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Can you help me optimise my plan for the next half-year

Can you help me optimise my... 1 posts and 0 image replies omitted. Click to view.
Here's what I plan to achieve 1. Get fit enough to join my military 2. Try anti-depressants, then stop seeing various mental health professional 3. Stop seeing old, dangerous and selfish friends and commit only to company that treats you kindly and with decency 4. Actually go and kiss my girlfriend... 5. Give away my nootropics. They have not been thoroughly testing on psychiatric outpatients like myself... 6. Put all the junk in my car into my locker at university 7. Reorganise my locker so that everything fits. 8. Make an inventory of locker contents 9. Graduate 10. Get a job
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How do you deal with pain? Physical and emotional. >had to have a few medical procedures when I was young, needle after needle >teeth problems because shit genetics, so drill after drill >bullied a lot, kicked in the face and body and punched and fucked up generally on a daily basis >lost a good portion of close family young, but old enough to know what was going on According to mum I never threw a tantrum or complained about anything. I'm not a complainer and I don't have any mental problems from all this, I still get depressed like anyone else, but I get over it. I'm not anything special because there's a great deal of people who go through all this and much more. But now, I suppose because of shit that happened earlier in life I am sort of prepared better for it. I have a pretty high tolerance of pain, both physical and emotional. Some people often call me cold, mistaking my lack of visible reaction for callousness. I still feel pain in it's entirety, but I am used to it and it doesn't scare or bother me as much as I can remember. What about you? How do you deal with pain?
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How do I regain my confidence back? I've been in a slump for about a month in my confidence with everything. Within a month, this girl I really liked stopped dating me because she said she couldn't get over her ex and then at a party 2 weeks later, was going out to find this guy to fuck. I got assaulted at a club last weekend and have had to deal with police and it's really put me down. Had to go to uni with black eyes. I'm usually really confident and theres other shit involved too into why I feel bad but they're menial/temporary anyway. I've started going to the gym anyway with a friend willing to help me and it helped a bit but not much.

could i get a bf with my past???

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- kissed girls/touched when i was 7 or younger - kinda did stuff with my sister when i was younger (around 9 i think?) - dirty chatted to a random when i was 12ish - when i was 12 or 13 my sisters guy friend (20 yrs old i think) came over (to hang out with her bf) and we hugged on a bed, talked abt life - gave my first bj when i was 13 to my first bf - lost my virginity when i was in year 10 to second bf, (i was age 14 turning 15) - ive had dreams of doing things with my currect girl friends, but irl i find it disgusting. i might be missing a few points.. but my ex says with my past ill never get a boyfriend.. also, am i slut in your opinion? is my past fucked up? pic not related
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Is there a bondage community that isn't centered around porn but rather educational? I am a beginner and would like to get some advice and/or criticism on my ropework - I'm not into pain and all that, I really just enjoy tieing someone up and would like some place to share experience. pic related - it's what I'd like to be able to do someday.
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Seeing a girl. Need advice. >same obscure movie and music interests >both INTP (brought up by chance in convo) >sex is pretty good. she gets really affectionate during sex >make each other laugh >make her meals >go to movies >go to live music events >message each other throughout every day but >be a guy who's always been with affectionate women >affectionate mother, gf's, even friends >girl is never affectionate outside sex >never had a relationship before >intimacy issues, something about asian parents >said a few weeks ago (before sex) she isnt really looking for a relationship as it sounds scary I really like this girl. i know i have very good chances with some others who are definitely into me, but with this girl I feel I am myself. I can swear, we joke about porn, etc. It's very conflicting though. I want to give her feels but she doesn't seem to be able to take them. I can fuck her all morning and night but I feel scared and sick at the thought of trying to hold her hand.
/adv/ I need help. I have a... 6 posts and 0 image replies omitted. Click to view.
/adv/ I need help. I have a friend who I love, a lot. Up until few days ago that love was purely platonic, at least I think. But then, few days ago we crashed in the same bed, and some hardcore cuddling and dry humping occured. All of which was initiated by him. I am not sure what to think about this, because as far as I know, he is straight. I am bi, and out, so that's pretty clear. Also, he is ignoring me slightly during everyday shit, and I don't know what to do. I am confused, I love him a lot, but on the other hand I am terrified. If the opportunity for going for a relationship presented itself, I am certain I'd go for it. But then again, I keep feeling that I'm overthinking this, and the fact that I'm being ignored is really painful. Thanks for reading. :)
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Help help! I have a saliva test in like an hour that I didn't know I would have to take until late last night. I took a clonazepam before my job interview yesterday and ended up getting hired, they told me I would have to take a drug test the end of the week but called me last night to say to come in today. I no longer have a script for it since I lost my health insurance but just keep them around for when I get really anxious/nervous or having a panic attack... so will it show up? it was only .5mg and I don't take them everyday.... And I don't do any other drugs
for all /b/ros that got... 1 posts and 0 image replies omitted. Click to view.
for all /b/ros that got dumped, for all hearts that got broken, for all these foreveralones who will never trust anyone again, never ever. for all these friendzoned guys, those who got cheated, betrayed, lied to, all this pain all this nonsense what happened and never can get healed, all this tears, sleepless nights, everlasting days with only one thought, when will i get what i deserve, when will i have a worth for somebody special, when will i get appreciated, loved, hugged, kissed, when will i see her, my wifes parents, my own kids. so /b/ros, lifes a bitch and even if theres no woman ever who will love us for who we are, we know who we are and i love you all, so /b/ lets create the best, deepest and realest breakup letter ever. express your feelings, let your pain go "the saddest thing about this all is not that you left, is not that you hurt me, its the fact that you keep on living your life not knowing how painful all this here really is for me. one day you may look back and think that it was wrong to dump me, but i will never know, i will always believe that you probably made the right desicion."
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How do I tell a girl that I like like her without coming off cheesy ? If I tell her that she is "awesome" what way will she take it ?
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How do I tell if a girl is annoyed by you messaging them? I'm having a friendly conversation and she takes quite a while to respond. She's on her phone and I don't wan't to be harassing her. She's probably studying, as am I.
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>tfw baltic yuropoor >life is fucked either way - can't go back to my country because there are no jobs there and I don't have a place to live in >Can't go anywher else because nobody wants you >Stuck working minimum wage factory job surrounded by horrible people, in horrible conditions for minimum wage for the rest of your life >No friends, kissless virgin at 20 Give me a reason not to kill myself, my life is such a dead end, I feel so defeated and pointless, all I ever wanted was a comfortable middle-class existence and some sort of companionship. Nobody wants me, nobody cares about me and my life is just some cruel joke, the past year has been one of the worst in my life and that's saying something, because my life has always been shit, but at least I told myself things will get better, now I don't believe they ever will because I don't see how that could be possible, I'm trapped and I just want the constant anxiety and pain to end.
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What's the point of going to college if you can find a job and or your parents are so deep in debt themselves they can't foot the bill? With them being so close to the poverty level, what can they do? Will schools offer aid in addition to FAFSA? My brother is so intelligent and I'm scared he won't have the opportunity to get a good degree for himself because my parents don't have the money.

