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My life sucks what do I do

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It could be a lot worse. But compared to all the other average people I've been fucked over. >never had sex >never had female friends/gf > 5'9 but very narrow, so I look small >doctor says I'm fully developed >small dick >showing regression in hair >problems with left wrist >18 in HS, never party >never smoked weed All I have going for me is that I'm smart, if you can even say that. People expect me to work extremely hard just because I'm intelligent, so its a double edged sword.
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Where do I go from here? She's too beautiful to forget about her We've talked for hours before, I make her laugh a lot. This was yesterday at 4,
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I've been in a relationship for a couple of years now. And I've had a few others. My longest was 4 years. What ALWAYS tends to happen in my relationships at some point, usually within a year to a year and a half, is I eventually want sex a lot more than my partner. She wants sex less and less, until we hardly ever even have sex at all. Well /adv/ I'm tired of being the one not in control in the relationship, so I'm coming to you for help. How should I turn the tables so that I am the one who doesn't want sex and she is the one who does? How is a guy supposed to accomplish this seemingly impossible feat? Is there some kind of psychological trick I need to pull? How do I change my entire mindset and get her to initiate sex? I'd love to hear from anyone who has had success with this or has any ideas.

Cant believe this is happening again. In love with best friend again

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Hi guys, i could really really use your advice right about now. I'm 21, male, was never in a serious relationship, only a couple of short lived sexual whatevers. In high school I was in love with my best friend. She never found out, i never told her, i didn't have the guts. It caused a huge amount of heartache and stress, and yet I never told her (she was in a long relationship at the time). Now in Uni, i have been friends with this girl for a long time. I told her stuff about myself (including my hs crush). We are very close, she thinks of me as her best friend. I had no romantic or sexual interest in her whatsoever. And now, all of a sudden, I think I'm falling for her. Its the same cycle like last time. I became (platonically) close to her, we hang out, we talk, i open up, she opens up. I open up some more, and then, i just start to fall for her. I start to resent the guy shes in love with (and even her a little bit). This has been going on for a week (while with the high-school crush it lasted for a year). Im hoping it will pass. I dont want to lose her as a friend. Please help me, how can I make this go away?

break up

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break up >me 21 > first breakup where I've been dumped >finding it hard >can't eat properly >feel sick all the time >was a week ago >is this normal what do?
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Hey /adv/ need some help. I met this girl through a social media site two weeks ago she is 17 and I am 19. She has proven multiple times (through my knowledge of the internet) to be lying about : >Not having a boyfriend anymore >Not talking to other guys So /adv/ I met up with this girl once she seems nice and all that I didn't try anything sexually considering the circumstances of how we met up(She claimed she was raped at 5am I bolted to a taxi to meet up with her) I spent the whole day with her and brought her to the movies and made the whole day about her because of her 'rape'. Heres the question: Since I found on multiple occasions she has been lying what should I do?Fuck her and dump her?

Deep shit

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Yo /adv/ My friend let me borrow her car to take my busted bike in for repairs, and since it wouldn't fit in the trunk I tried to put it in the back seat. I took everything off I could of course, but in the process of putting the bike in there I fucked the interior up on accident. The seats and paneling are covered in scratches, one of the windows has three long gashes on it, and then I did a lot of damage to the roof when I panicked and tried to take it back out. So my bike is still here and I still have the car for a few hours. I cleaned up most of the oil and shit but there doesn't seem to be anything I can do to repair the car. I literally don't have any money to give my friend since I'm a broke college student with no job and now no means of transport. How the fuck do I pay her back? What do I even do in this situation? It was a nice (but slightly old, 1999) car that she was hoping to sell in a few years.

white lies...

