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Hey /adv/... Since i dumped my gf years ago, i have been trying to get back on track. After getting over her, i started lifting, running, learnt to drive, traveling, playing vidya and basically doing everything i wanted, i got my life back. But i have a huge problem, talking to girls. I just cant fucking do it. I have seen the simple pick up videos and im trying to do things like that, but fuck is hard. I cant do shit. I go out, with my positive mind, excited, looking forward to talk to some girls, but as soon as i see one my brain fucks up and freezes. I start getting thoughs about "she may have a boyfriend" "she is too beautiful/ she is too ugly" "she looks busy" "she looks lesbian" You know pretty fucking stupid excuses. I dont want to get laid, i dont even give a fuck about getting dates, i just want to be able to talk to girls, i want to stop being scared of them, i want to feel in the same channel and able to start a conversation with any girl without even thinking about it. How do i fix my fucking brain? >inb4 an hero >been thinking about it More info: Im 28, dress ok i have sense of fashion, exgf said im not ugly, i had 2 gf before, 1 for 6 years, 1 for 6 weeks. Pretty much i call this woman phobia or something.
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So I roleplay sometimes on the internet and in online games. A player I've become attached with as a good friend constantly fed me information to make me believe they were a girl. Using numerous "OOC - Out of character" references to girl stuff and having a vagina. I recently found out on my own it is in fact a dude after curiously googling their username and linking two together. Now I'm not saying I'm upset because there's no romantic potential I'm just pissed at being lied to. I told him thinking it was a her things I wouldn't tell another man. Would not tell my best friend who is a total bro. How should I approach this? Do I ask them why? Do I just block off all contact? I considered them a good friend but this lie at the start of our friendship is really bothering me. I can't help but feel there's an ulterior motive like hoping I would have bought them games or send gifts. Alternatively... have you ever pretended to be a girl for free shit in MMOs?
So my girlfriend and I got... 8 posts and 0 image replies omitted. Click to view.
So my girlfriend and I got into a disagreement about something, and I wanted to know if someone could give me a little input as to where I'm being taken as wrong. I'm going to be applying to graduate school in a year now, and I said I wouldn't be applying to top colleges like MIT, SOCAL, etc, because I know my limits, and I'm not a top tier student. I'm good at what I do, but I'm definitely not a top tier student. She get pretty pissed and said I'm selling myself short. I completely disagree and think It'd be a waste of time and energy just to get rejected.
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>Be me >getting out of college in a year >Looking at jobs >Found one I'd be qualified for >"2 years of previous experience in field" How serious are employers about this? I'm not planning to apply since the whole "year away" thing, but I want to know for when I get out of here what complications I should expect? By the time I graduate, I will meet all the requirements of this job application, save for the 2 years field work. I have an internship currently that deals with a couple of the listed necessities to acquire the job, but not the major ones (in my opinion). If I need to give more information let me know. I prefer being vague on the internet unless I need to be specific.

Should I ask him or keep it to myself

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>be a grade school student, bored as fuck >Helper goes to work >Her children are there >Suddenly a wild hot 15 yr old high school student >Eldest son of the Helper >Asked him to go to my room, still bored as fuck >locks door and curiously tugs his pole w/ shirt >it was hot in the room >the teen shrugs and takes it off >mfw that body, not muscular but still attractive >still bored and my innocence doesn't make me react to it >touch his chest and stomach >the teen doesn't notice >I reluctantly tugged his pants >the teen laughs and takes it off >mfw I see his green, military-print and tight briefs >innocence blocks perversion >never talked about it to him >Helper is close to mom, so I see him and he joins trips >we never even talked one about that So, should I tell him or keep it to myself...sorry for the slightly NSFW post
How to spend time with gf when... 6 posts and 0 image replies omitted. Click to view.
How to spend time with gf when no money?
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I'm a new cashier at Walmart with depression and anxiety, currently having withdrawals from Zoloft. I'm giving this a job a minimum of 3 months before I quit. Any words of encouragement to help me maintain my sanity?
