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Hey /adv/... Since i dumped my gf years ago, i have been trying to get back on track. After getting over her, i started lifting, running, learnt to drive, traveling, playing vidya and basically doing everything i wanted, i got my life back. But i have a huge problem, talking to girls. I just cant fucking do it. I have seen the simple pick up videos and im trying to do things like that, but fuck is hard. I cant do shit. I go out, with my positive mind, excited, looking forward to talk to some girls, but as soon as i see one my brain fucks up and freezes. I start getting thoughs about "she may have a boyfriend" "she is too beautiful/ she is too ugly" "she looks busy" "she looks lesbian" You know pretty fucking stupid excuses. I dont want to get laid, i dont even give a fuck about getting dates, i just want to be able to talk to girls, i want to stop being scared of them, i want to feel in the same channel and able to start a conversation with any girl without even thinking about it. How do i fix my fucking brain? >inb4 an hero >been thinking about it More info: Im 28, dress ok i have sense of fashion, exgf said im not ugly, i had 2 gf before, 1 for 6 years, 1 for 6 weeks. Pretty much i call this woman phobia or something.
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I'm done trying to connect with girls on a non-superficial level, there just isn't anyone like me out there. How can I just become as attractive as possible? Any tips/examples/anecdotes are welcome as long as they pertain to being more attractive to girls.
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I've been suffering from ear ringing and a feeling of them being clogged for at least 7 weeks now. It happened randomly one Friday night: I was fine then zam. I figured this was all due to an impacted wisdom tooth. I had two of my four taken out, the two that came out and were bugging me. That was roughly 1 1/2 hours ago. I still have the ringing and blowing my nose while closed proves it's still clogged. Should this have disappeared ASAP if the teeth were the issue, or do I have to wait? I have some antibiotics so maybe it's an infection..
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I guess I'm a spineless coward on top of being a no-good liar, huh? I'll post some of the story, but I apologize beforehand if it's not very helpful/interesting/coherent. I'm doing my best to sort myself out but I'm pretty upset. Thank you for your attention. I'm sorry most of it is probably me just over-thinking things. >Be me, college freshman >Break up with gf I got here because I couldn't handle the fact that I lied to her continuously. >No infidelities, just a snowball of lies >two years of self-loathing, someone I admired blocking me away completely and semi-truancy pass >December 2013 >Go on a date with a girl that I felt was attracted to me >Had fun, felt like I had nothing to lose being honest with her >We say goodbye >Felt like she deserved better than this stupid hollow shell of a person that still hasn't even come close to redeeming himself. >Never ask her out again since then. (She doesn't contact me either, but she's always been like that) >Fast forward to today >Doing a crappy job getting myself out of the academic (and economic) hole I dug myself into >Getting to know an slightly older girl online >She's really eager. We text almost everyday. >I don't have any feelings for her, but she's about 8/10 considering how embarrassingly clumsy she appears to be >I tell her that we can meet-up on Friday >She's really happy for some reason >She asks ME this morning to go out to walk around a beach/bar area tonight. >I say yes >Start thinking how I probably look weird without my hair cut, my goals she'll ask about, about that presentation I'm procrastinating and the things I don't like about her. >mental clusterfuck >Chicken out and call off the meet-up two hours before the designated hour >She's apparently cool with it, but I'm left with the bitter taste of knowing how cowardly and irresponsible (?) I can be That's about it.
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I am new into picking up girls and shit; so I need your advice. Okay. So yesterday I was dead tired and wasn't interested in sex, but a friend pulled me to a bar. I live in a college town and yesterday everybody had necklaces on for some reason or another. I wanted one really bad and asked a girl to give me one, she looked at her friend who told her no, and she refused. I asked another girl and she was drunk as fuck, and kept telling me her name. I asked a dude what's the story with the necklaces and he mumbled sth and then gave me a couple. We then moved to a quieter bar and I was amused to see a couple of girls smiling at me. I mean, turn around and look at them again and see them draw a smile on their faces, again. :) At any rate, I now see that asking for necklaces was needy as fuck. I would refuse to give a girl a necklace if she came and asked me for one the same way I did. I liked the girls who showed me signs of interest, especially because I used to never notice them before. Your thoughts?
