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I recently started dating for... 2 posts and 0 image replies omitted. Click to view.
I recently started dating for the first time, and I seemed to have met a really nice girl. The problem is, she has a sister that is rude and that sister has sooo many immature and obnoxious guy friends that my girlfriend has also been good friends with for a long time. The guys all have girlfriends too, but tonight she is going out with one of them since I am busy. This makes me really angry, and I want to end it with her, but we've already become so close and I think she will try to ruin my life or just cry really hard if I do (she is very attached to me regardless of her guy friends). I've also gotten to know her family, and they like me. However, I could also try and tell her that I hate her friends and hope that she understands and loves me enough to abandon them for me. It's unlikely, but maybe I could try? I don't know if these types of posts are generic, but I really appreciate any input I could get considering this is my first relationship. ALSO, this girlfriend of mine has a "desperate for attention" past, but I thought she had changed. If you do advise me to end it, how should I do it?
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Hey /adv/ i have a question for you. So a couple of months ago i met a guy via internet who's a friend of a friend of mine. We started talking one day and from that point on we started talking everyday. He told me in one of our first convos his ex had broken up with him some months before and that although he'd try to get back with her (before knowing me) he'd failed and that she was being a bitch. Anyways, we'd talk on skype for hours every day, sometimes even 10 hours. He was funny, smart, cute, we both loved music and anime, we supported each other and we just generally clicked. I especially liked how sometimes we could just shut up and do our own thing and appreciate our time/presence like that. Then one day he told me he liked me and i told him that i liked him back. this was the first time i ever had something mutual. Some weeks after, his ex started to want to get back to him. they had had a long relationship and i live across the country, so i knew there was a possibility that he could just get back to her. Regardless of that we continued to talk without ever defining what we were to each other until we met irl. We were going to meet on my birthday. But one day, 2 weeks before we met, i went to talk to him as usual and got a reply saying that he had gotten back to his ex but that i was a very important person to him and that he hoped i wouldnt completely leave his life. Months have passed since then: In the beginning he'd talk to me often on skype or fb, but i asked him to give me some space. Sometimes i'd tell him id miss him but last time i contacted him was over a month ago. A week ago i discover he unfriended me on fb and blocked me on skype and although i sent him a message asking why he never replied. Why did he do that and why can't i get over him /adv/ ?

Bedroom

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My bedroom always smells of stale bread and the air is always thick and stuffy when I go in. I don't have the heating on, or anything like that. Even when I open the windows for hours it goes back to the same stuffy air. I need advice.
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My last exams are over and I need to make up for lost time. I've decided that if I don't lick a girl's shoes/feet within the next 48 hours, I will implode into a small black hole and destroy the earth. How can I do this without paying for it?
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How do I deal with urge to tell my bf about being molested and having issues in past? >was molested by relative when 8 >got some sexual issues, was unable to talk to men >got largerly over them >convinced myself that I shouldn't go into self-pity because of that >got a bf and male friends >have to fight the urge to tell them (especially bf) about my past issues >know that it is mainly for him to pity me, get more attatched and protective towards me >know it would be toxic >fight it and get to the point of constant day-dreaming about telling him in various scenarios I know doing so would make me weak and toxic person, I don't want him to feel sorry for me and stay with me for that reason. I already told someone close in past about my issues, so it is not like I need badly to let it out, no matter what. The fact that those are mainly men, makes me think it has something to do with wanted to be pitied and protected. What do?
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Can anyone here tell me about Dom/sub relationships? How they actually work in the real world? This shit's my fetish, but I don't know... I found a really cute girl on OkCupid that's into D/s or M/s stuff. We have a lot of other interests in common (besides the fact she doesn't drink). But, she's 18, I'm 27, and I've never done anything like this before. I like to be in charge in the bedroom, but I've never taken it to the point where it would be considered "domination." Another problem is that I have two roommates, even though I own the house. How much does a D/s relationship look that way outside of the bedroom? This seems like my best opportunity to explore it if I'm ever going to - I don't really think I want to ever start dating a girl and try to shoehorn in a fetish of mine. But knowing about it beforehand? It sounds fucking awesome.
>be 23>have job>have... 53 posts and 0 image replies omitted. Click to view.
>be 23 >have job >have car >can't afford to live on my own Why is everything so darn expensive...
I need help /adv/.Seems as... 0 posts and 0 image replies omitted. Click to view.
I need help /adv/. Seems as though I'm interested in having a relationship, but I'm far too passive in life. I would much rather watch a pair of people have a relationship than have one. Wtf is wrong with me? I've always been that guy who doesn't realize he's is apart of the conversation currently going on. I just watch what everyone else does, and when someone asks me something I feel like I'm being interviewed. What do? I'm a guy btw, if that matters.
I'm stuck in a strange... 3 posts and 0 image replies omitted. Click to view.
I'm stuck in a strange situation with a girl. >start exchanging somewhat long messages with this girl >went for a drink/walk 3 times, she probably thought they were dates but I'm a social retard so I acted like they weren't and didn't make any moves >when I asked her out the 4th time she said she's busy >I never asked again but we still regularly text each other >we've been texting for over a year So what the hell is this? Did I become her penpal buddy or something? Can I reverse this?