Which friends are best to talk about (other than you, /adv/) relationshit problems?

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I've been in a situation before where I want to confide in a friend about gf issues, but I'm discouraged to do so by the fact that they then know about said issues even long after they are resolved. It's not my intention to keep everyone under the impression that everything is damned perfect but it's still a bit unnerving to me. How do you select the people worth talking to about your relationshit issues? Do you find people who are friends but not networked with the rest of your friends? Prefer same or opposite gender? People super close to you? For some reason there's nobody in particular that seems like a sensible person to have a face to face talk with, even though I have a pretty extensive social group with a really mixed bag of different kinds of folks. I'm pretty fortunate to be in touch with pretty diverse people but every time I think about approaching one of them about this stuff, it seems like a retarded choice. Meh, kind of lost here. I think I'm probably just dwelling on this too much. Discuss.
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So I have been dating this girl for 4 or 5 months, and things have been going relatively well, I suppose, but there is one problem: her social skills are shit. I am her first real boyfriend, and she has never really had any friends, but sometimes I wonder if she has aspergers or something. It is absolutely painful trying to start a conversation with her. I could tell a story or something, and then when I am done, she will stare at me blankly and respond with a single "mhm." I guess I can understand not being good at socializing--I'm certainly no conversationalist--so I'll go out of my way to give her obvious social cues [sic?], and she will still ignore them. If she tells a joke or calls me a funny name I will laugh. She will tell it again, and I will laugh again, but much less. The third time I won't even acknowledge that she made the joke. I won't give her eye contact, smile or anything, as a subtle way of saying "it's not funny anymore" but she will still continue to tell the joke all night. It's hard because I do like her, and we do have a lot in common, but it's really putting a strain on the relationship, even if she doesn't realize it. Should I talk to her about it or should I just be even more direct with my cues? If it is something she can control I would like to know how to best help her. If not, does it sound like aspergers or something? She doesn't really have any other symptoms
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How does an average guy get laid when most women have unreasonably high standards? This isn't a woman-hate thread; I seriously want to know the answer to this.
why do guys like skinny girls... 85 posts and 0 image replies omitted. Click to view.
why do guys like skinny girls so much???
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