls up and tell her "we should kiss" >shes like sorry, no >im like okay, i move on just start dancing with friends >she comes up to me and starts dancing close, touching me again That kept happening al night, what the fuck happened? I figured she either was using me for attention or had a bf. I have her number too.
Hello /adv/... I lurk here a... 7 posts and 0 image replies omitted. Click to view.
Hello /adv/... I lurk here a lot and rarely post but here goes... So today was a sunny beautiful day and everything seemed wonderful I was on a bus going to another city. In one of the stops my ex gf got on and at first I didn't realize it was her. When she got off I saw her face but I'm pretty sure she didn't see me. All these feelings of the past are torturing me... I want to see her smile again and all that other beautiful stuff. It's killing me. How do I cope with this? halp.
/adv/Felt like trying D&D... 2 posts and 0 image replies omitted. Click to view.
/adv/ Felt like trying D&D ONE time and I have no previous experience with it. What's the best way to go about it? I probably have 3 other people who'd like to play once.

College Friends

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Four friends. Friend A) Had a crush on, asked her out, was told we're no longer friends .. Friend B) Cross dresses and sexually touched someone ... Friend C) Has Asperger's syndrome and has been spreading rumors about me ... Friend D) Is friends with all three of these people So A. B. and C are like cancer to me. But friend D is all I have left. I don't know what to do. I feel so alone. If I continue to be friends with Friend D I will be forced to have interactions with the cruel people I very much dislike and that gives me a mix of anxiety and anger and sadness as well, longing for the past.
Hey /adv/, you may remember me... 17 posts and 0 image replies omitted. Click to view.
Hey /adv/, you may remember me from last night. I cummed into unpulled foreskin and now my semen is trapped at the top and it feels like a painful water balloon. I went to sleep hoping the problem would go away but it's even more painful now, what do you advice?
>This will be the last week... 12 posts and 0 image replies omitted. Click to view.
>This will be the last week where I play video games all the time and get drunk on the weekend. >Week passes with no changes >And another week How do I stop being such a weak-willed piece of shit?
should i help my girlfriend... 1 posts and 0 image replies omitted. Click to view.
should i help my girlfriend out financially? >met at university 3 years ago (both worked at restaurant on campus) >"dating" for 2.5 years >she's 1 year older than me >i "graduated" last winter with my b.s. in comp sci >she graduated 2 years ago with her b.a. in psychology >i got a decent job (54k/year annual gross) right out of school >she's been working near minimum wage as a desk attendant at a hotel >wants to go to graduate school (for psychology) so she can get a job in her field >her already existing school loans are absolutely killing her with interest she pays for her share of everything we do, but i'm kind of wanting to like "gift" her several thousand dollars to help pay her loans so the interest doesn't keep adding up. i normally wouldnt even consider this but if she's constantly poor all the time it starts affecting my life
Hey /adv/, it's been a... 9 posts and 0 image replies omitted. Click to view.
Hey /adv/, it's been a while. I used to be in a relationship, I'm not any longer. I was gutted, Im not anymore. So, Friday, I was at this flat party, I met this pretty awesome girl. She seemed game, I was game as well, and eventually we kissed. She was pretty drunk by then, I was too. She was more drunk than me and she was complaining about her state a lot, which made me feel uneasy because I didn't want to be too pushy and make her do things she didn't want. So when nearly everyone was gone, I let her rest her head on my shoulder, we kissed a bit more, and that was it. When she left, I asked her her number and she wasn't reluctant. She basically smiled, said yeah in a cute way and seemed to insist when I told her I would send her a message. I'm over analyzing those things. I'm always scared shitless of being abusive and creepy... Yesterday, I sent her a sms asking her how she was doing, and she answered a bit bluntly, like "yeah I'm fine !" (I mean, she didn't start a conversation or something...) The thing is, she was really cute, really smart, and I'd really like to see her again. So I was over thinking, and a few seconds ago I sent her a message, saying something along the lines of : "Hey ! I'm going straight to the poing : I really had a great time with you on Friday, regardless of our drunkenness. Would you like me to take you out for a drink some time ?" What are my chances /adv/ ?
How do people find the time to... 6 posts and 0 image replies omitted. Click to view.
How do people find the time to hang out in coffee shops? I'm NEET, and I feel antsy just thinking about wasting time in public.

Acne Problems

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I don't have what one would consider a pizza face, but rather acne spotted around. I have about 3-4 pimples at a time and rarely have a completely clear face. How do I get rid of these few? Every time a few go away, a few more pop up, and thats it, again and again. In other words, how does one clear acne?
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