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Hey /adv/ do any of you know... 5 posts and 0 image replies omitted. Click to view.
Hey /adv/ do any of you know what causes that shitty stabbing pain under the rib cage? It lasts anywhere from a few seconds to nearly a minute in all my experiences. It happens at completely random times and I don't think it's associated with exertion. Also, do any of you get it? If so do you have any tips to clear it? Sometimes taking tiny breaths really fast helps or taking one massive (and extremely painful) breath as fast as I can.
How do I fix my life when my... 32 posts and 0 image replies omitted. Click to view.
How do I fix my life when my parents ruined it? I was a bright, energetic, friendly kid. I had everything in the world in front of me. Since my parents marriage started falling apart when I was around 10, I became depressed. I no longer understood the world around me and thus lost friends, no longer participated in sport (so now I'm small and unfit) and became terrified of everything. I'm 22. I went to university because I felt I should, but I did a useless liberal arts degree out of guilt. I despise myself. I've now just been convinced to take a programming job because "you shouldn't turn down opportunities" but the idea of programming for even a day fills me with utter contempt. I'm only doing it because I can, but I fucking hate it. I'm wasting my fucking youth. I've slept with two girls but each time I came early because I'm fucking pathetic.

My first breakup, can /adv/ help me

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OK help me out /adv/ . My girlfriend of 1 year just broke up with me over the fucking phone, but im going over on Friday to make it official. Here is why shes breaking up with me >been dating since the start of of summer after hs >college >it becomes a LDR > I dont consider it a LDR she lives 1 hour away from me >she said college changed her for worse and she need to "find her self" >bullshit, but i talked to her more, she has been faithful throughout the relationship >she says she is sorry and that she needs to do this for herself and find who she truely is. >im pretty much here with my dick in my hand alone. >fuck im sad, this literally happened 10 minutes ago >I was her first everything, handjob, blowjob, anal but FML still a virgin >fuck now what? This sucks /adv/ this is my first relationship and i dont know how to go about this. I cant really talk to anyone about this sort of shit, which suck even more. What to do /adv/? The good thing is that we never had a fight and she says I was "to good for her." she said she was undeserving of my love. Should i try to convince her to stay with me? But another gril has been recently txting me, should i rebound, this quick? Pic semi-related
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Is it bizarre that I have trouble staying focused? I mean, literally keeping my eyes in focus. Sometimes if I'm looking at my professor for too long or at a block of text my eyes will just fall out of focus and I have to look at something else and let my eyes readjust before I can look back. This has only been a problem in the past few months, but it's fucking weird, and it's never happened to me before. Also no, I'm not just tired and half falling asleep. I'll be attentively listening and watching and all of a sudden have my vision go out of focus, and it'll happen 5-10 times an hour. Maybe I'm causing myself to do this, idk... Pic kinda related, it's like staring at one of these for too long and getting a bit dazzled and not knowing what to focus on. But instead of a black and white gif it's the projector screen, or my professor's face.
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Is trivia a good first date idea?
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Ok, so a work-friend of mine has recently been dumped from a long-term relationship, and despite hardly knowing her, I decided to give her an outlet and someone to talk to. Fast forward a week later, involving non-stop texting all day, and I've kind of found myself in a relationship; she's fallen for me and she's made that obvious.Now, it's not like I don't want this, but it's not like I set out to get into a relationship, either. We do genuinely get along well and have good chemistry, but it's all so quick and unexpected that my head's in a spin. Do you guys think that this is just her on a rebound (both emotional and physical)? Has anyone else found themselves "accidentally" in the beginnings of a relationship like this, confusion and all? Advice would be appreciated.
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How do I into studying? I haven't been to school in 11 years, and when I did I never studied or paid attention in class. Now I'm starting school and I have no idea what the fuck I'm doing. Say I get a paragraph of shit. Do I read it over and over until I understand? Do I hammer at just the most relevant parts? Or what?

Stupid Bullshit Forum Drama...

