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Hey /adv/... Since i dumped my gf years ago, i have been trying to get back on track. After getting over her, i started lifting, running, learnt to drive, traveling, playing vidya and basically doing everything i wanted, i got my life back. But i have a huge problem, talking to girls. I just cant fucking do it. I have seen the simple pick up videos and im trying to do things like that, but fuck is hard. I cant do shit. I go out, with my positive mind, excited, looking forward to talk to some girls, but as soon as i see one my brain fucks up and freezes. I start getting thoughs about "she may have a boyfriend" "she is too beautiful/ she is too ugly" "she looks busy" "she looks lesbian" You know pretty fucking stupid excuses. I dont want to get laid, i dont even give a fuck about getting dates, i just want to be able to talk to girls, i want to stop being scared of them, i want to feel in the same channel and able to start a conversation with any girl without even thinking about it. How do i fix my fucking brain? >inb4 an hero >been thinking about it More info: Im 28, dress ok i have sense of fashion, exgf said im not ugly, i had 2 gf before, 1 for 6 years, 1 for 6 weeks. Pretty much i call this woman phobia or something.
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I have a really serious question to you guys. Whenever i'm sick, i got herpes near my mouth afterwards. Got used to that, shit happens. I got sick again like a week ago, today i'm taking my last antibiotics. I went fucking peeing and what the fuck do i see? Damn herpes on my FUCKING PENIS. It does not hurt or itch, so i was like "what the fuck is that shit" Last time i had sex was about 2 weeks ago, i used condoms but still i'm freaking out. I used the same ointment i'm using when treating that shit on my face. So guys, what the fuck is going on? Did i get infected with another fucking kind of herpes, or could it be that it is the same shit showing on my penis for some odd reason?
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I'd like to start using makeup, which is the best way to learn? I'm a bit confused since it's necessary to take into account one's natural features and all that. Or should I take a rl class? or just buying tons of stuff and experiment? My face isn't naturally pretty, by the way, that why I'd like to at least try pic obviously unrelated
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Okay /adv/ maybe your in the same situation as me. currently 25, so these days it seems more and more of my so called friends so to be cutting me out of their lives but its not as if they have it any better than me. People that useto talk to me now ignore or act like they dont want anything todo with me. I live an average life, work, gym etc, always had a girl here and there so im alright with women as I got old Seems as if they are jealous, why is this? Ive been told that I think that I'm better than everyone else but how? I feel as if im mentally stable and can always keep myself amused when ever it is needed. Someone tell me whats going on?
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I have ADHD, consequently I focus on things that aren't absolutely, 100% fascinating. Meaning I can't study properly. I can't take ADHD meds because they give me mad anxiety and brief psychotic episodes. So I've ADHD and can't take the meds -- and I need to study, badly. Does anyone know what I can do?
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hey guys i like small tits and short girls. petite :) but these days i've found myself obsessed and i found myself watching lolicon. if i keep feeding my perversion will i eventually turn into a pedo?
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I've been sent here from /gd/. I want to create an animated picture book where each page has a simple animation (eg snow falling or flowers moving with the wind) and the rest of the picture is static. I also wanted the reader to be able to turn the pages the way flash comics have buttons to do that AND I wanted music in the background. I know the very basics of After Effects but it doesn't seem to support all that at once, should I look more into it or should I be looking at a different program? The time I have for this is about three months. Thank you for any advice! (random picture completely unrelated)
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I need some help here. All my life i have been against internet romances, online friendships are perfectly and totally fine, but i cant think about a online love relationship working whithout two mature adult individuals, and this is not the case. To the point, i have this online female friend form other country, Mary, we talk a lot and we do a lot of shit together like talk on skype or play some bad vidya for shit and giggles, and we share the same exact opinion about online romance, too. But this backstabbed me really hard, as months ago I started to realize I am falling in love with her, don't get me wrong, I do have some good female friends irl, but this girls dedicates a lot of time and attention to me, and shows interest in my things, you don't have any idea how this attracts me. However, I can't tell her, I just can´t, I can´t tell her what I feel, it will be humiliating and i will never have the capacity of talking with her the same way ... What should i do? Block her? Erase her from facebook? I feel that I can´t just hold all these feelings for so much time... TL;DR I´m in love with my online friend, but I can´t tell her what I feel.
