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Anonymous 08/21/14(Thu)04:29 UTC+1 No.14651900 Report

> tfw you fucked up something with your friends, ruined their plans, bailed out, showed irresponsibility, and profusely apologized but they haven 't spoken to you for 6 months because of it
How do I drink this pain away? I'm also deleting them from my friends lists and shit because too much of a pussy to talk about it with them again. I apologized a lot because of my fuck up but still feel guilty about the whole ordeal.
Anonymous 08/21/14(Thu)04:31 UTC+1 No.14651902 Report

tell us the story
Anonymous 08/21/14(Thu)04:35 UTC+1 No.14651918 Report

Just a simple thing about housing and apartments. I was supposed to be the last member to join their group and didn't follow through with my application. Imm not sure about their housing at this point and offered to help but they, rightfully, told me to fuck off. I was an emotional mess when I made some decisions out of spite to my parents but I realized I was making a stupid decision. I'm sad I didn't tell them earlier.

Not even sure if they care about it anymore. I tried helping out with their situation by offering to find a roommate and I never got a response.

I'm a dick
Anonymous 08/21/14(Thu)04:37 UTC+1 No.14651924 Report

Seems pretty get-over-able.

Time will fix it.
Anonymous 08/21/14(Thu)04:40 UTC+1 No.14651938 Report

Maybe. I dunno they haven't deleted me from facebook or twitter but we don't talk so I just said fuck it and deleted them. Maybe I'll muster up the courage later. One of the guys wants to rip my throat out though but he was a dick to me and I called that asshole out for it.

I've talked to other friends and they've told me that time will fix it because it's a minor thing in the grand scheme of things.
Anonymous 08/21/14(Thu)12:17 UTC+1 No.14652991 Report

It is a minor thing and not worth ditching your dignity about.
Even if you reconnected, there would always be that feel of alienation from you and the rest of them since it's now been 6 months.
tl;dr: find new friends, these are not worth it
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