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Hey /adv/... Since i dumped my gf years ago, i have been trying to get back on track. After getting over her, i started lifting, running, learnt to drive, traveling, playing vidya and basically doing everything i wanted, i got my life back. But i have a huge problem, talking to girls. I just cant fucking do it. I have seen the simple pick up videos and im trying to do things like that, but fuck is hard. I cant do shit. I go out, with my positive mind, excited, looking forward to talk to some girls, but as soon as i see one my brain fucks up and freezes. I start getting thoughs about "she may have a boyfriend" "she is too beautiful/ she is too ugly" "she looks busy" "she looks lesbian" You know pretty fucking stupid excuses. I dont want to get laid, i dont even give a fuck about getting dates, i just want to be able to talk to girls, i want to stop being scared of them, i want to feel in the same channel and able to start a conversation with any girl without even thinking about it. How do i fix my fucking brain? >inb4 an hero >been thinking about it More info: Im 28, dress ok i have sense of fashion, exgf said im not ugly, i had 2 gf before, 1 for 6 years, 1 for 6 weeks. Pretty much i call this woman phobia or something.
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Girl flirts with my heavily, asks me out. I'm too scared to go for lunch with her. My self esteem is low I feel I'm not good enough. How do I stop being so nervous?
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It's been around 3ish weeks since my ex and I broke up. I really loved her and for the most part, I'm over the situation but when I'm home alone, or when my mind shifts to her...it really hurts and I kinda miss her. How can I get over her quicker? I hate this..
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I'm uploading stupid unfunny Let's Plays to YouTube. Sometimes there actually is something funny in those videos. I'm creating short videos out of those moments. Now, should I upload these clips to another channel or to the same channel? inb4 underage b&

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hey /adv/, I'm a 21 year old, 6'5 210 lb able bodied male. I have no life beyond league of legends and smoking weed i didn't pay for, but thats the up side. In high school, i blacked out on xanax/kolonopin/vicodine and booze, broke into some cars and stole random worthless items ( bottle of tylenol, newspaper clippings, etc...) just to be arrested and charged with multiple counts of felony destruction of property, theft, and many other charges. i spent time in jail for it, and got mandatory drug rehabilitation, 2 years probation, and a few good months in jail. i got through my jail time, attended my probation meetings for a few months, then my probation officer recommended i complete my rehab, or she would revoke my probation. i put myself into the rehab center, only to be forcibly kicked out of high school senior year, because the rehab center only communicated with my high school once in the entire 56 days i was there and my school assumed i dropped out. (on a side note, i was never enrolled in drivers ed, because sophmore year i switched schools and had to make up physical education credits because i had been enrolled in the J.R.O.T.C. in place of pe) during my free time, now not being in jail, on probation, in high school, or in rehab... i picked up the habbit of smoking weed and drinking both as regularly as possible, and thus ended up getting arrested for under aged drinking... and some how getting my license suspended for 2 years, even though when i was charged, i was out behind my friends apartment having a cigarette... never even once in a car or any where near a car when under any influence at all. so now i owe a few thousand in restitution for my black out, a few hundered to "reinstate" a license that ive never had the luxury of having in the first place. so my question is, What can a 21 year old male with debt up to his neck, no job, no car, no license, no diploma, no money, and only the bed in my mothers basement, do with his life, if anything...
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Moved out of home 4 years ago because crappy go nowhere hicktown. Tried studying > Now hate my degree's direction which changed midway through the course, only place that offers the same course but in it's prior form is 14 hours away. Deferred because shitty housemates have left me thousands in debt after failing to pay rent and bailing on me. Have a casual job but can't find full time in this awful economy. Only guy I love atm is with a girl but says he's trying to end it but she's emotionally blackmailing him - believe him because I knew them both before they were dating and he's not exactly alpha relationship ending and she's crazy. Finally break and ring up parents crying because I don't even know what to do anymore. >Anon that sucks, please just come home, we'll pay for all the moving costs and you can be happy. We're away every 2 weeks anyways and you can look for a job up here'. Don't wanna go back to nowheresville where there's even less of a chance at a full time job and I know nobody. Guy I love will view it as an ultimatum, call me selfish for trying to get him to end his relationship early and manipulate him into one with me. No chance of continuing my degree if I move back. Also my stepdad is a dick and even spending two weeks with him is hell > constantly belittles everything I do while he's a flawless 'adult' with a drinking and gambling problem who tries to control my mother. What do anons? Try and wait it out here in a possibly growing worse situation or let my mum just bail me out and move to a town I hate with no opportunities for growth? I feel like such a failure.

tell me why I should/shouldn't move to Alaska.