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I just got back from the office for my nutrition and healthinsurance shit. I said something pretty retarded and I'm worried they'll go digging. I was asked who gives me shit like cloths and shampoo. I stupidly said "I use my sisters shampoo" and I was asked if she lives with use which I then said no she doesn't. I changed the subject quickly mentioning things like if you mean like my bed and washing my cloths my mom would be who you should talk to. Then she asked instead of her number, my moms number and she called her and verified everything with her. All my shit was re approved and i got everything back like I had it before. Also something that might be worth mentioning is I said my sister pays my cellphone bill. Now I'm really stressing that they'll go looking for my sisters address or someshit, would they really do that?
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I have had this red spot on my nose for so long (about a year) now and I do not know how to get rid of it. I think it may be a broken blood vessel from research, but one can never be too sure. I also have broken blood vessels around my right ear. I rarely drink, and am currently on psycho-stimulants (Adderall) to treat my ADHD which does spike my blood pressure a little. Does anyone have advice and/or experience with getting rid of these? Thanks guys.
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5'7 (in b4 manlet) 184 lbs. (230 lbs this time last year) 25 year old virgin I've been depressed for a very long time, but I've been getting help and I've been cleaning up my life, Have a job now and will likely be able to finally move out in May. I also have had a very unsightly brown birthmark lasered off my face (you might be able to see some of it still in the pic) I feel like I've improved so much, I understand everything now. Love comes from within, for a long time I forgot how to love. I was a monster, I realize now that THAT was why I wasn't having success with women and in life. I feel like I'm finally healthy enough to start pursing a real relationship... but I'm so scared Because of my birthmark, Dating has really only been a realistic option for about 2 months. I've had dates but they've all gone horribly I have no idea where to start, what to do, how to do any of this. I've been so wrapped up in my own head and sick for so long. I've been trying to accept that it wasn't my fault, I was born with a deformity and I was sick (depression runs in my family, both sides) I already feel so much better then I used to...but I want more, I want a life... Where do I start? How can I possibly have a relationship if I have no experience at all at 25. I need to learn things normal people figured out when they were teenagers. how am I ever going to find a girl that will be willing to put up with my ignorance and guide me, help me, no woman is going to want that... It sucks because I'm actually getting better... but I think it's too late to have a normal life.
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>go to party >don't know anyone there >at door >greeted by girls >one girl very attractive keeps looking at me and smiling >she always passes by and looks at me with deer in the headlights look and smiles at me >she eventually starts talking to me about stuff or doing random stuff to me >she asks me to say some sexual phrases >she says she likes the way I talk >she gets me a drink in the kitchen >she comes up to me later and says "YOUR JAW IS SO CHISELED" >say "thank you...that's a compliment" >immediately realize I have to grow some balls and flirt back by doing flirting things >later on in kitchen stare at her up and down >see she starts biting her lip and biting her finger while looking away pretending not to notice >tell her she's "attractive" >she says its her "genes" >we dont say much >she eventually starts walking out of the kitchen >touch her by the arm and she faces me >Grab her hand and stroked it >put my hand on her cheek and stroke it >hoping this would make her horny and ready to kiss me >she just walks away after I do this like im a weirdo
Let's get a survey thread... 303 posts and 0 image replies omitted. Click to view.
Let's get a survey thread going! >age >gender >country >number of sexual partners >an interesting fact
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I would like to hear from those of you whom are at least a little successful on dating sites. I've tried them in the past and usually give up after a couple of weeks. I want to start a new one, but I'd like some general advice. This is generally what's happened in the past: >Post profile >Message people >Get about 1-5% response rate >Reply to messages >Get about 1-5% response rate of what's left >Suggest hanging out >Get <1% response rate >Hang out >Nothing in common/not person in picture/gained 1000 lbs >Message more people >Get <2% response rate What I'm asking is, what does your profile look like? (Links to profiles are preferred.) Do you have a 'game plan' when messaging people, or do you wing it?
