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How the hell do you deal with finishing college? I'm terrified of no longer being a student, not living that life, not knowing what to do and filled with regret.
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Getting Over Being Cheated On

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Hey amigos, I had to dump my gf this week because I found out that she was cheating on me. We were only going out for like 2 months but I still really feel like shit about it. Any tips for getting over being cheated on? I just wanna die right now.
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I"m in a relationship with someone who was raped 4 months ago, it occurred during the relationship and I was told about it a few days after the occurrence. While I did what I could to help them, I feel they are growing distant, becoming less open and overall feeling apathetic. They get very hostile, defensive if I try to make mention or to ask if they want to talk about it and it just becomes even more confusing when they flip flop between knowing they should get help but then not getting help. In my heart I knew the moment it occured that the relationship was a ticking time bomb, that I tried all I could to hold it together but I just feel at a loss as to what I can do. It's difficult to want to talk to someone, to let them know they are there for you only for them to attack you and become hostile towards your caring words and just trying to help them to talk through it and to overcome it fully. From advice I had received from others I was warned in the months her mood may change, and what's worse is having been warned by two different psychologist that an event like this could/would cause a mental strain to them and while I've tried to just be there, to listen and lend an ear, and on occasion try to get them to talk about it, I feel like I can't do anything. I'm just at a lost, I can't bring myself to just leave and pull away because in my head I keep telling myself next day she'll see where I"m coming from and understand why I've said and did what I did. Each day passes and I feel like I need to accept that I've done all I can and if she won't get help then I can't stand in that toxicity. While I've tried to remain strong I just feel the whole experience is finally taking it's toll on me and I find myself wanting to just break myself away completely and clean my hands of the situation.
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How can I view webm on an iphone?
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>Friend wants me to buy alcohol >I text back saying I'm way too sick at the moment. (Ive been bedridden with flu-like symptoms). >He replies "Aite, can you still just walk in and buy it?" >"Yeah some other day" >"Sounds good, will you be home later today? I still need my box lol and I'll give you your ipod back." Does this sound like how a 'true' friend would behave? Perhaps he doesn't know the extent of my sickness? But still I think he should at least have a bit more empathy, wtf? Do I have a right to be mad?
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I'm naturally introverted, but I can cope with people depending on circumstances and I want to improve and become closer to an extrovert. There's a job that I think will require a lot of calling and communicating, which I honestly think I'm not good at - how should I prepare myself so I can get that job; taking it may allow me to become bolder and make me less sensitive. I'm very cautious about it because last time I tried to join other people (went to uni) was a disaster for me and I dropped out. It's like I want to fight against my nature, I cannot accept that I'm aloof - I enjoyed being in center of attention at HS and I think that I should spend some chunk of my time with people.
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Hi /adv/, first time posting here. So I'm at months of finishing High School (I'm not underage, I had dropped out before) but I really don't want to study college and work here (I'm from Mexico), so I wanna move to the US but I'm poor so I can't pay a cool University so I would most likely be at a Community College and there's my question. Are CC's good? How is it to be at a CC? Would I get a good job if I study at a CC?
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I want to join the Canadian Forces Reserves until I graduate university. If your over 18 do you still need parental consent to sign up? Please give general advice to a future armyfag.
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so i recently went to the barbers, i asked for an inch of, and they literally cut off for fucking inches, what should i do to get revenge
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Hello /adv/, I missed the chance to ask this girl out in my chemistry class. She's seeing some guy now, but she's afraid of commit now cause of her ex apparently, but she recently been trying to get to know me more and be friends with me, but I still have feelings for her so hanging out with her kind of pisses me off. I know it shouldn't but I just have this upset feeling that I missed the chance to tell her how I feel. Should I just cut all ties from her, or tell her how I feel and then cut all ties with her?
