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Hey /adv/... Since i dumped my gf years ago, i have been trying to get back on track. After getting over her, i started lifting, running, learnt to drive, traveling, playing vidya and basically doing everything i wanted, i got my life back. But i have a huge problem, talking to girls. I just cant fucking do it. I have seen the simple pick up videos and im trying to do things like that, but fuck is hard. I cant do shit. I go out, with my positive mind, excited, looking forward to talk to some girls, but as soon as i see one my brain fucks up and freezes. I start getting thoughs about "she may have a boyfriend" "she is too beautiful/ she is too ugly" "she looks busy" "she looks lesbian" You know pretty fucking stupid excuses. I dont want to get laid, i dont even give a fuck about getting dates, i just want to be able to talk to girls, i want to stop being scared of them, i want to feel in the same channel and able to start a conversation with any girl without even thinking about it. How do i fix my fucking brain? >inb4 an hero >been thinking about it More info: Im 28, dress ok i have sense of fashion, exgf said im not ugly, i had 2 gf before, 1 for 6 years, 1 for 6 weeks. Pretty much i call this woman phobia or something.
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I know absolutely nothing about speakers and I don't want to be ripped off. What are some nice speakers that sound really good. I'd prefer not to spend more than $50 because I'm poor but is that an unreasonable goal?
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Is my gf getting too clingy/invested in our relationship? She calls me like every day or every other day to just talk to me even when she was with me most of the day don't get me wrong I like talking to her but she's never been the kind of person to call people first or want to talk to people at all really. Our interests are completely different and she's always hated football but has been trying to talk to me about it/watch it with me and I'm like...I also went on her computer she has "NFL Beginner's guide to football" and she's been like studying the teams and it seems really weird she's never ever liked football and called it stupid/useless all the time when we were friends and now she's like trying to become some expert on it? Idk how to react here she's always been really firm in her beliefs likes/dislikes etc why is she doing this

Question for coin collectors

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What are the most popular boards for numismatists, especially ones just getting into collecting? TIA.
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condom broke what do?
So I have to make a simple... 14 posts and 0 image replies omitted. Click to view.
So I have to make a simple compare/contrast essay(300-500 words lol). Give me some ideas. It's basically to prove we can write a compare/contract essay.
Driving Test Tomorrow Any Tips... 9 posts and 0 image replies omitted. Click to view.
Driving Test Tomorrow Any Tips /adv/?

Mah niggas!

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Hey /adv, I am 18 and recently got braces (December). How should I deal with. Spring break is around the corner and I look like a 12 year old with a 25 year old's body. I have a baby dace and this just makes me look like a retard. I'm like a 7ish normally but now I feel like a 2. Chicks still check me out and shit but as soon as I open my mouth I feel like a fag.
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I'm trying to start my own business. Nothing big or worth quitting my day job over, but still something I like and will help fuel my other hobbies. I needed help however and tried finding cost effective and reliable ways for things to work. In most cases, I had friends of mine who could help me out and wanted to have a hand in this. However these friends aren't too smart or experienced, not really talented, and have screwed up their own businesses on multiple occasions. Some even tried dragging me into their businesses and got upset when I pointed out illegal issues they were forgetting or turning a blind eye to. Granted I just need to obtain things from them and dont actually need them, but I know that Ive quit talking to some simply because of how much they fuck up and beg me to help them out, and that they really want to be a part of anything they think has a chance to succeed. I dont know what to do. Im kinda hesitant to open up relations with these people again.
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I've been a semi-vegetarian (still eat fish occasionally) for a while now and thinking of going back to eating meat. It's been maybe half a year? Would I be fine if I went out an ate a chicken burger right now, or should I work my way up to that?
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How does one become able to wake up before 12pm and not be dead tired by 5pm?