Some people are just raging faggots.

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Well, the charity site of this community that I'm apart of has been DDOS'd. This charity in particular gives laptops to children who are terminally ill so they don't lose their social skills whilst in therapy. He's also doxed a 13 year old member of this website and is targetting another staff member at the moment. What do? I want to stop him, why on earth would someone try to hurt a charity for Christs' sake? Like of all websites to target he picks one that helps kids with cancer. What a raging faggot. On the brightside I have his IP from the server logs, (therefore isn't modified) his Steam and twitter account. What can I do with this information? His IP: 24.67.48.230:27005 Other than using the standard IP backtracer is there more that I can do with it? Please, /adv/ do it for da keeeds
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I'm feeling some hurt feels here... Don't know how to cope with this... So me and my ex has been very close after our break up.... Back and forth about getting back together to the point of us ending up having sex sometimes... So my hope nerve has been tingling for a long time... Now out of the blue she has a boyfriend... Someone I know to make it worse! What now? I put so much work into this... And now my chance is completely gone... What do? I have trouble with the internet connection so you'll know... Might take some time for me to answer possible questions..
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What kind of fetish is this? My girlfriend LOVES it when I just use her sexually. She's very submissive, and does as I please. She'll do anything. Infact, the sex could be one sided all the time and she'd be happy that she was "of use" to me. I really want to know what fetish this is, it's really interesting since I've never seen it before. I doubt it's BDSM because it's not like this. I don't harm her or anything.

Friend's With Ex, Feelings Mixed, How to Deal

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>I'm 23, she's 22 >Easter Sunday I text her. Ends with telling me she's been in a relationship for 1.5 years, living together, and talking of engagement. I crash and burn. >I make a post on Elliot Hulse's (YouTube fitness personality and "life coach") about my situation in great detail. >She Googles my name and finds it. Reads it. Cries. >Asks me to tell her the reason I called her. >We text and talk as if things haven't changed (at least not so much) >She profusely apologizes for hurting me. Saying that she felt as I did years ago about myself. >We have a laugh. I tell her I'll always lover her and she will too but that we need to close that chapter of our lives. >Past few days we've texted but she tells me today that at nights and weekends we can't talk because of "the obvious" (her boyfriend). And possibly that we text every few weeks or few months for a "pulse check." Seeing how I do here and there. When I join the military. Stuff like that. I'm not sure how I feel. I understand the parameters so I don't "muddy the water" but is this fair? Can this really be a friendship? She used the word being "friendly" towards each other. We do care about each other but this is weird. We've tried this before and it hasn't worked. Hopefully we can NOT have history repeat itself. I'd like to be at a place where I've healed from this past of ours. But feelings do still linger. This time I'm not too opposed to being friends as everything starts out with that. Maybe in this way we can be ok with each other, I can heal, regain that trust, and who knows. In truth I would not be opposed to being together again with her. I won't be a home wrecker and manipulate her but I don't want to get hurt again.
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How do I get over a pants-shitting episode? It was in front of a bunch of people I know and I'm not sure if I can go to them without it being brought up. I don't even know if I can wear those pants anymore.
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I am scared about relationships, because of the pain it can occurs. I mean, I know girls are interested in me, but because of past experiences, I have a lack of confidence. There is a girl I love, I really love her. The first since my past experiences, that I don't only want sex with her. We don't use to take our breaks at the same place, I am a smocker, she is not. But I am stoping and it would be a good excuse to go take them with her. But I am afraid of being rejected by the girl I love, so I walk everywhere alone. She seems interested in me, just not sure how to push things further. We have good relation.
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How can I keep myself motivated to change? I have tried to hard over the past few years to change my life, become more fit, and get over this stupid depression. But every time I try, I quit after awhile and go back to the same shit day in and day out. I am tired of it but I am stuck in this loop of bullshit. I've tried just going out and going with the flow of things and saying yes to any opportunities that pop up. I've talked about my depression with close friends. I think I have just about done everything I can do. Any advice?
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I gained 20lbs in 2m months with absolutely no change to my diet or exercise. I've been working out like mad every single day at eating a 400-600 calorie a day diet for 3 weeks and I have not lost a single pound. When I went to a doctor they said I had elevated TSH for hypothyroidism but not too high to get medication. What the hell am I supposed to do, I feel like killing myself because I cannot lose weight. And I'm not going to /fit/ because they don't believe in thyroid problems. How can I treat hypothyroidism without medication since my doctor is a shitlord.
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Suicidalbros get in here.
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Did you switch majors in college? Why? From what to what? Are you happier now?
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So I was on a bus the other day and this girl teased the absolute fuck out of me. Now I can't stop thinking about her. Would it be creepy to actively try to find her or could it be considered one of those kooky romantic things?
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