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A way to die the least painful way possible? I have no money so please tell something that is to my reach. I am a fucking loser, no job, no gf, no friends, etc. Everyone avoids me because I have mental problems (will never get friends, the ones that were my friends are kinda doing this already). I never talk to girls that are into me because I'm extremely shy. Your generic loser. I can't decide what career to take. Now I have to wait a year for university to admit people again, I had the chance money spent and all (wasted), but I did nothing and let time flow (have no motivation really, but I'm aware that I needed to do something). Already wasted many years and have no motivation even when aware that I need to study something. Please help me finish a sad story.
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Sorry in advance for the wall of text.Let me start off by saying that family is very important to me. My parents separated when I was young, but they never spoke poorly of one another in front of their children. Now that time has passed, they are actually friends. My siblings are my best friends, we have a very strong bond. Whenever I am ready for that sort of thing, I hope to start a family of my own that is just as tight. My loving boyfriend of four years knows all of this, and wants the same thing too for his future. Even before we started dating, I knew his family were not as close as mine was. He comes from a more reserved family, and they had a hard time communicating with each other. It always lead to problems and left everyone with a bad taste in their mouth. My bf had a really hard time with his oldest brother, Nathan, who was sixteen years older and had Aspergers. My bf was always so frustrated and and impatient with him, and swore that he had hated the man. I had encouraged him to be more open and try harder with his family, especially Nathan, and try to build a better relationship with them. He did, and it has worked out. His parents were very understanding and compassionate people, and only want the best for him. The way they talk to each other is so much more lively than the awkward small talk they use to make. We visits them about once a week to have dinner with them, and he actually enjoys being around his parents. The only thing he really is uncomfortable with is Nathan, who lives with them. There has been some progress with those two over the past few years, it just has been slow. I never expected my bf to get along with his brother overnight, and I am just happy he was still trying. I hang out with Nathan for a bit every time I am over. We talk about the hobbies that we have in common, how our week has been, and vent over dumb stuff. (Continued)
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>Just started dating girl >Texting a few minutes ago >She says she is starting some new workout program >"oh nice" >"well now you're going to have to be careful because I'll be able to beat you up soon enough!" >"haha that's cute." >"how is that cute" >"you're threatening to beat me up, its pretty cute" >"so you don't take me seriously? seriously you're an asshole, I can't take your shit sometimes" Tried to text her back but she ignored. What the fuck is wrong with this bitch?
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Threatening to >throw a turtle out of it's tank onto the floor >light the house on fire >take my car Demanding that I >kill myself >die Is this normal of smokers who are out of cigarettes?
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>socially awkward >go to Petsmart with my dog >buy him an expensive toy and shampoo >pay >leave >come home >no bag >anywhere >left it there What do?
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Alright I have one of the same generic shitty questions that are on here all the time. Here's some background So there's this girl at work that I feel might be my type. She's kind of an aspie but I'll explain that in a minute. At first I wasn't even considering her just because I work at a different part of the store but apparently they're moving me around, so I might talk to her again. I worked the front with her my last shift and we talked some about random shit. We've got some interests in common but then again I have a bunch of interests and she doesn't have that many. She even called herself boring haha. But yeah she basically vomits spaghetti. Like at one point we were talking about drawing (apparently her only interest) and I mentioned that I'm planning a webcomic so we started talking about that >You read webcomics anon? Yeah >Me too but I don't want to talk about it Why not >It's embarrassing I promise I might not laugh >I like (some long fucking name I forgot) What's that >It's... it'sawebcomicwithanimalpeople What like furries? >Yes (she said it really fast in the most autistic way imaginable and I had to call upon my ancestors to keep me from cringing) She's so awkward that I can't even gauge if she likes me or not. I mean I've caught her looking at me before I even talked to her but that's it. I feel like if I just straight up asked her out somewhere she would probably freak out and say no in some kind of autistic panic. Not only that but I'm not that experienced with asking girls out since they've usually come to me. How do I set up a first date with this girl?
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