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Two weeks ago my best friend died in a car crash, he was only 18. I never had someone close to me die before, but I'm coping. What I'm asking about though is my other friend who was really close with him, they were also cousins, he's a bit younger and he's not dealing well with it at all. He told me this morning that he's just going to pretend that he never actually died and is still with him. I don't think this is the right way to cope. What should I tell him... please I really need advice from someone who dealt with losing a loved one... I'm worried he's going crazy
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I've been in a secret relationship for 5 years now. We engaged a few months ago and I thought it was about time to tell my family about it. Reason I kept my relationship secret is because of my close-minded family. All of my family is Turk and Islamic, and let this girl be the opposite of it. She's Dutch and an atheist. Everything my family hates. They find atheists worst than any other religion. I told my parents as first about it and especially my dad is pissed off as fuck. He doesn't recognize me as his son anymore unless I break up. All of my other family except for my sister doesn't look at me in the eye anymore. One time I invited my girlfriend just to give it a chance and see how they'd react. My grandma, uncles and my parents were there. They were being very harsh to her and said things like "a whore doesn't belong in this house" and "she's a gavur" (gavur = hateful word for non-Muslims / outsider). My fiancee decided to leave at that point and basically I told all of my family to go fuck themselves. My uncle got violent at this point and tried to attack me and make me apologize for talking like that. I was like nope and punched him the stomach and ran outta the house. This happened all 4 days ago. My sister is the only person that tried to reach me and have a decent talk. She's the only one that's not brainwashed. All of my other family doesn't recognize me anymore. What do I do? My family is far beyond understanding, but I love both my family and my fiancee.
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So /adv/. I've got myself a fwb Is it a common thing to forgo oral and shit with someone you mostly just met in case they have something? Whats the general consensus for hook ups?
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Four years ago, I neglected my social life as I simply grew tired of it. During that four-year period, I went to two or three social events that were not school or sports-related. I recently quit sports in order to pursue mathematics. I love math, and I am quite content with this choice, however, am I am not social at all. I have a reasonable amount of skills socializing, that's not where the "problem" lies (I don't really regard it as a problem), but I am fairly happy living life as I do now: doing math 10+ hours a day and working towards a good education. However, I am not a stereotypical autistic genius, so I have to ask: will this backfire?
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Here it is 4chan I've been with my gf for almost 2 years (24th July 2012) and last July, i started finding things out. We broke up on 27/10/12 for three months, apparently because her mother found out we were sleeping together. I found out last July, that she got another boyfriend less than a week after this. She then kept flirting with me, and telling me every few weeks that we were back together - but pulled out of any plans to see each other. This continued for three months, with me having no idea of what she was doing - apart from a conversation about 3 guys she was seeing from her school - not the boyfriend. We got back together 24/02/13, a week after i had finally given up and started seeing a friend from work on a FWB basis. I left said friend for her, after she guilted me, and generally cried and told her friends and everyone that i had cheated on her. Breaking things off with the FWB led to a chain of event where she tried to kill herself - jumped off a bridge - and was in a coma for several days, almost died. She remained my best friend throughout all of this. I've found out that the first few months of us being back together, she had told everyone that she was still single, and had hooked up, sent pictures and done things on webcam with multiple guys. All the while she guilted me with "You're the only guy i've slept with" I then found out about the cam things, which she told em would never happen again, she didn't know what she was thinking etc I acpeted that, because i didn't know better. Later, i found out about her bf she didn't tell me about, how she had in fact slept with him. I also found out that she cheated on me with 3 guys at a party we went to together, and she continued to see them for a few weeks after. She also got with another guy, at a party - whilst we were all in the same bed. I took her out the room and told her i wasn't comfortable and she went back in a carried on. cont
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Hey /adv/ I'm coming to a crossroads, i have to make a decision on what career i want to work. I'm in college, first year, and I am expected to either join the military, or leave the home, or stay in college. I haven't chosen a major, I have no idea what i want in life. I've tried the "find out what you like" quizes that counselors always give, and i have an average to high rate in nearly everthing, im a jack of all trades, and it's tough making a decision. Can you guys share your experience in making decisions on what field to pursue in the work world?

