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Hey /adv/... Since i dumped my gf years ago, i have been trying to get back on track. After getting over her, i started lifting, running, learnt to drive, traveling, playing vidya and basically doing everything i wanted, i got my life back. But i have a huge problem, talking to girls. I just cant fucking do it. I have seen the simple pick up videos and im trying to do things like that, but fuck is hard. I cant do shit. I go out, with my positive mind, excited, looking forward to talk to some girls, but as soon as i see one my brain fucks up and freezes. I start getting thoughs about "she may have a boyfriend" "she is too beautiful/ she is too ugly" "she looks busy" "she looks lesbian" You know pretty fucking stupid excuses. I dont want to get laid, i dont even give a fuck about getting dates, i just want to be able to talk to girls, i want to stop being scared of them, i want to feel in the same channel and able to start a conversation with any girl without even thinking about it. How do i fix my fucking brain? >inb4 an hero >been thinking about it More info: Im 28, dress ok i have sense of fashion, exgf said im not ugly, i had 2 gf before, 1 for 6 years, 1 for 6 weeks. Pretty much i call this woman phobia or something.
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If a girl responds to me with 1-2 words responses so my questions on OKC, should I just forget it?
Men, could you explain why do... 15 posts and 0 image replies omitted. Click to view.
Men, could you explain why do young males(who are mostly white) freak out the most when they think they're being hit on or checked out by another dude? Even if he other guy just happens to put his head up and catch eyes with the other dude for like 3 seconds. That guy will automatically think he was looking at him and must be gay. And yet 9/10 times out of 10 they will enjoy lesbian pornography or be a lot more accepting of les/bi women.
Should I go to Uni to do some... 1 posts and 0 image replies omitted. Click to view.
Should I go to Uni to do some work on my essay for a couple of hours then some Breaking Bad, or should I stay inside and watch Breaking Bad all day?

"Love Conquers All"

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We have a 50% divorce rate, 40% of women cheat on their partners at least once (and that’s just the number that admit to this in a survey), and an even larger percentage of men cheat. And a depressing number of people who don’t fall into those unhappy percentages still confess that they’re not truly happy with their partner or their relationship/marriage. Society shames men into considering the answer to one and only one question when deciding whether to commit their lives to a woman: Do you love her? If you care whether she’s willing and able to cook, keep a house, and utilize basic maternal instincts, you’re a misogynist. If you care about her appearance or how frequent and good the sex is, you’re a shallow pig. If you care about her sexual history, even instances of unfaithfulness, you’re an intrusive, dehumanizing slut-shamer. Basically put, if you care, in the slightest, about whether a woman will add any value – any at all – to your existence, then you’re a terrible human being. All you should focus on is whether or not you “love” her. Whatever that means. Society encourages women to avoid settling too early or too readily for an imperfect man, and to hold out for “Mr. Right.” Women are encouraged to spend their youth “finding themselves” which is code for having as much meaningless sex as possible with as many partners as possible to “figure out what they want” in a man. Society tells women how unique, special, independent, and powerful they are, and that a man is “lucky” if he attracts a woman willing to be with him at all. Women are told that if a man wants anything from them, be it sex, cooking, housekeeping, or even their hand in marriage, that man had better well “earn” it from her (unless he’s so hot that she wants to do all of that stuff anyway). Women avoid creeps. Women avoid boring guys. Women react poorly to guys who fall all over themselves trying to please them.

How to summarize yourself?

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Dear /adv/, I found it rather hard to summarize myself textually. All the advice I could find online was about job resumes and stuff. I don't know how to start writing about myself. I wan't to write stuff that makes the text feel personally and not all professional/job related.

