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I love my boyfriend and he'd do anything for me & told me he loves me unconditionally but yesterday he told me that he realized he still loves his ex (they broke up 9 months ago but they talk all the time). Him talking to her so often never bothered me but now I don't know what to do.. if he hasn't gotten over his ex, being with him isn't fair on both of us if he's too emotionally immature. Help?
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I need help. My girlfriend of three years broke up with me, and as much as I dislike it, I finally feel the freedom to do what I want with my life. The only question is: what do I want to do? I'm a sophomore in college, and haven't really been enjoying the experience. Options I've considered are: staying in college, transferring to a different college, joining the military, or joining the peace corps. I am really open to anything at this point, I just want to do something new and exiting, and this seemed like a good point in life to do it.
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I FUCKED UP. Some guy is going to send a video of me masterbating to all my friends and family how do I stop this!?!?!
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How do I get past desiring people simply to 'possess' them? Like, I don't think of someone friendship-wise or romantically from the perspective of, "I want this person to enrich my life with their presence." That's the healthy way that two equals approach mutual relationships. Instead, it's more like, "I want to make sure nobody else gets this enrichment instead of me." That's the clingy way a self-conscious person thinks about a 'prize' who is better than themselves.
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We got drunk, we made out, it was a pretty fucking rad night. Apparently she has no idea what happened. God damn it, now what? Do I tell her? Ask her out?
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hey /adv. Just need a little advice. I'm 22 year old and I've never been in a relationship or had sex. I'm not one to go out and try to pull any girl, I only want to be with girls that I have some real affection with. Before anyone asks, I'm not a neck-bearded, fedora wearing fuck. Anyways, there's this girl that I've met recently and we have a lot in common. Pretty sure she likes me at least a little bit too. I barely ever see her, but we talk sometimes using facebook, social media.. etc... Currently feeling like my lack of romantic/sexual experience is biting me straight in the ass because I have absolutely no idea what to say/do to take it beyond small-talk on the internet. I (and I'm sure all of you) hate shitty small-talk, so I'm just wanting some advice from you guys on how to progress with this. Some real conversational tips/or any relationship tips at all. Help a brother out.
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I live with my mother, /adv/, and she has a drinking problem. I'm really not sure how to approach her seems as her general method of dealing with things is lying. She lies about everything. I confronted her before and she said she had stopped, and she did for a few weeks, and then went straight back to it. She'll drink vodka and coke, in a mug, in a stupid attempt to hide the fact that she is drinking. She'll drink until she passes out on a chair. She's manipulative about it and makes stupid attempts to hide it (Filling a bottle of wine when she drinks it all with water and leave it in the kitchen to make me think that it's been there ages and she hasn't drunk it all) I'm worried for her, and her health. It's increasingly worse and this has been going on a long time. I'm really worried, /adv/, yet lost at what to do. Should I straight up tell her she needs help? Talk to her softly? This is getting too much for me to deal with, seeing the state she gets in to, and the emotional wreck she becomes after she's had a drink. Thanks if anyone helps ._.

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Are you a boy, or a girl? I had always assumed /adv/ was mostly male, someone earlier said he had always assumed the opposite. I would be interested to see the breakdown. So get in here, and post your gender. I'll do a percentage breakdown if I get enough replies for that to be feasible. Note : I know it' slightly off topic, but aren't you curious too?
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I haven't bought gifts for my parents' birthdays since 2010. Is it ok to still ask them for things for my birthday?
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I'm trying to get my second job and a bit stuck on the "reason for leaving" part with my last one. Is wanting to switch from fast food to retail going to fly with an employer?
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Hey, so i wanna make a life/energy/healing crystal. Any advice on how to go about starting to imbue crystals with energy? Also any help in how to cut the rock and how to build a holder would be welcome
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Can you stop your body from being antibiotics resistant? I remember a few months ago I had a UTI and had to go on antibiotics twice because the first round didn't work. It worries me that one day I'll get real sick and antibiotics won't work well. Doctors prescribe antibiotics for everything and your body learns to go against it
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My ex dumped me almost a week ago. I am horny. How much of a jerk would I be to hookup with someone so soon?
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How do I deal with being extremely needy and clingy? I have an issue with being very needy because of my parents. My father completely abandoned me after marrying a woman who decided she didn't want me in his life and my mother endangered my well being throughout my childhood for an abuse coke addict of a step father. Because I was never put first by my parents, I have a constant desire to be put first in someone else life. When I'm not getting attention, I feel extremely rejected and unwanted. I constantly want attention from my boyfriend and I know I'm suffocating him. He has been with me for 2 and a half years and I love him deeply. We spend 6 days out of the week together. Since my home life is still shitty, I cling to him as an escape and I constantly try to be around him so I'm not alone at home. I know I can't expect him to fix my issues but I have no idea how to deal with it on my own. How can I resolve this on my own?

