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FIRST TIME SEX: DEFLOWERING A GIRL Anonymous 05/13/14(Tue)23:11 UTC+1 No.14259789 Report

I need some advise, I will probably take the virginity of a girl in the coming weekend and I want to make it as nice of an experience for her as possible.

It will be the first time I do this to a girl (not my first time) so I don't really know what the important things are.

Give me all the advice you have.

>inb4 b&: I'm 21
>inb4 pedo: she's 21 too
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Anonymous 05/13/14(Tue)23:26 UTC+1 No.14259833 Report

>>14259789

First off quit fucking calling it a flower. It smells nothing like a flower.
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Anonymous 05/13/14(Tue)23:31 UTC+1 No.14259849 Report

>>14259833
you're right. Well then, how do I best open her can of tuna?
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Anonymous 05/13/14(Tue)23:33 UTC+1 No.14259859 Report

>>14259789

Lots of lube and foreplay. It does NOT have to hurt if you're good, my first time didn't. Good luck!
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Anonymous 05/13/14(Tue)23:39 UTC+1 No.14259876 Report

>>14259859
regarding the foreplay, since I never had a v girlfriend I don't know this, does it involve fingering? Is the hymen deep enough to not be affected by fingers?

Anyhow, I'll make sure to do down on her. I want to see the hymen (something that I think every men should try to do at least once in their lifetime). Hopefully that will allow for enough lubrification because I have no lube.
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)01:12 UTC+1 No.14260211 Report

>>14259876
Go fucking buy lube then. Chances are she's going to be nervous enough that she won't produce enough natural lubrication.

I got lube, went down, then slowly, VERY slowly(I'm talking 20-30 minutes, at least in my case to get it in to the base) then move ever so gently. You probably won't be able to nut inside and she'll get sore and finish you orally. But yeah that's what I did and it was a good time, well as good as first times get.

Pro tip. Look her in the eye and tell her you love her, she will probably start to cry, its super adorable. Helped that I was a virgin too. But yeah.
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)01:41 UTC+1 No.14260302 Report

Don't take to long—don't talk too much—don't start explaining shit or describing stuff—don't fumble—don't act like if you had been expecting it to happen all along—don't start discussing anatomy—don't ask her if she's okay every 45 seconds.
Do be considerate—if you loose your boner keep the romance going all the same until you get it back—be gentle but firm—do tell her to speak up if she's not okay with it—don't try to play out a preconceived script, flow with the moment and improvise as need be.
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)01:55 UTC+1 No.14260343 Report

>>14259789
Smooch her when she looks worried
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)07:11 UTC+1 No.14261404 Report

>gets to deflower a girl
lucky you, I'm a virgin and I will never feel this
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)15:04 UTC+1 No.14262255 Report

>>14261404
how old are you? I was a V up until a couple of weeks ago. (I'm OP)
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)17:02 UTC+1 No.14262482 Report

>>14262255
19
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YoursTruly 05/14/14(Wed)17:41 UTC+1 No.14262597 Report

semi-related question: I'm v and my gf is also. due to religious reasons we've both been "saving ourselves" until we get married. It's long-distance but even when I visit she's not into touching or hugging other than a quick side-hug. Also, hugging is slightly awkward because she's only 4'10 tall and I'm 6ft. I'm beginning to worry that when we do have sex it will be painful for her because my d is like 7.5inches. So just lube and go slow or what?
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safebet13 05/14/14(Wed)18:55 UTC+1 No.14262862 Report

Both my ex girl friends were virgins and I took there virginity. I had to different experances with each girl.. One of them it it was like a crime seen the blood the pain the screaming was bad.. I mean Really bad! She wanted to continue but 10 mins of her screaming every time i tried to insert anything in her a finger my penis anything and she would scream out in pain.. My first girlfriend it was nothing like that.. It was not bad.. Little blood no screaming Little to no Pain.. So I honestly can't tell you what your in for. What I can do is give you advice.. Listen to your girlfriend.. If she says stop! you stop.. If her hymen has not been torn expect blood and use a bunch of towels underneath her.. I recommend lubes even tho shes more then likely gonna be wet lubes will just make it better for the two of you... I also recommend a Condom over a condom.. As if she bleeds its gonna be messy.. and lastly but not least,, Get her worked up! I mean really lay on the foreplay..Nipples are the best area for this kiss them lick them and really go to town the more shes turned on the less it will hurt..Thats what I have found..Hope this bit of info helps you two out some.. Oh p.s yuor gonna wanna keep your shirt on as the scratches on your back from her grabbing on will sting for days after the event is over ;)
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)19:09 UTC+1 No.14262901 Report

>>14259833
>>14259849
My sides!!!!
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)19:11 UTC+1 No.14262907 Report

>>14262597
>when I visit she's not into touching or hugging other than a quick side-hug.
That sounds fun.

Seriously though, I respect whatever relationship you choose to have, but could you describe the connection that you feel there is between you? I can't imagine a LDR and then having to avoid physical contact. I don't mean to offend.
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YoursTruly 05/14/14(Wed)19:30 UTC+1 No.14262952 Report

>>14262907
she's a virtuous woman, but also very hot. pic related.
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)23:55 UTC+1 No.14263794 Report

>>14262482
see? I was in your exact same situation 2 years ago. don't worry.

>>14262597
what the fuck man. you are extremely fucking beta but have a huge cock. how is that possible? are you fatso?
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Anonymous 05/15/14(Thu)00:00 UTC+1 No.14263811 Report

>>14262862
I'm scared. And aroused...
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Anonymous 05/15/14(Thu)00:00 UTC+1 No.14263812 Report

>>14259849

shove a fork in it, jab it around

always does da trick
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YoursTruly 05/15/14(Thu)03:15 UTC+1 No.14264345 Report

>>14263794
> how is that possible? are you fatso?

Slim and in decent shape. I've been rated 8/10 on looks by a female confidant, she said my worst area is my teeth (which I'm working on). As for why I'm a beta. Could be a lot of things... my older brother sexually abused me. Statistically I know my d is a good size, the weird thing is I still feel small. I'm guessing that's because most of my time in highschool I was short and nerdy, until I finally got my epic late growth spurt. But I'm actually proud of being a V. The reasons are religious in nature which I'm sure you adv anons aren't interested in hearing about Jesus.
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Anonymous 05/15/14(Thu)03:23 UTC+1 No.14264371 Report

>>14262862

>My first time, hard to explain
>Rush of blood, oh, and a little bit of pain
>On a cloudy day, it's more common than you think
>He's my first mistake
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