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What then flying fuck, I don't even know what to think of this situation. So here's the scoop: I'm quite close to this cute girl on an online board, we both kinda like each other and such, and thus playfully flirt from time to time. So, about a week ago, someone made a joke pairing between her and this other dude, and well all laughed it off, we made jokes and all that jazz, etc.. etc... However, then the dude wouldn't drop it, he's known for being obnoxious with joke, but her kept going on and on about the two of them getting married and such... to the point where it was getting creepy, and she was uncomfortable with it. Personally, I was getting annoyed, as the joke was in poor taste right off the bat. So, after putting up with it for FAR too long, and since they guy wasn't gonna let it go, I politely asked him to drop it, and pointed out that it was getting creepy. The girl in question liked my post to show she was thankful SOMEONE finally put an end to it. So the guy BLOWS UP on me, starts saying all sorts of shit about me, saying that I'm disgusting and a bunch of other stuff. Saying how dare I call him out in public, and the forum isn't my club to run. I calmly tell him to cool it down, and that his actions were immature, that he was overreacting. He then proceeds to ignore me, and things just go silent for a while. Me and said girl talk about this whole ordeal commenting on how immature he was about the whole deal, since I tried to set up a group conversation between the three of us to sort things out, but he refuses all my approaches at settling peace. She then remarks on how upset she is about all the nasty stuff he said about me in public, and since she's a mod, that she'd give him a piece of her mind. cont...
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My current girlfriend is a pothead. While I don't give a shit about weed or care if people smoke, I find it to be extremely juvenile. I stopped smoking once I left high school and I feel like she should have done the same. We haven't been dating for long, and I would never ask anyone to stop something they didn't really want to stop doing. I did openly say that I think its a shitty habit and that she should consider dropping it. Is it wrong to hold something like this against someone? It seems like a big difference in values for me. Almost as if she's still stuck in her teens.
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Why do women throw tantrums? as In things males would never do/would go to jail if they did. question for femanons in particular
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Why are guys approaching me more now that I have a boyfriend? Have I become more attractive now that I'm unattainable? Is it because I've been meeting more guys through my boyfriend, because they're casually hitting on me all the time. I never really had guys approach me before, but I started dating this guy about 3 months ago and now I'm constantly getting told I'm "cute/pretty/beautiful" by guys when I'm in class, at work, at a bar with my boyfriend. Before I'd only get hit on by black guys, now white guys my age actually find me attractive, what the hell. I've always had pretty low self-esteem, I think it's ugly duckling syndrome. I used to be rather goofy looking in middle school/high school and never got over that stigma. I'm not going to leave my boyfriend for someone else, I just find this whole situation weird. Are guys more attracted to women when they're clearly taken?
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Poorfag here, the transmission for my car broke down last week. I've checked at a few places and they all say it's going to cost around 3 grand to fix. Thing is, between rent, car payments groceries and other bills I have, I only get to keep about 20 bucks a month out of what I make, so paying that kind of money really isn't an option for me. The car costs me 300 bucks a month, and I still owe about 9 grand on it. Am I gonna be stuck paying for an undriveable car, or are there ways I can deal with this? My job is 20 miles away, so it's not like I can just not have a car. Also I should mention the title is not in my name, it's in my dad's and younger brother's names, I took it off my brother when he lost his job a year back. I suppose I could just dump it back on them and walk away but that'd be pretty shitty.
OK so I have a hot girlfriend... 5 posts and 0 image replies omitted. Click to view.
OK so I have a hot girlfriend in a stable LTR, unfortunately she's gone out of the country until September. Last time this happened she ended up sleeping with some other dude she was working with, there was a lot of drama and I came close to breaking up with her but I decided to forgive her after a very long discussion because she seemed genuinely contrite and since then has tried to do her best by me. Now, the dilemma. I put an ad in Craigslist looking for people to hang out with so I have a replacement for the social life I lost when my girlfriend left, and a young woman got in touch. A 14 year old young woman. Who wants my dick tomorrow morning. I believe this is the real deal. So what should I do? I love my girlfriend to bits but oh my god a slutty 14 year old.
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I just applied for a scam job. It didn't occur to me immediately because I don't often apply for jobs. I gave them my number, my address, and the name of my bank. Can I expect any future problems with my divulging of this information?
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Hey /adv/, Simple question here. I'm a university student in my first year, and I need money quite bad. I may have an opportunity to do (straight) porn that will not be distributed in my country. Should I do it? What do I tell my parents?
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>Be 21 >Obvious beta faggot or else i'd have gf by now Aside from a girl I was into since 2009 (unfortunately for too long, only stopped liking her for good last year), I haven't felt the same way about anyone else since. Most recently I started to get into another girl, but my interest in her faded rapidly in the new year, so I didn't see the point in progressing. Plus she has a boyfriend who I get on with. But anyway, I don't know how to have a relationship if I: 1. Have little motivation 2. Lack in confidence
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Is this an accurate depiction of blowjobs?
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Hey /adv/ a few questions about women. First of all, I'm a generally good looking guy, I've been called hot, cute, etc. Somewhat intelligent. 120 IQ, not that that matters at all, anyways. How do I go about attracting drop dead females, I pick up anywhere from 6-8s usually. I'm trying to get the 8's+. I'm confident, however a little quiet, which I know isn't a good thing because attractive quiet people come across as stuck up. What can I do to start talking to the hotter women of society? Just walk up to them? How? What do I say? pic unrelated.
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So my wife just turned into a radical feminist and refuses to do the deed with me ever again... My hole world is crashing in on me now. What can i do to convince her after 10 years of fulfiling marrage to just stop being a radical feminist who thinks all male and female intercourse is bad?

Why the fuck can't I get a job

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Alright /adv/ I'm 19, White, Graduated HS I've sent 30+ applications in and followed up on almost every single one either meeting the manager or calling. WHY THE FUCK CAN"T I GET A JOB what the hell do I do? How can I increase my chances? I >Dress nice >Speak properly >Stand straight and confident what am I doing wrong?
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