Lost in paradise

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So me and this girl used to mess around and, she has a bf now. We stopped talking for a minute but neither one of us could shake each other because we both do love each other, but I wasn't ready for a relationship. He cheated on her and stopped having sex and I came back around, I'm involved with another now as well I kind of have strong feelings for. So we sex in private, but won't seem to actually get together. Should I stop or just love her and the other seperately.
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How do you study?
>Girls I like don't... 3 posts and 0 image replies omitted. Click to view.
>Girls I like don't give a shit about me >Girls I don't like are obsessed with me How can I reverse this situation?
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I have an anger problem. I have always been of the oppinion that you should try to remain calm under all circumstances. The perfect individual would never allow anger to cloud their vision. But I get angry at the smallest things. Things that most well-adjusted people would simply laugh off, actually make me fly into a rage. Small inconveniences can make me lose my shit, to the point where my thoughts turn murderous and I actually think killing myself would be easier than "dealing with all this shit". Looking back at all the times I have felt this way, I am actually embarassed with myself. This is not how an adult should behave himself. Now I try to block all anger, at all times, even when it might be justified. Why am I so easily angered? I like to imagine that I have some mental disorder, that would at least mean that I am not just a hot headed asshole. Anyone else suffer from anger attacks?
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How do I get over loneliness? I have a job, a wife, and a kid. I don't have any friends, and I don't really have real conversations with people at work since everyone's 20+ years older than me. We can't really relate to each other about anything except about work, since we're at completely different points in our lives. They're all settled with kids in college, and I have a toddler. They have outings with each other, and sometimes they openly invite everyone, but it seems weird to go out and drink with people who are only a few years younger than my parents. I've never really had very many friends, and even in college I never went out. If I did manage to make a friend or two, my then-gf would get pissed off and start a huge argument and I would end up not hanging out with them. It's sort of like this now with my wife. She does the same thing, where she claims she doesn't have any friends and uses that as leverage to prevent me from having any. In reality, she has at least a couple, and she has more family to talk to (the cell phone bill is proof- I talk only to her, and she talks to tons of people and uses a ton of minutes). It sounds like a silly problem but I've gotten so lonely that it's driving me nuts. Before I had my kid, I had a couple people I talked to once in a great while. But after my kid was born they had this attitude like "welp he's got a kid now, he needs to be at home and not talk with us", etc. It makes me feel like I'm defective, especially since my relationship with my wife isn't the greatest any more (we don't have sex, I can't really say anything meaningful without pissing her off so it's all small talk and talk about chores, etc). I don't know, if I had sex it might be a little better. I just kind of feel like a robot who has to fulfil his duties, like going to work, getting groceries, helping with the kid, etc. How do I work to make this better?
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>28 >went out on a date >single mother >This has happened for the past 4 times I know 4 is a very small number, but I think I'm going to die alone now. Some of these girls are as young as 22 with kids already 3 years of age... I'm going to the wrong places to meet women. Happy hour isn't working.
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I had a small panic attack yesterday. Through out the week, I seemed to avoid all conversations with people and stayed in my room all alone. I just did nothing. I tried playing games but felt bad for not being productive. I tried working on something on my PC but couldnt focus. I tried reading or learning something new and the same thing. It just got to a point I would just stand in my room staring at nothing for hours and became increasingly anxious trying to do anything. I even tried thinking what was bothering me, but focusing on it got me more stressed and anxious and I just avoided it. Eventually I forced myself into a social situation. I freaked out when anyone asked me questions or wanted me to join them and simply just sat on the sidelines and spoke only for a few moments and went back to being quiet. This worked. Some reason not having pressure to talk or do something was great and I got over my stress and anxiety. I dont know what causes these to happen and it happens here and there. I really want to deal with this because I have jobs and activities that require me to be social and responsible, but this crap all the sudden pops up and I fear like hell about having to do anything
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I'm at a time I could really use some advice or maybe good words. >wanted to be a doctor throughout entire HS >parents want me to become a doctor >had this mindset but recently thought that I really don't know anymore >not that good with chemistry, biology is alright >my best subject is english and literature (Eurofag) What I'm feeling is if I try very hard I might just might get into studying medicine but I feel I may fail and then be a wreck. On the other hand I know I'm scared as hell that if I pursue my love for literature and english I will end up with a shitty job or no decent employment for life. Anyone have any words of advice I might use?
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So I think I might be bipolar. I want to get professionally screened because I'm desperate to know, and I was wondering if being diagnosed will fuck my future career prospect as it requires me to have a fuckload of responsibility.
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