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I'm a 24 year old Australian male, about to graduate comp sci undergrad and probably move onto software engineering postgrad - I'm assuming this makes me pretty employable. me and my wife own our house and whilst we like living here we are always haunted by the fact that nobody in this city ever goes anyway. It's like the kind of place underachievers come to die. We enjoy that in the sense that it makes for a cosy place to live but we resent it at the same time and want to move on to bigger and better places. 4 years ago I started working in japan for a while and we decided we really liked it there as a way to escape the australian summer so we travel there every year now. As much as we secretly dream of living there we know it's not sustainable, the big cities are especially toxic and miserable to live in. We aren't really 'seriously' considering immigrating, not for now atleast, it's just something we talk about all the time because we both know deep down we want to get out of here in the next ~10 years at the latest. So somehow we came to Alaska a while back, we jokingly talked about moving to canada a lot but I've always felt I wanted to live in the states - I'm a massively tall solidly built white man and everywhere we travel i feel like such a freak, she's korean so she fits in in places like Japan whereas they are absolute hell for me. I mean that's not the only reason, but that's just an example of why I feel I'd be at home in the US. Plus we love the cold , we love mountains, we love snow and we love everything we know about Alaska. Which is to say we don't really know much at all! I think we have a very romanticised view of alaska so, just for the hell of it I'd like your thoughts on moving to Alaska, keeping in mind I would probably need to find a job there and we would want to start a family. >How do I move to the US, is it even possible? >Is Alaska as liveable as I think it is? >Where else in the US would be a nice place to settle down?
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/adv/, how do you handle a situation where you want to get more intimate with a girl after dating for so long but she "wants to get to know you better"
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Guys, I am thinking about starting a thread on /adv/. Not sure if this means I am a failure in life or not. Ok, going to push the button now.
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Does anyone know if this's a good forum to learn about a sociopath? http://www.psychforums.com/antisocial-personality/ I heard real psychopaths talk there? If you know of a better way let me know. Thanks.
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I'll just cut to the chase. Film, music and gaming have always been my 3 kind of major career interests, I've pretty much completely ruled music out, but I am still interested in film and a little bit gaming. The thing is, my plans for doing something film/media related are pretty vague, I've looked at a screen and media course at tafe (I'm still doing year 12 by the way) to do after I finish school but I'm not sure. My friend recently sent me a link to this career kickstarter thing, he's planning on getting a Diploma of Digital and Interactive Games, the course is apparently free and it's 18 months long. I don't know if I should do it, I'm interested in it but I feel like if I'm not completely passionate then it's a waste, I know this isn't setting what I'm gonna do with my life in stone, it just feels like a really big life choice and I'm really worried about it.
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How do I stop myself from thinking on bad memories? Pic related, what I wanna feel like.
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My son is 4 years old and very shy. He is quiet around the other kids and basically only feels comfortable around one and speaks to him normally like he does to us parents. He is a healthy normal child other than that. I feel so shit, like a failed parent. I don't know anyone in this town for him to play with. I don't speak to my relatives since they commited got me into financial debt before. Tips? The doctor said it's not unusual for kids to be shy, but idk, I feel like I need to do something.
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Why can't I remember any of the material I learned 3 months ago? I did loads of exercises, and I always got them right on the first try. Is this normal?
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How can i do a girl with boyfriend to date with me and cheat on he?
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how do I get a girl for a one night stand ?
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Hey adv I need advice. What to do about fear of making mistakes? Cause: I feel that if I don't achieve something difficult very quickly, that proves I'm unworthy. I associate success and failure with personal worth. Effect: Creativity gets hindered. Initiative disappears. Procrastination begins. I build up frustration and eventually decide I'm not good enough and give up without having even properly tried and failed the necessary amount of times. Paradox: the very tension born from fear of failure is what stops me from enjoiying what I'm doing, which in turn reduces my ability to find solutions and be creative about it Strategies: I try to speak to myself and rationalize stuff but basically it keeps happening Solution: ???
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hey guys, I have an appointment on friday with my doctor who I have an intense crush on. I am getting wet just thinking about it. The appointment is two days away and I am getting overly excited about it. What should I do? I am extremely horny and would like for him to do another exam on me [breast, vagina, and abdominals]. I think he demeanor is really cute/sexy and I have a thing for manly guys.
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I've always wanted to date a Japanese girl, (I know... its awful) and my friend has a Japanese friend who he set me up on a date with, the thing is, shes nothing what I thought she was, shes overweight, really pear shaped, she wears weird clothes and wears her make up really weird... She speaks japanese but she apparently doesn't like to anymore, prefering to speak broken English in a thick accent. She also doesn't like Anime and Manga and draws western style comic art. She also only seems to play old American version games, and Dos games... My friend told me shes awesome and sweet, but shes not the kind of Japenese girl I want... What do I do? do I go for it anyway? or do I try to get out of it... and how do I get out of it?
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I've had a shitty day /adv/ and I need your help. There's this qt exchange student in 1 or 2 of my classes and I really like her. Were actually in a group project together and I don't really have any problem talking to her there. However outside of the group work I don't have any contact with her and I'm too beta to talk to her one on one without coming across as autistic. I had a chance today and I chickened out. Now the regret is fucking me up. I'm gonna be seeing her again tomorrow maybe. So, how do I approach her one on one or just not related to college work?
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