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Anonymous 05/16/14(Fri)13:21 UTC+1 No.14269658 Report

For those of you in a relationship:
How do you feel about your boy/girlfriend?
Do you love him/her?
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Anonymous 05/16/14(Fri)13:22 UTC+1 No.14269660 Report

no i dont i need to get out please help me
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Anonymous 05/16/14(Fri)13:27 UTC+1 No.14269667 Report

>>14269658
I think the answer
>I love her
Answers both of your questions simultaneously.
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Anonymous 05/16/14(Fri)14:00 UTC+1 No.14269738 Report

Bumping this early on huh...
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Anonymous 05/16/14(Fri)14:06 UTC+1 No.14269745 Report

I have a girlfriend of 4 years and we live together, but i secretly hate her guts and wish she would go away...

Being single is awesome. Sure you miss the regular sex, but other than that it is pure win.
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Anonymous 05/16/14(Fri)14:08 UTC+1 No.14269748 Report

She has potential but I need time to mold her
She's a bit of a loser but very sweet so I want to help her and I enjoy her company
Too early to say I love her
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Anonymous 05/16/14(Fri)14:41 UTC+1 No.14269791 Report

>>14269748
>helping a girl to become more social
Only two possible outcomes:
You don't succeed and you realize you don't want to be dating an antisocial girl, you only dated her because you wanted to save her.
You succeed and she realizes that she can now do better then you.
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Anonymous 05/16/14(Fri)17:06 UTC+1 No.14270149 Report

>>14269791
or...
>You realize you just wanted to help her enjoy her life more and continue dating
>You succeed and you know spend nights laughing together as she destroys the morale of guys via text with you - point i'm at.
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Anonymous 05/16/14(Fri)17:08 UTC+1 No.14270154 Report

I feel like he doesn't love me.
So I am now slowly falling out of love with him to ease the pain of our inevitable break up.
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Anonymous 05/16/14(Fri)17:10 UTC+1 No.14270159 Report

>>14269658
Been together for two years, and i do love her. We fight all the fucking time now though and i don't know how much longer it will last, so it can be painful sometimes.
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Anonymous 05/17/14(Sat)00:56 UTC+1 No.14271258 Report

Bumping again.
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Anonymous 05/17/14(Sat)00:58 UTC+1 No.14271265 Report

I think the world of him. He's incredibly sweet and caring, super fucking intelligent, cool as fuck, and I love him. I love him so much.
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Anonymous 05/17/14(Sat)00:59 UTC+1 No.14271267 Report

>>14271265
And really fucking attractive. God, the sex game. I fuck him every day. He's too fucking good.
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Anonymous 05/17/14(Sat)01:04 UTC+1 No.14271279 Report

I love my boyfriend very much, but it worries me that he sometimes gets stuck in this mindset that I'm going to lie and cheat on him. I know this is because of his past and nothing to do with me, but it bothers me and the littlest things can set him off in that mindset. When he does go into this mindset he becomes distant and beats himself up over it until I reassure him.
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Anonymous 05/17/14(Sat)01:14 UTC+1 No.14271301 Report

>>14269658
I'm with my first GF and going on 2 months. I don't know if I love her. I don't know if she loves me. She's very introverted and doesn't like to talk much about things, and I too am introverted and don't like to talk about things. We're both happy, and I don't see a problem with anything, but I like to talk to her every day at least on something small, and we keep on that until we're together. It's nice.
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Tippy 05/17/14(Sat)01:16 UTC+1 No.14271307 Report

>>14269658
Married and completely in love
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Anonymous 05/17/14(Sat)01:16 UTC+1 No.14271309 Report

>>14269658
my boyfriend is the only person I know worth putting emotions and time into. Friends always get mad at me with that whole 12 year old "chicks before dicks" saying, but I'm sorry friends, you're personalities suck compared to his.

I knew my boyfriend since I was 14, and masturbated to him since.

