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I love my boyfriend and he'd do anything for me & told me he loves me unconditionally but yesterday he told me that he realized he still loves his ex (they broke up 9 months ago but they talk all the time). Him talking to her so often never bothered me but now I don't know what to do.. if he hasn't gotten over his ex, being with him isn't fair on both of us if he's too emotionally immature. Help?
dear /adv/, halp.Im clueless... 8 posts and 0 image replies omitted. Click to view.
dear /adv/, halp. Im clueless when it comes to gifts, I need to buy a female acquaintance a bday gift though. She doesn't seem to have any major hobbies outside of dancing and such, Im pretty fine on money atm, what do I get her? she's relatively young(19) pic unrelated
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Do you guys ever feel like there's something wrong with you but no one has pointed out what it is? I've been feeling that lately, like something is wrong with me but no one has said anything. I feel like something is wrong with me that's making girls ignore me or possibley avoid me. For instance: >See classmate from school getting coffee from a coffee shop we frequent >She sits down and we have this really nice long chat until the store closes >I message her on facebook about a video game we both play >She never replies since 3 weeks. Or whenever my friends bring their girlfriends over on board game night. I feel like they don't really like me. I just feel pretty insecure right now. How do you know if somethings wrong with you if no one points it out?
How do you know when its time... 6 posts and 0 image replies omitted. Click to view.
How do you know when its time to quit smoking weed? Im starting to feel like it might be good for me, but I still love getting stoned with my friends.
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I've been getting a bunch of spam email lately. It all gets filtered into my spam folder just fine, but is there any way to prevent this from happening? I don't even want to see that Spam (1) on my dashboard Gmail, if it matters.
I need to find a relatively... 2 posts and 0 image replies omitted. Click to view.
I need to find a relatively cheap and safe place to live. The problem is I have no friends, don't know anyone, and roommates are the only way to not pay way too much for an apartment or house. Anyone have any tips on finding good roommates? Or apartment hunting in general? For reference I'm an American and could afford about 1k/month but I really would rather spend around 500-700.
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So after about a year of heavy drinking I've decided to stop. I'm on my second day today and the most that I've lasted is 3 or 4 days. Thinking about it these past couple of months, I can say that I've probably been drunk more than half of the year. I'd drink from Thursday up until Sunday, but I didn't drink beer. I drank vodka and sometimes rum but both always at 100 proof. I know I've really fucked up my liver at this point so that's kinda one of the reason I want to stop. Just last week I found out a cousin of mine died of cirrhosis or some other liver disease because he drank a lot and he was only 25. I'm about to turn 22 in a couple of days and I don't wanna end up like him. There's so much stupid shit that I haven't done while being sober that I still wanna do. I feel fine at the moment but I know that some time in the next 48 hours this is gonna hit me like a fucking train. I tried to quit smoking a few months ago but after 5 days I chain smoked about half a pack and my limit is about 3 the entire day because after that I start to feel really sick. So what kind of withdrawal effects can I expect to feel and how can I cope with it?
I'm in Iceland doing an... 1 posts and 0 image replies omitted. Click to view.
I'm in Iceland doing an internship, and there is a music festival coming up this weekend that I volunteered for. You have to work three days to get three days of wrist band. But it's cold and soon to be raining for the three days I'm scheduled and I'm not a huge fan of any of the bands. On the other hand I have nothing planned for this weekend, and could make some new friends in the process while I'm here. Thoughts?
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Yo /adv/, again with the girl problems. I'll try to keep this easy. > 3rd year college student, end of finals whatnot > Beginning of the year, girl transfers into uni > claims to transfer from school to school since 18 > She has no friends, but me and her are on the same wavelength > She's 'pure' but not innocent (She makes fuck loada innuendos but deffo not assertive) although she claims to have 'Abandonment' and 'trust' issues > Hang around all year; become closer > One day, after finals, watch a movie, shit was too long, drifted off asleep and hugged her as I slept (A habit I have) > Next morning, I wake up, she's awake and my arms are still around her > oh shit. Acted as if nothing happened and played it off casually > left her room the next morning and the two of us never interacted again Now~ present day; it's been more than a month and I have disappeared off the face of university and she views my stuff via social media; like Snapchat stories, etc... but never contacts. Whilst im too busy in work to have a 2hr convo and feel 'awkward/guilty'? for what I did? But even as far as texting me and never replying back in couple of occasions. So, /adv/, I'll be honest. I am super fucking dense and I had no idea what I have done. In reality, I dont care and can move along, but what happened here and what should I do if I want to salvage or whatnot?
>snack jar>Put a couple... 4 posts and 0 image replies omitted. Click to view.
>snack jar >Put a couple dollars in the jar every time I eat more than I should Do these sorts of things actually work? I really need to stay motivated to lose weight
Going for my first job... 10 posts and 0 image replies omitted. Click to view.
Going for my first job interview in my life. Shitting my pants a little bit. Its a job at a hotel. What do/don't at an interview? How to be successful at an interview?
I started seeing this girl.... 8 posts and 0 image replies omitted. Click to view.
I started seeing this girl. I'm 22 and she's 18. I really like her a lot and she says she likes me as well. Things are going great until one day I woke her up before work with a text and she was pissed off at me all day. She then freaked out at me that I text her too much. I haven't texted her since and that was Monday night. What should I do? I got advice from my sister to wait the full day out and then ask her if she wants to go to dinner. I'm really desperate in salvaging this relationship. What do I do?
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Have you ever wanted to kill yourself because you don't feel like you can escape the past?
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>Have feelings for girl >Somewhat obvious to her and other people >Mutual flirting one minute, then she'll come off as uninterested and act like I'm "just a friend" >Starting to feel like she's leading me on so she can get emotional validation >Tempted to walk or downgrade her to someone I'll acknowledge, but not put ANY effort into >We share the same friends How can I do this without losing my friends? It's starting to feel pretty one sided and I see no point in putting myself through such emotional torture when she's basically friend zoned me.
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Okay, so i want to know if my girlfriend has cheated on me. I really have no idea how i can find out, as i know her facebook details and theres nothing there, asking her just leads to her saying no, and getting pissed, and when i'm with her she has no suspicious messages. Whether she deletes them or not, i don't know. Sounding pretty paranoid, but she's just been acting weird, lately. Also im 99% sure she's been texting other guys. Help me /adv/