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How does one cure a phobia of driving? It's not so much a fear of driving itself, but I have pretty regular panic attacks triggered by being in an unfamiliar place, being dehydrated, having too much coffee and not enough food, working out for a while and then immediately trying to do something mentally intensive, etc. Now, I'm not a shut in. I've walked all around various cities with no real fear, I've biked to work for years, and if I have a panic attack, I just sit down by the side of the road and deal. If I'm in a car in a busy situation, I can't just pull over and deal, and it gets worse and worse until I'm hyperventilating and vomiting on myself (has only happened once). I just got off the phone with my dad and he essentially said "why can't you just get in the car and do it, it's so easy". I mentioned that I was moving to the city to look for better work and he said I really shouldn't move somewhere where I can't drive around because "this is something every man needs to be able to do". Does anyone else here have a fear of driving? What did you do about it? How do you cure it?
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Has anyone ever tried the Grillfriend Activation System? I just torrented it.
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I just don't know what I am expecting from posting this here but I need to take it out. Yesterday at work we pulled one of the busiest shifts of the year and probably the busiest of the year so far. We closed at 11 pm and not later because one guy, kindly, helped us. Otherwise we would have finished at 12. My boss texts me at 6 am "you have morning shift today but can you start even earlier?" "well, could I finish earlier too? I havent sleep and I dont feel well" (I am truly sick with diarrhoea and cold) "You will finish earlier but no more than one hour" I check times: she's tricked me into doing a 10 h shift so even finishing earlier I will still be doing more hours than what I was originally doing. And to top it off, I will go there in two hours and she will complain about all the things we did wrong despite the fact we comply with all the standards. I have a degree in English and I am finishing a masters in English literature. I am aware I do not have the most employable formation but I can't wait to get signed in a school or something related. Even if I don't get it, I need to find a job somewhere else. My colleagues are every day asking me "Are you ok?" Because I don't talk to anyone. I know I am close to burst. As I said I don't know what kind of advice or comments I am expecting from you; I just needed to take it out. Thanks
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Hey guys, need to get shit off my chest and need either a sympathetic ear or quick comment about my question. >>I was a 9yr old girl being babysat by neighbor's son who the family well knew. I found him cute and amazing as a 9yr old would to a 13yr old "mature boy" >>It was bath time, so while I washed he came in to check up on me, told me I was doing it wrong >>Began to wash my back, then moved to my chest and after my crotch. >>I began to blush and feel "different" there and began breathing heavier >>he giggled and told me that my face was red like a little apple and if I was good he'd show me something nice. >>after my bath, he dried me off in my room and told me that if he showed me his surprise, I had to promise to never tell anyone cause they would think I was dirty. >>I promised and freaked out when he pulled his pants down. First time seeing a penis so I was scared and exited. >>told me if I liked it, he would like me and make me feel amazing. >>so i liked him and after sucked, found it was alright, but I could feel myself getting hot down there, feeling my heartbeat pulsing me. >>He began to lick me and I just went blank with tickling pleasure. All I remember is shaking my legs and moaning. >>After that, he told me to not move, rubbed his cock against my vagina and entered me. >>It hurt so bad and I started to cry, but told me to wait cause it will feel like it did. >>I kept quiet until I started to feel good, but by that time he just blew and I was left dumbstruck. >>Told me to go wash up again, and keep quiet or else they would hate that we touched each other. >>Been 10 years later, never told anyone >>Am I fucked up? I feel like I enjoyed it. Made me horny since I was 9 and now i'm kinda a slut. Am I to blame? I just can't stop going after cock???