When I look at his face, my innards churn and I feel like I kinda have to shit. His voice also makes me feel like I have to shit. I think this is a nervous behavior. I also just wanna touch his face all over. His kisses are weird because I'm pretty sure he learned to kiss by watching porn when he was 12. But I don't mind because his perverted behavior is cute.

We show little PDA. The downside is most people think we're just close friends since we aren't parading around making out and shit. Soft grabs at my hips occasionally in public and walking at the same pace is more intimate.

Sometimes he's narcissistic, but then again, so am I. Some shit he does is annoying. Kinda just too playful, but I guess that's better than being negative/whiny too much.

He touches my nose when I'm sad and I reach out to him sniffing like a puppy. When laying in our rooms we cocoon ourselves in separate blankets and look at the ceiling and talk about things.

The sex game ridiculous.

This has been the most beautiful relationship I've had.
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Anonymous 05/17/14(Sat)01:17 UTC+1 No.14271314 Report

>>14271309
(he doesnt care about you in the same way.)
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Anonymous 05/17/14(Sat)01:19 UTC+1 No.14271319 Report

>>14271314
wat. I didn't answer to the full extent of our relationship. I kinda just put in the little things I enjoy. I know he feels the same way.
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Anonymous 05/17/14(Sat)01:20 UTC+1 No.14271325 Report

>>14271319
nope, no relationship is equal.
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Anonymous 05/17/14(Sat)01:22 UTC+1 No.14271328 Report

I am not in a relationship, so I will address the girl I exchanged glances with the other day.

She is very cute, and I would like to fuck her.
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Anonymous 05/17/14(Sat)01:23 UTC+1 No.14271335 Report

>>14269658

Not really unfortunately. She's just easy steady sex for the time being.

But it's hard out there man. Sometimes you just got to hang on and deal with a situation until better comes along.
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Anonymous 05/17/14(Sat)01:25 UTC+1 No.14271343 Report

>>14271325
Well, of course not. But the passion/compassion/love is mutual. So what, I should just break up with him and never be in a relationship again since it won't be equal? What's you're main point? If it's this, >>14271314 well, you aren't in his head. Neither am I, but I trust that he would have left by now if he didn't feel the same. All you know is a few sentences I have stated about our relationship. Nowhere close to making that assumption. So good day.
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Anonymous 05/17/14(Sat)01:34 UTC+1 No.14271381 Report

I don't love my wife, we're married for 8 years now.

Today I caught myself thinking of my ex from 10 years ago remembering our moments like it happened yesterday, so vivid it was... I miss her
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Anonymous 05/17/14(Sat)01:37 UTC+1 No.14271390 Report

>>14271381
Why are you guys married if you don't love her?
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Anonymous 05/17/14(Sat)01:39 UTC+1 No.14271403 Report

I adore him, he is my best friend in the universe. Once I'm outta college I'm taking him on a million adventures.
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Anonymous 05/17/14(Sat)01:39 UTC+1 No.14271404 Report

>>14271343
Just saying, fyi. ^^
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Anonymous 05/17/14(Sat)01:40 UTC+1 No.14271409 Report

>>14271390

Sometimes it just becomes convenient. You live together, you mostly get along, you're scared of being alone.

People don't know what it's like out there when you are a dude and haven't been single in forever. You forget everything you ever remembered about pursuing women.
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Anonymous 05/17/14(Sat)01:54 UTC+1 No.14271488 Report

>>14271409
You're pretty right about it. I'm in this situation...
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Anonymous 05/17/14(Sat)02:12 UTC+1 No.14271545 Report

I did. Im giving up though and just going along with our relationship til he breaks up with me. I did alot for him and see that he just takes it for granted, he doesnt treat me especially, so Ive grown bored. Id rather be loved then love.
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Anonymous 05/17/14(Sat)02:16 UTC+1 No.14271556 Report

> How do you feel about your boy/girlfriend?

She's made of awesome... kind, fun, sensitive, adventurous, ambitious, intelligent. Blah blah blah.