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have you ever caught a significant other lying about little things? I found out my girlfriend has been lying about a few small petty issues and it doesnt bother as much as the elaborate stories she has told me to cover her stories. For example, She is into fish feeping and underwtarer plants and has been wanting to create an underwater planted terrarium bowl. She tells me how she miraculously found the perfect bowl that looks brand new out by the dumpster. She doesnt realize I know she bought the bowl off of amazon. She tells me she has been testing the bowl for leaks in the bathtub just to be sure since she found it used. I wouldnt have given the slightest shit if she told me she just bought the bowl online. Another story was how she was given a betta fish for her birthday even though I found out she bought it at at a petstore a month after her birthday. Why lie about dumbshit like this? I have never given her a reason to think I was put her down in anyway about her hobbies. She comes from an extremely conservative family and has an anxiety disorder so I can only assume she tells me this to avoid some type of conflict (even though she knows I wouldnt care). She doesnt know I know she is bullshitting me. It confuses me further because she tells me how upfront she wants to be with me and I feel like she is being genuine with her emotions toward me. Is this something little I should let go or is this a sign she is capable of deceiving me in more serious ways? I get everybody tells white lies. Hell ive done it and I wouldnt lie about anything huge. But I havent really gone to such an extent as to validate my lies with such intricate stories and shit.
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I feel I have nothing to live for anymore. The only reason I'm not killing myself right now is because I don't even have the motivation to fucking bathe, let alone buy all the shit and set it up to kill myself.
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My friend treats me better than my boyfriend and is overall so much nicer and thoughtful. I like the way he looks at my eyes too. Should I dump my asshole boyfriend for my friend?

Never date a hoe

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>be me >be 15 >see two lesbians dating >okay.jpeg >turn out these two are sluts >they lasts for 3 months >wtf.wmv >a couple days pass >dates one of them >wrong one >she cheats heavily >the feels >break up >date the other >i pick the right one >last for 3 days >okay.png >go away >come back one month later >one of them is dating >the other is single The one that is single is single for a reason
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I've been getting spam emails for Viagra and male enhancement like the ones depicted. I've set my filters to automatically trash them, but how do I completely opt out of receiving them? I've read that unsubscribing only makes it worse.
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So I need some advice. Later I'm planning on going out with someone and it's likely that in the near future we're going to get active, to put it kindly. But I've always wondered about something. A huge part of my technique, as it were, is cunnilingus. I fucking love doing it, women love when I do it, I'm good at it. But I'm always sort of worried the less time I've known the person. I don't particularly know what I'm at risk for with that, what could happen, or how to tell if it's safe. You can't much put something over it and do it, so yeah. How can you be safe with cunnilingus and how would you know when you are? Anything visual or obvious, or is there much risk in the first place?
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There's a girl I like giving me mixed messages. She doesn't always keep up a conversation with me in text, she flaked out on plans we made a week ago. Haven't spoken to her since. Should I talk to her or is it a lost cause? If I do talk to her, should I do it in person or over the phone and how should I explain the time gap?
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So I used to be with this girl... Only a shortie 6 week relationship>However she hurt me in the end>going back to her exbf, not gonna go into him very much suffice it to say that his Douchebaggery during their relationship, after their relationship and during our relationship made it stupid... In my anger of being left for him I told her so: It's the dumbest idea ever concieved by mankind! Fast forward 3 months. >be a few mins ago, she texts me a long friggin message... Paraphrased: Oh! Anon... He cheated on me! You're good with relationship stuff... Be my emotional fluffer... Should I? Part of me wants to be nice... Another part just wants to answer: I fucking told you so..
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My ex and I broke up a year ago. I miss him so much, last night he called to tell me he missed me. I can tell it was hard for him to say. it made my heart drop. he also said that he wished he did things differently, but now our lives are heading separate ways. basically meaning he doesn't want to try anything. so my question... why even call to tell me that?
I have a LONG story that I... 10 posts and 0 image replies omitted. Click to view.
I have a LONG story that I need advice on. With line breaks for quotes and what not, Arial 12, it's a little under 6 pages in Word. I know sometimes there are professionals (so they claim) that come on /adv/ and leave an email for more private questions, but I can't find any ATM. Where do I go for this?

Do Looks Matter?

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Okay, /adv/, do looks matter? It seems like people are kidding themselves that they don't care to seem rational and 'moral'. I personally don't care - to an extent - but most people are only attracted to someone because of how they look, even before they have spoken to them. Is it true despite what people 'believe'? Is it just vanity?

Beta much :C

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Pls help me /adv/! Lets say im a beta fag, i can talk to girls and all that but im very passive!!Will coke help me solve that issue?
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are telemarketing jobs safe?
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