Depression thread

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What's depression like? I mean not the general "feeling like shit, thinkgen 'bout suicide" answer, but more precisely? Is it impossible for the depressive to have a bit of fun every now and then? I'm trying to see if I'm going through that or if my mind is just going full nocebo to make of me the drama queen I'm not. So, yeah, please share your experiences, anons.

Worried about Discrete Mathematics Grade

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>19 >Freshman in a tough college >Compsci major So ,I'm taking a Discrete Math class this semester. Its relatively hard because my professor isn't that good of a lecturer and he doesn't speak English well, and its kinda new to me. I haven't done too hot on the assignments and I'm worried about my grade because I don't want a C or to fail the class because that would really fuck up my plans. Can someone help me through this, I haven't been sleeping good and I'm really worried


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I met this girl at school, I had seen her before and liked it since I saw her. I didn't know how to talk to her, but one day I found her Facebook as a friend of another of my acquaintances. I Talked to her through facebook and met her, we planed to meet at the school, the talk went pretty well but I was pretty nervous to find her in school, then I lost my internet and I couldn't talk to her, sometimes I saw her at school but I was very nervous to talk (talking to her was different to start talking with her) for my stupid nervousness I stopped talking to her, I talked to her like 2 weeks and now i don't know if would be unusual to talk her, I really like her but i don't know what to do.
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I'm kind of obsessed with someone and won't stop stalking them and I'm being really mean by posting pictures of their mom in MILF-threads for example and shit. How do I stop? Pic related, it's their mom.
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i caved. i smoked the weed im back here to complain. just ignore me
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I want to start meditating and yoga and I am trying to get more spiritual anyone on here that can help ?
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I love my gf, and she loves me. We have been together for almost 2 years now. BUT... our sex life sucks. It was kinda good at the beginning, but now it's really boring, we almost don't have sex and when we do it's pretty bad. If you ask me who's fault it is, could be mine. She's constantly complaining about my beard, and she has tickles all over her body, so I can't touch her and can kiss her all over. Also, I don't make her wet enough... ever, plus I've gained a lot of weight lately so my body confidence it's pretty low. Add to it that when we were friends she told me she was addict to have sex with a friend of benefits she had so that's pretty much echoing inside my head. I'm not sure we're actually willing to do thing to solve it. I mean, I got tired of the same same always.. I miss kissing and giving a real good kiss (I used to be really good at it and I never got any complains about my beard) I'm sure we love each other, but I'm not sure we are that much physically attracted to each other any more. What can/should I do?
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Can anybody here possibly interpret my dream? I would go to /x/ but I don't trust the mental states of the people who will reply to me, and I don't want to get the wrong impression. I have nightmares often, maybe 3-4 times a week. Some aren't as bad as others, but sometimes I can't tell if I'm dreaming and I can feel the fear in my chest while it's happening. These particular nightmares seem to revolve around me trying to get away from the scariest and most evil entity I can think of, which I'm assuming is Satan, or what the dreams perceive as Satan. It could just be a really scary demon, but the fear is immense. I wake up afraid to roll over, afraid to move, afraid to do anything. Sometimes I see my dream on my wall or in my mirror for a few seconds after I've woken up, but it goes away. The fear however, does not. I'm unsure what to make out these nightmares, but they're scaring the fuck out of me.
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My college lecturer is an IRA terrorist who tried to kill innocent people, what do I do? Okay first the material, [http://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/proud-ira-bombers-jailed-for-30-years-police-remain-mystified-why-two-englishmen-who-had-no-apparent-connections-with-ireland-became-terrorists-stephen-ward-reports-1435755.html](http://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/proud-ira-bombers-jailed-for-30-years-police-remain-mystified-why-two-englishmen-who-had-no-apparent-connections-with-ireland-became-terrorists-stephen-ward-reports-1435755.html) This article details the bombing he committed. [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Harrods_bombing#1993_bombing](http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Harrods_bombing#1993_bombing) Wikipedia article on the 1993 bombing. He injured 4 people, I don't know how badly. [http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F3GtlAtbtQU](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F3GtlAtbtQU) Youtube showing both bomber's faces. I recognize him as my lecturer. http://ie.linkedin.com/pub/patrick-hayes/14/536/898 His linkedin profile matches up with the details in the article. He's been at GCD now for 11 years it seems. He's never mentioned this to us in class or talked about it openly with us as far as I recall or know. Morally I don't agree with him holding any kind of position in education regardless of his expertise. Frankly I don't want to be around someone who tried to murder innocent people in such a calculated manner, much less have them teach me. I don't know if the college knows about this, never having been in this situation before I have no idea what to do.

association beonsuc

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please help me, 4chan I don't know if you will ever read this, but I have a girlproblem. I have a long distance relastionship (sorry, I am Swedish, so my English are not the best). But we really love eachother, but her parents are kinda against it, and she gets grounded pretty often beacuse she plays to much garrys mod and talk to me (she gets distracted from her homeworks). Like I said, I live in Sweden and she lives in Las Vegas, so to talk to her I must stay up to like 3 a.m and then I dont sleep for the whole night, so I basicly risk my school grades beacuse of her. When she is grounded I seriously go insane (I really mean it, like my neck twitch and I am easily irritated) and to make things worse, I have done some Reading and I have the symptoms of being a psycopath. But to make things even worse, I am kinda addicted to energy drinks so I basicly can get a heart attack at any second. So the question is, should we fix all of the problems and how do we solve them? I cry and just feeling sad nearly everyday without her, and she helped me from suicide. So please takeshot, please help me, I beg you. One last thing, my friends have leaved me too so now I have kinda lost my interestings, before I only played videogames, but beacuse my friends have kinda left me, they do not want to play with me at all, and I only feel kinda depressed if I only plays singleplayer games. So I have kinda stopped gaming, and it is the same with movies, so nearly the only thing I do on my free time is watching youtube (yes it is fun and interesting, but it becomes boring after a while). I hope you can help me, but I hope you are doing fine too.
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I just called to confirm my interview at 12 noon and they were like "oh we were supposed to meet at 11". That's BS they said noon to me when we scheduled it, I would not have written down the wrong time. How do I explain this to the company without sounding like a complete dick saying they forgot their own time? I do want this job.
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