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Hey /adv/... Since i dumped my gf years ago, i have been trying to get back on track. After getting over her, i started lifting, running, learnt to drive, traveling, playing vidya and basically doing everything i wanted, i got my life back. But i have a huge problem, talking to girls. I just cant fucking do it. I have seen the simple pick up videos and im trying to do things like that, but fuck is hard. I cant do shit. I go out, with my positive mind, excited, looking forward to talk to some girls, but as soon as i see one my brain fucks up and freezes. I start getting thoughs about "she may have a boyfriend" "she is too beautiful/ she is too ugly" "she looks busy" "she looks lesbian" You know pretty fucking stupid excuses. I dont want to get laid, i dont even give a fuck about getting dates, i just want to be able to talk to girls, i want to stop being scared of them, i want to feel in the same channel and able to start a conversation with any girl without even thinking about it. How do i fix my fucking brain? >inb4 an hero >been thinking about it More info: Im 28, dress ok i have sense of fashion, exgf said im not ugly, i had 2 gf before, 1 for 6 years, 1 for 6 weeks. Pretty much i call this woman phobia or something.
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So /adv/, I did a really stupid thing last night. I got really drunk and hooked up with a guy. We didn't have any buttsecks but we made out and sucked each other off. I have never been attracted to guys and I'm absolutely disgusted by this now that I'm sober. So what should I do now? It's freaking me out and I can't stop thinking about it. Also he didn't cum in my mouth so is there any reason I should get tested for aids? TL;DR I got drunk as shit and sucked a dudes cock. wat do? Ugh. Never drinking again.
>Go on OKCupid for the... 4 posts and 0 image replies omitted. Click to view.
>Go on OKCupid for the first time in years after first relationship ever ends in a really bad manner >We met on the site >Its been over 8 months since we broke up >She left me a message a few months before she broke up with me on there and it was buried below a bunch of other messages >This is the note "You won't read this for a long time, if at all. But I wanted to tell you that I love you. That I've never met anyone as caring, as nurturing, or as loving as you. You've got the best personality I've ever seen in a man. Always be you. Never lose yourself. I love you so much." >I now feel like complete shit reading this >In a matter of two months or less she went from thinking of me like this to emotionally cheating and ended it What the hell happened? What's worse is the pain of this experience is changing me, its making me pessimistic and filled with anger and hate because I was far from ready for it to be over. I still had so much love to give, and then it just evaporated in what felt like a blink of an eye after 2 and a half years. Why would she believe all of this about me and just walk away? Why leave that? What do I take from this?
So, /adv/. I'll keep it... 13 posts and 0 image replies omitted. Click to view.
So, /adv/. I'll keep it short and sweet. I've been watching you smart motherfuckers for a while, and I've concluded that this would be a good place to find people for my social engineering project. There are a few of us now, but there could be more, and we need about ten more smart motherfuckers to start something good. We aim to take on a utilitarian idealism, by spreading the ideas of anti-censorship, generating a higher level of public dialogue, and making people more objective and more reflective. There's an email in the email field. Let me know if you're interested.
Tomorrow im going to be dumped... 19 posts and 0 image replies omitted. Click to view.
Tomorrow im going to be dumped by a girl ive been dating, we never became "official" bf/gf but we have been dating a lot. From one day to another she just fuckign changed, shit from day to night. During the day we were good then BAM stop talking to me, and ignoring me. Now she wants to "talk" to me I really gave her a shit load of time, and money. I think her ex came back form school and she got back with him. What should i do? how do i make the bitch feel like shit. tldr: getting dumped, what do?
>buddy asks for me to sell... 3 posts and 0 image replies omitted. Click to view.
>buddy asks for me to sell they're psp 1000 >set up ad for it >get replies >they take their time >fast-foward to tonight >get good friend of mine to trade them drugs for the psp >that's what the buddy wanted in the first place >finally get the games that he said he had >start running them psp can't read umd >tell them this >they freaks out pinning blame on me >didn't touch it turn it on or have games how do i'd break it >tell them to calm down through text we'll work it out don't do the drugs >they already did them >they start talking shit >i was drunk by then with my friends >pretty much cut him off, tell him to have the .5 by tmmrw So he's saying I need to fix it but I feel like I got no obligation to do it because of above story. Time to roll on him tomorrow or no because of muh morals?
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Is technique for eating pussy that's innie or outie any different? Went on a date with a girl that went great today, and she has an innie, which I've never seen in person before. Am I supposed to handle it differently? An outie is just all... out there so do I have to pull apart the labia now? Any help is appreciated thanks
I really feel like I need a... 12 posts and 0 image replies omitted. Click to view.
I really feel like I need a new beginning! Where should I start?
So I just had sex with an... 0 posts and 0 image replies omitted. Click to view.
So I just had sex with an escort for the first time. Not sure what to think of it. Has anyone on here had any experiences with escorts? Pic always related.
I am 21 and live with mom, I... 0 posts and 0 image replies omitted. Click to view.
I am 21 and live with mom, I have gone to a local university but I got burnt out for a number of reasons(depression and it wasn't where I wanted to be). I want to go to a bigger university a couple hours away but I'm not completely comfortable doing it alone and taking a full load considering my previous experience(also I might be aspie, I don't have friends, etc). What is the solution? I assume it will go well since I have my drive back and my depression has lessened but obviously I don't know for sure and failing again scares me.
