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I love my boyfriend and he'd do anything for me & told me he loves me unconditionally but yesterday he told me that he realized he still loves his ex (they broke up 9 months ago but they talk all the time). Him talking to her so often never bothered me but now I don't know what to do.. if he hasn't gotten over his ex, being with him isn't fair on both of us if he's too emotionally immature. Help?
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So I've always considered myself straight...I jack off to straight porn and all..but I think I may be in love with my best friend. I have never felt the way I feel about him before. It is sort of physically painful when I am not around him for a while. I was just thinking that this was some kind of intense platonic love but I have masturbated to the thought of doing various things with him. I feel like I really need to tell him before we go off to college away from each other, but I have a feeling it would really screw things up. I'm not sure what to do, usually I would talk to him about this kind of thing

Tinder Competition

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For men looking for women on Tinder, basically what will my competition be? I've got a decent face, not fat (not abs but getting there, decently /fit/), well groomed, etc. What kind of guys do I compete with on Tinder?
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How do I figure what kind of man do I want to be?
I need advice on depression.I... 4 posts and 0 image replies omitted. Click to view.
I need advice on depression. I am 30, have bipolar disorder and have been depressed on a regular basis since primary school. I should be a professional at this by now. What do you do to survive depression in the short term? When you feel so low. Just to scrape through to the next day? I've read a lot about preventative measures: - exercise - positive thinking - CBT techniques - mindfulness and meditation etc They probably help But what about when you start to drown? What do you do to make it through the next hour?
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24 yo virgin here (not bad looking but too picky). Dated a qt last week. It went kinda well but I didnt go for a kiss. And the day after she told me that Im nice, good looking but that she did not feel anything... That we could still see each other and be friend (omg). Anyway, she accepted to go to the cinema this week but she told that it doesnt mean that we were "together". Whatever Im still planning to play like her bf and try to kiss her the whole time. Is that a good plan? Do you think I still have a chance? Any similar experience?
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How do I befriend a girl? All I did when I had friends (males) was talking about videogames, life and making them laugh. I'm not sure I can make this girl laugh, and I not sure I can be open... Actually fuck that, I have trust issues and I don't know how to open up to people in general anymore, I don't know how to get past this and for that I can't get close to this girl.


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So this sunday I'm turning 30. I... know this question is stupid, but, do you think I'm too old to browse 4chan? Or play Videogames? Or still masturbate?
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Is it weird for me to date a 19 year old girl as a 25 year old man? What are your experiences with this? Also, what about your parents' experience with this?