> Do you love him/her?
I have no idea, I only seem to love people when they are torn from me. I guess I'm still thinking "she's so ideal, how did this happen?" and I feel like an imposter. Anyway I have her best interests in mind, unless I'm horny, and together we can do everything we've ever wanted.
Probably a perfect best friend at the very least, my emotions have just died of heart attack (over a year ago).
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Anonymous 05/17/14(Sat)02:18 UTC+1 No.14271564 Report

even after dating for 4 years, I would leave in a heartbeat given a good reason.

I refuse to hand over the power
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Anonymous 05/17/14(Sat)02:38 UTC+1 No.14271608 Report

The replies in this thread are honestly rather concerning.
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Anonymous 05/17/14(Sat)02:40 UTC+1 No.14271614 Report

>>14271608

Well what do you mean?
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Anonymous 05/17/14(Sat)02:46 UTC+1 No.14271625 Report

i'm in a really conflicting mind state right now and i don't know if i really love my boyfriend anymore. we've been together for 2 years and i just don't think i want to be with the same person for the rest of my life. he was my first everything and he means a lot too me i just don't know how to break it off. i don't want to keep putting up an act around him
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Anonymous 05/17/14(Sat)02:47 UTC+1 No.14271628 Report

>>14271625
just do it, the longer you wait the more itll hurt him when shit boils over because you will drop hints
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Anonymous 05/17/14(Sat)02:50 UTC+1 No.14271632 Report

>>14271628
i just don't know if i'm making the right decision yet. shit sucks, i know he's going to be a mess and i'm gonna be a wreck too. this will prob be the hardest thing i'm ever gonna do
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Anonymous 05/17/14(Sat)02:53 UTC+1 No.14271640 Report

>>14271632
just make sure whatever you decide you stick with it, because if he is actually a man he won't take you back.
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Anonymous 05/17/14(Sat)02:57 UTC+1 No.14271650 Report

I love her more than anything else.
She's the reason I'm still alive.
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Anonymous 05/17/14(Sat)03:02 UTC+1 No.14271659 Report

>>14271650

You don't love her. You just love her doggy style.
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Anonymous 05/17/14(Sat)03:11 UTC+1 No.14271677 Report

>>14271608
They're honest.
And really, what more could you hope for?
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Anonymous 05/17/14(Sat)03:14 UTC+1 No.14271685 Report

I thought I loved my ex until after time after we had sex everything she said annoyed me.
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Anonymous 05/17/14(Sat)03:20 UTC+1 No.14271697 Report

>>14271685
>man while sexing
narrow-minded and irritable if cock blocked
>man after sexing
calm and collected, at his most logic minded state

the power of jizzing
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Anonymous 05/17/14(Sat)03:27 UTC+1 No.14271709 Report

>>14271685
This is part of being male. You'll always feel better in the morning.
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Anonymous 05/17/14(Sat)03:30 UTC+1 No.14271717 Report

She and I have been together for 4 years.

2 weeks after our four year anniversary, I found out that she had slept with another man a year prior to that while we were fighting quite regularly.

I have been near suicide for 3 months. But I love her so much, I've been willing to try and be happy, and it has been getting easier.

But there are nights where I just feel like I can't take any more. I know every explicit detail, and it haunts me like a ghost every day.

And yet I cant help but feel she is still not telling me something.

I love her, and I don't want to lose her. I've been practically married to her, and have already made arrangements for life together.

Love is a motherfucker.
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Anonymous 05/17/14(Sat)03:35 UTC+1 No.14271728 Report

I am reading all the girl's replies to this thread and wishing someone felt the same way towards me.

