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Anonymous 06/23/14(Mon)23:26 UTC+1 No.14410028 Report

Do you ever truely 100% get over your first?

By first I mean she/he must have been your first relationship, sexual partner, love, all rolled into one.

I've been with other girls since my first, which ended ~3 years ago. I did the whole no contact thing straight away, we don't stay in touch at all. Sometimes however I see her as we live in the same city, say in a bar or even just shopping, and to this day I still get those sickly "butterfly" feelings in the stomach when she's around. She would then be on my mind for a bit afterwards.

So, does that eventually fade away or do most people always have some kind of feeling for their "first"?
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Anonymous 06/24/14(Tue)00:51 UTC+1 No.14410295 Report

I did, but then again left him.
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Anonymous 06/24/14(Tue)00:57 UTC+1 No.14410304 Report

No, You stop loving them but you don't forget a single thing.

>You don't forget the day you realized you were in love.
>You don't forget the day she said yes.
>You don't forget a single one "I love you".
>You don't forget the plans or promises.
>You don't forget the day she left.

This is not what makes you sad, it's the fact that she forgot.
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Anonymous 06/24/14(Tue)01:09 UTC+1 No.14410348 Report

>>14410028
Yes.

I barely remember what she was like and it wasn't that long ago.

I think about my current ex now and then tho 317
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Anonymous 06/24/14(Tue)01:10 UTC+1 No.14410352 Report

>>14410028
I did. Sometimes I really wanna fuck her, but I've moved from prolly a 6 to a 8 and she's gone from like a 6-7 to a 5 so.... I've upgraded.
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Anonymous 06/24/14(Tue)01:14 UTC+1 No.14410361 Report

>>14410028
Yeah, i did. But for some reason i cant forget the second one.
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Anonymous 06/24/14(Tue)01:21 UTC+1 No.14410378 Report

I haven't forgotten my first REAL love. The one you did everything and anything for unconditionally, the one that never looked bad even on their worst days, the one that you spent every day with and it never got old because you were best friends AND lovers. No joke was too stale, no story got old, everything about their lives and past you wanted to be a part of. I am living, happy and without being depressed or thinking TOO much about them. But some things make you yearn for the past and think back fondly on old memories.
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Anonymous 06/24/14(Tue)01:47 UTC+1 No.14410452 Report

>>14410378
>>14410028
Oh fuck really?

Fuck. I just ended my first after 7 years and that's not what wanted to hear

I've already moved on in a big way (lots of single girls in my city) but I I also think about her everyday. Sometimes I think I've made a terrible mistake
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