To Skank or Not to Skank

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Hey lovely ladies and gents. I'm a little lost. I'm a 20 year old lady, and have been single for a couple months. Haven't been in love since 2 years ago when I had a guy break my heart. I'm really, really wanting sex. I've been having sex dreams every night. I really want to meet the right guy and fall in love and have sex then because it feels trampy to even think about one night stands or fwb's. But I'm not finding mister right right now and that's fine. I'm struggling with having sex because it's what I want versus the morality of it. Not to mention I'm talking with the ex who broke my heart and if there's the smallest chance he's interested in me I don't want to sleep around. Am I a whore in this situation? Pic unrelated.
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>too scared to approach girl directly >try to "casually meet her" >too late Fuggidy fug. How do I do this? she's my neighbor.

Living with Sociopathy

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Not trying to be edgy or whatever. Before that discussion starts. I've been working third shift for about 2 months and this has left me with a lack of sleep and a lot of time with my thoughts. I constantly fantasize about inflicting pain on others, or myself. Either vengeance or just against people I deem wicked or evil. I know it's narcissistic, but I just feel like I'm better than some people and those people aren't "needed". I've been rejected by the military due to psyche eval. By the way, this wasn't some internet test. I know I have Sociopathic tendencies. So usually? I just drink. I drink myself into a lulled calm that allows me to function among normal people. I seduce and trick women and men into having sex with me under fake names and then abandon them. I con people out of money by hurting myself or just plain lying. I could honestly quit my job and make a better living off of talking people out of their hard earned cash. I take their money and I gamble with it, win. And spend it on bills, gas, booze, and cigarettes. I worry about my child someday finding out about all the horrible things I've done. Honestly she's the only person I'm not a complete monster to. Is there actual treatment for being a Sociopath? I tried anti-depressants and just trying to "Stop thinking about it" I've gone to church and confessed my sins, and then gone out five minutes later and done the same stuff. I'm 30. So. No 2edgykids here. Any other Sociopaths wanna talk? Do you seek treatment? Do you know of any? Because honestly the thoughts and actions are blending more and more and I'm afraid I might go too far.
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>tfw last day of my job >tfw getting sentimental when putting in my last two weeks >really dragged out the last couple of weeks at this place since there hasn't been any work for the last month >leeching off their connection to download mai animu and browsing 4chan now do you know this feel, /adv/? what do I do from here?
I'm schizophrenic, and I... 0 posts and 0 image replies omitted. Click to view.
I'm schizophrenic, and I fucked up my GPA the first time I attempted college. Not exactly because of my illness, it was more due to general retardation and laziness. At this point I want an education from a good school, not for a job, only to learn, but I'm not sure what steps I should take to get accepted into one. I hear mentally ill people get leniency in colleges, but I'm not sure in what way. I don't have a specific school in mind, but I want to study biomedical engineering. Please advise.
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