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I dropped out of high school after 10th grade when I was 16. I got my GED the following month. I attended community college but quit after two horrible semesters. I've been working minimum wage jobs ever since living with my Dad for free. I want to skip community college and try to get into University my freshman year. I've been studying my ass off and recently got a 29 on a practice ACT. I want to take the real test soon and my goal is 30. What type of colleges could I get into? I want to go to UVA since it's close to home. It's the nation's #2 ranked public school. I want to dual-major in Finance & Accounting. Is it realistic to get accepted to UVA or should I try a smaller school? I am 20 years old.
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/adv/ I require your assistance. So here's the details inb4 I dun goofed inb4 OP can't inb4 >Have crush on girl >Talk constantly >Tells me she like me >We get really close >Going to date >FuckYeah.jpg >She is never able to hang out, and I call it out >Starts a huge fight >She gets really pissed off >Tried my hardest to make it up to her >She seems to be better >Ask her to go out for breakfast this morning >She says she needs some space to get her emotions in order >Really like her; don't want to lose her >Also don't want to date if we never hang out >ShitNigg Pic related: Me if I fuck this up. Wat do?
I've read that going on... 5 posts and 0 image replies omitted. Click to view.
I've read that going on an 'adventure' can help you get more out of life. Where in the world would be best to just wander around towns and villages, not really stopping other than to sleep?
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Super Omega Beta Thread Pic related. Not really expecting advice. I just want 2 good ears to listen to me. Or 2 eyes in this case. Get it? Because you are reading not listenting but you are technically listenting to... sigh. Nvm. >>Girl breaks up with nignog >>Finds interest in me >>Date for 4 weeks >>Share fun times, share depressing secrets >>Bring her to my house. >>Makeout like monkeys >>She finds out I'm a masochist >>She thinks it's cute >>(I thought it'd be cool since she was "raped" when she was younger, so having the roles switched might have helped) >>Told her that I love her >>"I want to sleep with you" >>Use all my beta strength to carry her to my bed >>Suck on her neck >>My dick was rubbing her pussy with my boxers and her leggings in the way >>"Stop!" She yelled while pushing me away. >>I stopped. >>Walked her home. 1 quiet weekend later >>She goes back to nignog >>She was only on a "break" from him >>Send 1 final text message like a faggot beta. I really hate how pure honesty and truthfulness can be so easily ignored by "rape victim" sluts whom are only seeking pleasure from dick. Oh the irony. I made my message clear that I wanted a relationship and since we were already comfortable with each other, I would have thought she had already forgot about him. Nignog penis wins again. Maybe she was never raped and I was just a booty call. Me being the young 19 year old shut in that I am, still have the mentality of being a "one gal guy". Maybe 2 more women should break my heart before I start having sex with every bitch I see. I'm willing to listen to any of your stories as well.
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My boyfriend can't stay hard when we try to have sex...we've been together 3 years and live together. We used to have great sex every day the first year, now once a month if I'm lucky. I weigh 115 and look pretty much the same as when we started dating, better actually; so that's not it. I've tried to talk to him about it, he gets really defensive and dismissive, saying "sex isn't everything" etc. I'm thinking the next step is slipping viagra in his coffee. Will that do the trick?
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So, I'm sure many of you have experienced this sort of thing before. I've been in an exclusive relationship with a 22 year-old girl (I'm male, 25) for just under three years now. In the past year or so, she's mentioned being interested in an open relationship. Finally, after this issue came up a few times, we talked about it and agreed that she try it with sex being off limits. She was fine with that restriction. According to her, she just wants to experience the "first kiss" feeling again, which she no longer gets with me now that we're very familiar with each other. She's met a guy who is also in an open relationship, and they have been spending time together (as friends, according to her) for a few months now. She's only kissed him, and she says I have nothing to worry about as far as anything beyond that goes. I guess I've just been feeling very insecure about this entire situation, and it sits on my brain in some way everyday. I don't really know how to approach this, but it's a problem for me and I feel that she's been interested in this specific person for a long time. I'd really appreciate your thoughts and any advice. tl;dr - Me, dude, 25, in no-sex open-relationship with 22 year-old awesome girl for three years. She's been seeing the same guy for months, no others, and they've only kissed. It bugs me, a lot, what do I do?
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