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So two weeks ago, one of my wisdom teeth started hurting, and I started to take some Ibuprofen (Advil 200mg) to relieve the pain. I go back from 2, or 3 of them every 6-8 hours or so, until the pain starts becoming really annoying. And I always to make sure to eat before I pop them in. After a week, I got all 4 of my wisdom teeth pulled out, and the doctor prescribed me some Narco (Hydrocodone 325mh). I only took like one or 2 every 6-8 hours for like 3 days in a row. Of course, I stopped taking the Advil when I was taking the Narco, but the lady at the dentist told me it was okay to take them both. I have a big fear of getting addicted to pills, but they really do help my mouth. So I try to not pop as many pills as possible. I stopped taking the Narco, and went back to Advil, and so for the past 4 days I have only been taking Advil, at 2-3 every 8 hours or so. I feel like I have been taking too many Advil, and the only thing that hurts are my gums, so I am thinking of taking a Narco instead of Advil. Today, I have taken only 3 Advil, but reading online I'm scared of getting stomache ulcers or liver problems. My gums are hurting right now, and I really want to take either 3 advil, or 1 narco. So my question is, at the rate I'm taking these pills, will they cause complications? I have basically been popping something every day for the past 2 weeks now. Is it better for me to switch back and forth Advil and Narco every 8 hours, or stick to one drug every 8 hours?
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hey /adv. I gave a girl a love letter since im about to graduate high school, so why not. according to my wing man she was smiling and blushing after I gave it to her. anyway, she gave me her number in a note two days later saying she wants to "get to know me some" I've been texting her and asking her about her interests and I was able to make her laugh a couple times. I've been meaning to ask her out, but im not sure when I should, or if would accept she goes on vacation next monday. I feel like time is of the essence feel free to ask questions about my situation if you need to
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I think I'm freaking about this too much but still I'm going to post it >Well I played several games of pool with A and R then other people came in and so I was like "Alright I'm out of here" and anyways I decided to go to have a shower and put on some clothes, then I went to the kitchen and found R and A and I was like "What are you guys up to?" and they were like "Oh we're just making lunch" >Me: Cool >A: What are you going to do for the rest of the day? >Me: Maybe do some study and I've got a lot to do, but I'm thinking of heading to *coffee place* tonight >A: That sounds cool >Me: Do you wanna come along? >A: Let me check what's for dinner >Me: I was planning to go at like 8pm so yeah and it's just for drinks >A: We'll see I think I'm just over thinking it, what do you think that means?
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It's necessary to open up emotionally in order to have a gf right? How is this done?
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Okay /adv/ Today I went to college and this guy who was bullying me and being an idiot got me on my nerves so I just called him on his shit The next day he came to me looking for trouble and while he was talking shit to me I just hit him hard in the face After that he went to cry to the principal about it but they realized I was defending myself so he just got in more trouble I WIN Have you ever beat somebody up? Do you regret it?
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NEET here. I talking to this chick off okstupid and I listed casual sex and short term dating as what I am looking for. She is a bit older than me, she is a professional (not a hooker, she works). Anyway, she five-stared me. I five stared her. We were both matched. I messaged her, we engaged in small talk surrounding her profile. I couldn't sustain small talk and stopped messaging after second reply. Then I messaged her 2 weeks later. In this message I made clear my desires (casual sex) and complimented her and, she replied. >me: If this isn't ur cup of tea, then I'm sure your luck is just getting better considering that you are very beautiful. But if it is, hollah back? then she replies she doesn't know what she is looking for until meeting the person, and then for the next 12 messages she starts interrogating me about why I find casual sex interesting. Now I am not sure how to proceed or whether to proceed.
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So what do you do when you just wanna have sex with a guy? I am 19 and this guy works with me. I'm really shy and have only had one boyfriend in my life. I've never considered having a "fuckbuddy". But this guy turns me on so much. He flirts with me sometimes, or at least I think he does. I wouldn't want him to be my boyfriend, we are just way too different, I just wanna have sex with him. I just keep thinking about it but I have no idea how to go about it. I've never been attracted to someone as much as I am to him. I guess I have to mention that I'm super socially awkward so it's hard for me to talk to him even about the most simple things. So yeah, um... how can I make this happen?
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Any advice for a female who will probably lose her virginity tomorrow?

another wah I'm a virgin thread

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It's suddenly occurred to me that now that I am 21,it's going to start being really fucking awkward if I don't lose my virginity soon. I've only kissed a girl thrice, and have never been in a relationship with one, so as you can imagine I'm very worried about this. I have only asked out a girl once in my life, very drunkenly to our prom but unfortunately she was already planning on going with someone else. This sequence reinforced a slight fear of rejection to a complete fear of even attempting to form an intimate relationship with someone. I validate this by forcing myself to be overly critical of my looks, despite compliments I receive semi often, or thinking that a poor college student with no consistent source of income like myself shouldn't bother getting a girlfriend that he can't occasionally buy things for as an expression of affection. I don't know how to get around it but I desperately need to because I feel as if this type of thing will only progress with age so please any tips whatsoever will be appreciated
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How do I become wealthy without selling out and working a job I hate? I'm just about to graduate with a degree in psychology, and looking at graduate jobs is just depressing. Pic unrelated

I want to kill myself

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Hello /adv/, I am graduating from a prestigious university in a few weeks. I am currently trying to build up a portfolio online so I can start freelancing because I have no real experience working for anyone (I faked my internship but I got away with it through connections). I consider myself a very good programmer and I plan on capitalizing on that. That's the plan anyway, but in truth I have absolutely nothing to show anyone because I haven't been working on anything for the past month; all I do all day is watch anime, play video games, and masturbate. My family is really poor and up to now all I've been doing is leeching off of them. I really want to do something about it but I can't seem to find the initiative to actually work. I have absolutely nothing in my life except my beautiful girlfriend who I deeply love and I just told her I was breaking up with her. I'm breaking up with her because I think she cheated on me-- according to her, she was raped. She told me this a few months ago and I decided I would kill the guy. Bear in mind, it's not that difficult to have people killed where I'm from. However, the more I think about it, the more I realize that she probably wasn't raped and she just told me that out of cowardice and guilt; I mean, is it fucking rape when you undress to your underwear in front of an obviously straight and horny guy? Isn't it obvious you're going to end up fucking at that point? It's more fucking annoying because she still kept in contact with the guy for the next two months until I pretty much forced her to stop it. She stopped, but I just can't get this out of my head and I can't sleep well recently because this is all I think about. I honestly don't know what I want to happen. The thing is I still love her but I'm so tired of being angry all the time. I don't want to kill anyone cause morals. I'm also tired of being paranoid because I think she's fucking around. In truth, I don't even know why I'm telling you my story.
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