Unable to Pay Rent

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Due to a really expensive car problem, my husband and I are unable to pay rent, even throwing in our meager savings. We've been living at this apartment for years. Rent is due today and all our scrambling and stuff has lead to us still coming up short. Should we just go to the landlord and tell him what's going on? Will he be understanding to our issues or will he just kick us out?
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Starting uni in a few minutes. Give me some general tips and advice.
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Hey /adv/ im a high school student who has fallen so far behind in my studies that i literally cant participate in class because i have no clue whats going on.my main problem is maths and french.i dont understand a word of french and i have no idea how to do algebra or geometry or statistics.i have missed like 60 days from school and whenever i would be in class i would never pay attention or listen or work.My mother is worried sick about my studies and my dad just doesnt give a fuck.i really want to change this around.im not depressed i have friends and i am fit.i still have 2 years in high school and i want to do good when i leave.the only problem is i have no idea where to start.i went to my teachers and they didnt give me shit other than telling me to put my head down and work but how the fuck am i meant to do that if i dont know how to work !! my maths teacher is a complete cunt i went up to him and asked him for help and he just ignored me. i tried surfing the web for some answers but that didnt do much help.you guys are like my last hope so where can i start and how do i improve.any advice i will be thankful for.also i dont do any drugs or drink alcohol and i dont achive much in my life.
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I hate sleeping because I feel it's a waste of productive hours, so I'll usually end up staying up way to late like I am now (it's 4:30am for me at the time of posting this) trying to do as much as possible. This really fucks up my days though, since I often sleep through classes I need to attend and feel tired most of the day at work until I come home and do it all over again. How can I fix this?
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/adv/, what do you suggest I do to change myself? I potentially got scammed in 2011-2012 by this guy I commissioned something from. After two years of polite, very occasional messages about it, now I finally sent an angry message saying I think he scammed me. But then I get too scared/upset to even click on his message reply to see what it says. I managed to skim through his replies twice now in order to get what he was saying enough to answer calmly with facts, but the third is too much and I have to take a break. The same thing happens in general whenever I'm dreading a message from someone/something. When I was doing badly in school, I never logged into the school network or clicked on school Emails. My relationship with my dad is bad, so I don't read/reply to Emails he sends me until a few days or even weeks after he sent them. But I don't want to be like this. I'd rather not have fear and be able to respond coolly and logically/collected all the time. Instead I get really angry/upset and probably send something a bit stupid, or just entirely ignore the message and never even read it.
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I need motivation brahs, I'm quite depressed right now because of a grill and I don't feel like doing anything. Here's my story: >met this qt3.14 a few months ago >friend of my friends >don't really talk to her >school trip to London >she's in >we're getting really close >laugh a lot >have so much fun together >we spent every day of the trip together >trip ends >learn that she has a bf and he's in love his ex >see her the following day >spend the afternoon with her >tell her exactly that we can't continue like this if she stays with her bf (I think that's where I fucked up) >she says exactly : "Everything tells me to go with you anon, I love you, but I still love my bf" >we go back to the normal discussion >continue to laugh together >at the end we kiss eachother >the following day she calls me to say that she chose her bf over me and that she's sorry What do /adv/ ? My thread was deleted on /fit/ :'(
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Hey guys, could anyone be so kind as to tell me what the fuck happened to my youtube? This is how my youtube page layout looks like after I cleaned my stuff with ccleaner and restarted the pc after a video was refusing to load in hd 720p quality, it just blocked and blackscreened. Is my flash version wiped or fucked or something? Any help would be much appreciated.
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i'm getting the feeling i'm being manipulated by a girl. recently there's been this cycle of her behaviour being that she will go from being affectionate and showing interest to cold shouldering and outright ignoring me. on two occasions i've confronted her about the times she's been distant but there has always been a series of excuses but now it's gotten to the point where i'm getting suspicious. if i'm right i can't just confront her again specifically about what i think is going on because there will be more lying so how should i go about trying to find out? on a side note i think it's possible she might be doing this somewhat unintentionally, that the times she shows interest might just be because she's afraid of being alone at times
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hey /adv/ i always lurk and help back when possible but i have never personally had a problem where i needed advice... up until now. :spoiler alert, girlfriend issues: Okay so girlfriend of 6 months - we really like each other and honestly no one makes me happier other than her. Basically over the past couple of weeks we havn't been on the smoothest of patches. She has been going out on saturday nights to parties i'm not invited to... On top of this she wears skimpy outfits. However I am told by everyone she behaves in the right manner, I'm not the one to tell her where or where not to go and what and not what to wear, but somehow it still manages to get on my nerves. She didn't drink on these occasions either.. BUT, on our 6 months (last friday) she cancelled plans for us to see each other because she "got in a fight with her teacher" and "wasn't in a good mood and didn't want to see," me. When it comes to sunday though she still can't manage to put 30 minutes aside to see me because she claims to be studying as she has weighted exams for senior year coming up. What confuses me is that she stays out till 3am with 2 of her girl friends and 2 guy friends. Basically i gave her an ultimatum as to whether or not we would be together if she didn't put more effort into the relationship (doesn't talk to me as much etc.) But she insists on staying with each other, however having a break of a week so that she can focus on school. I'm really confused... is she just fucking me around? I mean... i understand that she wants space because she has exams coming up, but she still manages to put time aside to go out with friends to parties and to stay active on social media sites. However she cannot manage a healthy relationship: say for example, she struggles to incite and sustain conversation between the two of us recently. She claims that she will be okay after the exams but honestly i think she is just making shit up.
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Moving to another state... Montana to be specific. I will be attending Montana state university for bookkeeping and living with a family member until I can move out. Any tips? I've never lived in Montana before.
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I can't sleep for more than 3 or 4 hours at a time. I feel dead. why is this happening.
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hey guys i'll will be travelling to amsterdam and antwerp in a couple of days.Any recommendations for specific vistis and nightlife? thank you in advance
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My girlfriends 18th birthday is coming up soon, and I'm really short on cash, so I won't be able to get her anything. She says she doesn't mind, but I do. Any suggestions on what to do for her birthday? Please guys, she's The One, I'd really appreciate it.
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Hey /adv/, I'm a bit of a fuck up. I'm about to be a community college drop out because I can't be motivated by much. I have no job because of that lack of motivation/apathy, and my constant bad luck. So, I was planning on leaving after the end of this semester. Perhaps driving around the country until I had to sell my car. I was wondering if you guys had any advice on that kind of thing? I'm not looking to really discuss why I just won't solve my problems here, but I guess you're free to try to open that can of worms. I guess what I'm asking is how do I leave to start over? Would starting over somewhere else help? My obvious wanderlust aside, how can I even go across the country without having to rely on other for sleeping, eating, and basic human needs?
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