I she saying she likes me? Like... like likes me?

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>I am a bit surprised you have that insecurity, because you always seemed so confident, but it's a fairly normal one, I can't think worse of you for having it. Though to me it sounds silly, your rougher exterior can be off-putting to some, but I couldn't imagine why people who see under it wouldn't like you, even if not in a romantic sense. Though in a romantic sense too in some cases. Maybe I'm just biased. :laugh: Just try not to let it stop you from things, we're all the time building stuff up in our heads that's much milder, or just plain untrue in actuality. And know, the people who really know you like you, except for John atm who is dumb and has dumb reasons. And, even though it might disappoint some, I like you too. ^_^ Thoughts?
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For my boyfriend's birthday, I wanted to buy a figure of his waifu for him, but I'm hesitating because he already spends too much money on figures, and I think compulsive spending is his worst habit. Would I be reinforcing that habit by getting him that figure for his birthday?

Religion in relationships.

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Hey guys, i need some advice/opinions. >been with my gf for a couple of months now >really like her, she really likes me >she's kind of religious, raised christian, not preachy or anything like that though >she made it clear when we started going out that sex was unlikely as abstinence and all that >i said i was fine with that for now as i asked her out because i liked her, not because i wanted to fuck her >she did say that we can go a bit farther but full on sex is likely to be out of the question >going pretty well, but i'm getting more sexually frustrated than before >like her a lot still, but i'm worried this may become a problem Has anyone here been in a relationship with someone religious before, or has someone religious been with an atheist? How have you dealt with this?
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23 years old. M. Start started the morning glass of whiskey already. Not attending college while watching all my friends graduated and now looking for work has begun my depression. My depression does not relate to them accomplishing something but them not being my friends anymore because of my ability and lifestyle not learn. (also got in trouble with the law and but later got that expunged) During the years of 19-23 years i worked for software company that everyone knows that is free. That company happened to start their sales team for their entire worldwide sales. I got on the phones with only one thing to do is learn. I wanted to speak to a stranger and demand them in a suble and nonchalant way to say Yes. I will tell you the # of licenses I would need to purchase for my organization with X amount of $ as a budget. Boom! Purchase order, comission check. 6 grand a month at age 21. Now I moved onto another role in company as the sales team grew with more reps and more responsibilities. 500k in sales, total 55k after tax that year alone. i brought from my days as a software rep at 21. My advice that leads to the long awaited question is this. Will these so called friends in my eyes see me as the same person if I become a figure that does posive funny some say "stupid" or "pointless" things and also make songs about it by playing an instruments and sing in front of camera that so happens to make 7-8 figure views? Reflection: having a solid 9-5, making money does not win people over. It just makes them hate you more.

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Hi /adv/ I have a night shift and it should be relatively slow. So let's have a nice GoodGuyGreg's Advice thread so I have stuff to do in the meantime. >Review I'm a 23 year old regular guy from Czech republic. I've had the luck of having such life experiences that taught me how to behave in many social situations. I grew up in a hotel, which forced me to make new friends quickly. The high school I attended, with a 1:9 guys to girls ratio taught me how to deal with girls. The journalism course I attended at university, taught me how to talk with anyone about anything. I'm here to attempt to give socializing, dating, relationship, pick-up and nonverbal communication advice. >Ask me anything
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How does adv feel about the disclosure of one's sexual past to their current partner? I don't believe that either party should have to tell their partner ANYTHING about their past, unless it is important to because it affects their health. Why do people ask about their SOs sexual past? It doesn't make them a better out worse person depending on how many sexual partners they've had.
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