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My bf is friends with this... 13 posts and 0 image replies omitted. Click to view.
My bf is friends with this girl who lives very far away, and every time he brings her up, he goes on about how she's really sweet, and what a hard life she's had, etc... They've been friends for 4 years according to him, and he claims that she's been someone he would lean on when he was having a rough time. He says that he probably wouldn't date her because she has bipolar, but just the way he talks about her... Sometimes it feels like he loves her more than he loves me. He always remarks on how she was raped and so on and so forth and that he wants to help her cause she's always helped him, and that selfless devotion he has for her... I just feel like it shouldn't play a role when he has me. I mean, we've only been dating for 6 months but still. I'm here, with him, and I feel like she takes away from US, even if they only talk/email each other... It feels selfish to tell him to stop talking to her, not to mention, it'd probably make him angry if I did. He's very defensive of her, since according to him, because she's bipolar, she doesn't have many people with whom she can confide in, and she cherishes her friendship with him. He says she's like family to him, and not to worry, but again, she's not family, and seeing him and her (I've read some of his messages) care so much about each other makes me feel like I'm not good enough to fulfill his emotional needs... What do I do?
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what does honesty get you?
Girl wants some space.How long... 12 posts and 1 image replies omitted. Click to view.
Girl wants some space. How long before contacting again?
/advToday me and my gf are... 12 posts and 0 image replies omitted. Click to view.
/adv Today me and my gf are going to a clinic to get her on the birth control pill. Were both 20, so none of that sneaky shit of trying to go behind parents' backs or anything, but she's shy so I'm kind of trying to figure out exactly what it is we need to do to get her a prescription. Basically, all I know is the location of where I'm going. It's a health center that is part of a hospital, and I know they take walk-ins, and I know they're open till 7. I just don't know what to do other than go up to the front desk and say 'uhhh we need to see a specialist about getting her on the birth control pill'. I've thought about calling, but I don't even know what questions I'd ask. If anyone can walk me through what the fuck I'm supposed to be doing, that'd be great. I feel slightly retarded. Thanks.
On Monday my right eye... 2 posts and 0 image replies omitted. Click to view.
On Monday my right eye developed pain gradually while wearing my contact lenses, the pain wasn't bad so I didn't think anything of it, but I did take the lens out and skipped wearing them yesterday. Today I put my contacts in again and the pain grew really intense over five hours, taking the lens out was really painful. My eye grew somewhat pink and turned really pink (see picture) when taking the lens out. It's back to white now but still feels sensitive sometimes when I blink. Could this be pinkeye? I don't think so because there's no pink anymore. I have a annual appointment with my general practice doctor tomorrow so I'll ask him then.
Wife, kid(5), and I live with... 2 posts and 0 image replies omitted. Click to view.
Wife, kid(5), and I live with parents who have a winter home in the south for most of the year. I have a shitty low paying part time job, wife has part time job with kid's school. Wife fills up all her free time with college. One friend, who has started hanging out with wife more than I because they are both in same college. Im wracked with insane fits of frustration and anger. So mad i cant think or see straight. Yell at daughter for nothing and feel awful for it. Wife has barely talked to me recently. Keeps making poems for class that view signifigant other poorly. I cant talk to her about anything eithout her getting upset. Friend wont talk to me or if he does, tells it all to wife and causes problems. I feel trapped and depressed and get so stressed out that i just wander around the house finding fault in all i percieve and end up angrily shouting and fighting the urge to just lash out and break things. What the fuck.

To be or not to be...

To be or not to be... 11 posts and 0 image replies omitted. Click to view.
I am in a new city... No one knows me here... I don't know if I should pursue fulfilling all my sexual fantasies with strangers. I'm a nice girl but I have a lot of sexual tension built up inside.