God tier cramming method

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Exam in 5 days 25 lectures havent watched Have exam papers, have lecture notes Wat do?

Romantic motivation

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I'm one of those types who want to legitimately like (in a romantic way) a guy before I consider dating or going out with him. I don't mean chat for a while in a bar, or text for a few days/weeks, I mean know him for quite some time in a platonic sense and REALLY like him. I know this really narrows down my options and to be honest, hasn't worked out (always rejected, never gone out with anyone). I decided that after having a pretty bad crush on one of my coworkers for going on 2 years now I have to try something different. I'll be 30 in a couple years and I really hoped to be married and thinking about kids by then. So, I'm meeting a guy I met on Tinder tomorrow for lunch. He's really nice and all... I just have no motivation to see him. I feel like I'm just sabotaging myself because the situation doesn't fit my preferred "randomly fall for a guy I know pretty well" scenario. There are even other coworkers (at different locations than the guy I have a crush on) that I'm interested in, but I can't manage to get to know them (Japanese workplace, like actually IN Japan). Am I doing the right thing by trying more casual dating, or is my preferred method also legit, but I'm doing it wrong...? Details: No physical experience, somewhat asexual but open to trying, taller than most guys here but no glaring physical flaws, into shyer guys (soushokukei or zoushokukei), generally trying to find the right guy to marry.
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I don't come here often adv but I require help. I don't know what to do honestly. I took a vacation to japan after a great deal of terrible incidents. It was wonderful. However I do not know what to do now. I got my old job back (which is minimal wage) and dont know what to do now. I have no desire for a relationship as I know id just make any girl miserable. And I have no desire for college. My passion is writing although im rather bad at it and have never published anything. any advice?
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So I have no clew what to do with my life. A bit more about me I'm very passive. Not much affects me which seems to put girls off. I'm not looking for a relationship but more of a piece of mind. (although i wouldn't mind one) I am open minded (maybe too much). I just spent a week in japan and don't know what to do. Am currently working full time at a goodwill in the Northwest. I like to write a bit but have no desire to go to college.
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go to a bar >stand there for 5 minutes behind the bar counter, i dont know what im doing >striking hot blonde about 25, enters the bar, comes up behind me and says "hi" and asks what I want >I ask the lady what do they have, she shows the bottles of what they have >I choose "heineken" cause I always heard it was cool and classy >The girl buys me a bottle of that >she tells me to go over to the table >I sit down with her, she bought heineken too >her other friend comes over too >she puts her purse on the middle of the table >she starts asking me how old I am, I'm like "21" >she's like really? >I thought you were like 30, I feel like such a pedo >her other friend is like "you have the deepest voice I ever heard" >get insecure >she says "you almost sound black" >lock up >they start talking about how OCD they are about cleaning bathrooms >girl that bought me a drink asks me questions about myself and puts me on the spot because she's like "pretend you're a news anchor" >I refuse >I feel really uncomfortable and put on the spot >eventually she says "sorry for interrogating you" >gets up and leaves I'm gonna see her again at a party tonight I don't know what to say to her Does she like me?
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My current circumstances dictate that tonight I must sleep outside tonight with no tent. I'm not going to get into why, it's a long story riddled with mental instability and drug abuse that I don't really have the time to get into. Any tips for living rough with no equipment? I have my laptop which I am currently charging, but it's only gonna hold an hour or so when I unplug it so I'm going to use it sparingly. I have enough food so I'm not going to need to scavenge or hunt or anything like that, but I need a bit of help regarding where I'm going to sleep for the night. Where would you sleep if you were forced to sleep outside with no tent? I live in a town on the outskirts of a major city. My immediate area is mainly urban, however I can walk or catch ggggggggggggga bus for a couple of miles and be in a very rural, outback like area. So I have all options open to me, really.
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