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Is anyone here good with selling things? I've been trying to sell this Tonino Lamborghini watch through ebay and local Facebook buy/sell pages and literally nobody is interested. It's unused and worth $2100 and I'm trying to sell it for $800, but average people couldn't care less about watches anymore. Any advice on selling/a place to try and sell it? (I'm Australian)
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I'm trying to befriend this girl, what am I doing wrong? After she asked "what do you want to do" I sent her this and waited 40 minutes because I had nothing in mind really: http://howto.cnet.com/8301-11310_39-57606679-285/an-imessage-prank-every-iphone-owner-needs-to-know-about/ Also the champagne from sky is from this video she sent me awhile back: http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_detailpage&v=_PuzHKWYahw#t=51
I am a 21 year old male. I got... 9 posts and 0 image replies omitted. Click to view.
I am a 21 year old male. I got out of a 5 year relationship last June, so I have basically no idea how to go about dating. I haven't had much success with OKCupid in the past (a couple of awkward dates is all). . I have fairly high standards when it comes to women both in terms of character and physical attractiveness, so it is pretty rare that I stumble upon someone that meets my standards. Anyways, I checked my account today and this 8.5/10 had visited my profile and rated me highly. I checked out her profile, and she seems cool as fuck. So here's the question. How do I initiate a conversation with her without seeming like a weirdo? How can I peak the interest of a complete stranger without being awkward or seeming like a weirdo?

Trying to swap SD cards - need help

Trying to swap SD cards - need... 2 posts and 0 image replies omitted. Click to view.
So I'm trying to upgrade my SD card for my 3DS to a bigger one. However I'm running into a problem. I'm trying to put my data onto the computer to copy and paste it onto the new one but nothing is popping up or even seem to read it. Is there something I'm missing or another way to access it?
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How do you get a girlfriend?
I’m in a bit of a bind here.... 9 posts and 0 image replies omitted. Click to view.
I’m in a bit of a bind here. I am currently a senior in college and while all my friends are graduating, I won’t be because it took me so long to figure out what I wanted to major in, which was psychology. This was 2 years ago, but I’ve become less interested in psych for various reasons that I don’t want to get into and really want to pursue a degree in chemistry. This would require at least an extra year and a half of schooling. My parents have told me they will pay for tuition but not for room and board next year. My family is pretty strapped for cash at the moment. My dad has huntington’s disease and is probably going to have to stop working soon, so that income is going to be going away as well.
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I just broke down crying because a friend of mine I've known for a bit online told me to drink a bottle of drain-o. I don't understand, /adv/. Why the hell did that hit me so much? Is it because of other things happening in my life? I dunno, like my dad having one month to live due to stage 4 colon and liver cancer, my grandmother about to die, my dog just recently died, too. I loved that damn dog. Am I just too touchy? Am I sleepy? What the hell, /adv/..
I got a job offer but I... 9 posts and 0 image replies omitted. Click to view.
I got a job offer but I don't want it. It's in some woman's home office, she has 2 big dogs (I hate dogs), and she lives in a smaller town that's like 30 minutes away. I live in a big city but lately haven't found any good gigs here. It pays $13/hour and I've been unemployed since January. I usually get paid $15/hour but I'm getting desperate. Also the work is very beneath me for my experience and she requires a drug test and I smoke weed every day. Is it worth it or should I keep looking? Right now I'm barely making it doing odd jobs but since Jan. I've already gotten 3 job offers which I've had to turn down for one reason or another. plox halp
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I'm really sorry that this will probably be a wall of text, but I hope that someone takes the time to read it. I have been married for just over a year, but my husband and I have been together for over three years total. He is currently working in afghanistan as a civilian contractor. My husband is an extremely sexual person. I have known this since I met him, and while I am very open-minded and pretty much willing to try anything, I have an extremely low sex drive. I think it's likely due to my chronic depression, with which I was diagnosed at age 18 (i'm 26 now). However, even when I was on medication (which I have been off for the duration of time I've been with my husband, but have an appointment on thursday to likely get back on), my sex drive didn't really increase, so I wonder if I actually have a chemical or hormonal imbalance that is causing it. My husband gets extremely frustrated that I don't engage with him sexually more often, especially while he's away. We have an open relationship and for the entire time we have been together, I have felt that he is more interested in other people sexually than me. This probably contributed to my lack of attempting to "engage" him, because he didn't seem to want it. Before he left on this assignment, he would spend most nights up until 4 in the morning masturbating, either to porn or with people on webcam, while I was in bed alone. He cheated on me (which in our situation constitutes sleeping with someone else behind my back/ lying about it) three times that I know of in the past two years. Recently he has told me that he's interested in femdom and feminization, even expressing an interest in taking hormones to make himself more feminine. I was really taken aback by this and didn't quite now how to respond. I told him that if he really identified as female and felt he needed to do this, i would fully support him, but I didn't support messing around with hormones just for some kind of sexual gratification(cont)
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Hey /adv/, Please help me to decide what to do with my next few years. I'm 19 years old and currently in the first year of university. My course is a Bachelor of Arts in 'International Studies' which is basically history, economics, international relations, a language and some other crap modules like 'cultural studies' thrown in. I'm worried that this degree is going to be useless though and I don't know if I should change or not. I'm really interested in economics, history, international relations etc and wondered if there was anything more useful I could be studying. My main problem though is that if I wanted to anything to do with economics, I'd have to do a mathematics course first because I fucked up in high-school and despite getting good grades, I simply don't have the correct maths requirements. What should I do? Also, debt isn't a problem - I don't live in Murrca and university is cheap.
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