Serious thread

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This isnt a bullshit girl thread. its more serious than that. first i'll tell you all about my life and then the problem. I'm a 20 year old man who still lives at home. I live with my mom, her mom, and then her mom. So its 3 generations of women just to be clear. All three receive disability benefits. My mother is legally blind, and the other two are legit disabled. After high school I went to a university online for a year, and dropped out after financial aid wanted me to withdraw HUGE loans. I've been job searching ever since I dropped out of college. No luck since I live in the US, and even more bad luck in my state. I live in a small ass town of less than 1000 people and the nearest mall or walmart is 35 minutes away. Heres my problem: how do I get my life on track? My wants are relatively simple; I want to move out first and foremost. I want my own vehicle. I want to support myself. Its VERY discouraging to just be alive in my town. everyone leeches of the government and does drugs. Its also hard to keep confidence with my chronic depression and constant panic and anxiety attacks. So /adv/, will you please give me a sense of direction? something to look forward to? also, I was so down about my life a week ago i just went ahead and applied for disabled benefits myself. I dont know what to do anymore. help.
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First time I'll ask for advice here. Maybe some of you could help me, if youte attempt to have a greater career than turning some patties at McDonalds. Currently i work as a detailed design engineer in the break between my semesters (studying mechanical engineering ). I signed a one-month contract which included a payment of 3000€. Two days after i signed i had a emergency surgery and they removed my blind gut. I only were able to work 7 out of 20 workdays so they paid me like 800€. Here in germany laws about payment and the rights of employees are quite strict so i could easily sue them for the money. I just dont know if i really should go that way or just turn around and never work for them again. Please note, I'm doing really good at this job for a few years in full time and now in part time. Is it ok to be mad, should i talk to them about this? Nobody talked with me about that, they just did it. Sorry my english isn't the best, hopefully you wont tear me in half.
So I'm a freshman... 10 posts and 0 image replies omitted. Click to view.
So I'm a freshman Electrical/Computer Engineer with a minor in computer science. All through high school and middle school I never had to try hard to get A's and graduated with 4.0 GPA. Currently going to a college for a full ride provided I maintain a 3.0 GPA. My first semester was pretty easy, the only hard class being my introductory electrical engineering class and calculus. Now its second semester and every class is each except for calculus again. I'm really having a hard time grasping concepts of infinite series and sequences in Calc II. I failed two quizzes which don't count for much, but I've been thinking that I don't really enjoy doing math anymore than basic calc. There's too much work with weird integrals and trig properties I was never taught and it worries me that I'm going to have to take two more semester of HARDER math after I pass this with at least a C-. I got through calc last semester with a high B, but knowing that things are going to get way harder with my horrible work ethic and lack of motivation make me unsure if I want to continue with engineering. I'm just really confused as to what I should do with myself.

Boost Brain Performance

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Hey /adv/ How do I become smarter? I wanna improve memory and increase IQ.
So tomorrow is the day.... 5 posts and 0 image replies omitted. Click to view.
So tomorrow is the day. I'm getting my firs tattoo done tomorrow, and I'm extremely excited, but I have one thing that I must ask of you fine people of 4chan. To be stoned, or not to be stoned? Pic related, what I'm getting on my back right shoulder blade except without the calligraphy.
My gf keeps duckfacing and... 5 posts and 0 image replies omitted. Click to view.
My gf keeps duckfacing and ruining every picture I have of her. Would it be a good idea to tell her to cut it out, or would it potentially be unnecessary drama?
hey /adv/,I have a huge crush... 4 posts and 0 image replies omitted. Click to view.
hey /adv/, I have a huge crush on my doctor and I just scheduled another appointment with him next week for birth control. I actually just want to see his face again, I miss him so much and I have been thinking about him constantly. He is 30 years older than me, but has aged very nicely. Should I ask him out for coffee or should I see some kind off therapist? Honestly I don't think it is so abnormal to be attracted to someone competent, kind, and handsome..
Two years left in my degree, I... 3 posts and 0 image replies omitted. Click to view.
Two years left in my degree, I fucking hate university, need a job of some sort, my hate for university is starting to reflect in my grades. Wut do?
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> girlfriend of 3 years moved away to work > lives with family > has much better life there > we had a rough few months before she moved, but the rest of the relationship was amazing > she broke up with me a few days ago > says she can't give up her family (all her family are there, none here) Even though she's fucked me over, I'm lost without her. I basically begged her via text message, she said it was over. Claims she still loves me, that no other guy is involved, etc I plan to wait a few days, catch a train up to where she lives and make a proposition. Explain the past few months were rough, but it's normal in a long term relationship, I'll tell her ill visit every week, get a job there and move near by. Excuse my overwhelming betaness and just tell me if you think this soppy bullshit would work on a girl? We haven't seen each other in person for about 4 months, I feel she's just got over me since I'm not around.
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Best sex ever? Sex stories? General sex thread? I also want to know anything that could help make a girl cum harder. I love nothing more than making my girlfriend writhe in ecstasy and claw at the bed sheets.
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So I'm 21 and still a virgin and I really want to lose my virginity this year. Unfortunately, i'm pretty clueless as to how to escalate relationships. I'm pretty good at becoming acquaintances with girls but I never really figured out much outside of platonic friendships. Anyone have any tips? This may seem like a stupid question but I really don't even know where to start :/ thanks /adv/
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How do I stop being so jealous/possessive over my boyfriend? He's a very social person and tends to be flirty with people and even though I know he wouldn't actually fuck anybody it makes me so mad and even more so when the other person initiates it (which is most of the time) and I don't want to, like, suffocate him.
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Hey /adv/ I have a question obviously. My glasses broke but I jerry rigged them to sort of work. But I noticed I get these piercing head aches on the right and sometimes left side of my head. Could it be stress related or because the glasses may not be properly adjusted? I ask because I overheard some Paramedics talking about how if you had headaches you might need new glasses.
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