Is anyone available to pity me right now?
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Anonymous 05/17/14(Sat)03:38 UTC+1 No.14271736 Report

Most of the time I feel pretty fuzzy and happy inside when I just stop and think "wow, he's really mine." I imagine myself growing older with him and just experiencing life together. We both feel so comfortable and relaxed around each other. We have fucking great laughs and the sex is wonderful. Sometimes he gets on my nerves when he sings along to music on the radio or doesn't exactly pay attention to my feelings, but whenever somethings wrong he tries his best to help. He's such a fucking sweetheart.
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Anonymous 05/17/14(Sat)03:39 UTC+1 No.14271738 Report

Fuck you guys.
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Anonymous 05/17/14(Sat)03:44 UTC+1 No.14271745 Report

>>14271738

What's wrong!?
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Anonymous 05/17/14(Sat)03:48 UTC+1 No.14271754 Report

>>14271745
he's obviously frustrated that he's single
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Anonymous 05/17/14(Sat)03:50 UTC+1 No.14271761 Report

>>14271728
iktfb
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Anonymous 05/17/14(Sat)03:50 UTC+1 No.14271762 Report

she is my first GF and we are together since 9 month.

She says she loves me since the first day we met.
But I dont, I have once been in love but I dont think I will ever love her, was looking for marriage material and now I dont feel anything for her.
Feeling its moving towards >>14271409

She knows it and im going to get some therapy for my past depression and emotional flatness.
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Anonymous 05/17/14(Sat)03:52 UTC+1 No.14271770 Report

>>14271745
>>14271754
Yep. I was sort of joking but I am a pretty unhappy guy.
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Anonymous 05/17/14(Sat)03:56 UTC+1 No.14271780 Report

I am unsure about my relationship. Part of me wants out... part of me wants back with my ex... and part of me wants to be alone again... sadly I've got no way of figuring it out without someone trying to give input or letting my current girlfriend know what's going on and she's stupid clingy... Idk what to do that wouldn't literally crush her.
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Anonymous 05/17/14(Sat)04:02 UTC+1 No.14271794 Report

Got a question:
I am >>14271762

I'd be interested to know, if its good, if we really never had any fight in our relationship? I mean we are both rather depressed/ beta, but not a single fight in almost a year, how normal is that?
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Anonymous 05/17/14(Sat)04:11 UTC+1 No.14271812 Report

It's weird dating your high school crush when you are an adult. Every once in a while when I look at him, I get the same weird feeling in my stomach that I would get as a teenager. I've had boyfriends and dates before him, but I never got that feeling with those guys. I've loved him long before we started dating. I wanted him so much, and I kept it a secret for years. If he didn't have any feelings for me, I would rather have him as a friend than not at all. It wasn't until I was twenty when I realized he really cared about me. I had never approached a guy before, and I was really nervous. I felt creepy, weird, and ungraceful doing it, but I'm glad I did. I know people think it's silly and childish, but he's my first love, and I hope he's my last.
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Anonymous 05/17/14(Sat)05:48 UTC+1 No.14272064 Report

>>14271614
>>14271677
I just mean that if I meet somebody, I'll never know if she really loves me, or I might end up not loving her, but we'll be together out of convenience because the love aspect of life is so, so fucking hard.

Even if I have a "soul mate", I will probably never meet her. The only solution seems to be staying single and/or fucking around.

It's not really THAT bad. I mean, there's a lot more things to life. But relationships? Nah, fuck 'em. I give up.
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Anonymous 05/17/14(Sat)05:51 UTC+1 No.14272073 Report

>>14269658
married to my high school sweetheart. wouldn't change a thing.
yes, i love him.
i'd tell you our story but it's so sweet you'd all vomit in your mouths. i wouldn't do that to you.

that whole "true love" thing can happen.
obviously i'm not a fortune teller, and maybe one day some shit will happen or we'll change and fuck forbid we get a divorce. that's a bridge you cross when it comes.
but when i'm with him, i'm in the moment. obviously we argue and shit. we're different people. it's bound to happen. but overwhelmingly, he makes me happy and we're very stable. we really won the lottery.

ftr he was my 2nd boyfriend and i was his 1st girlfriend. both virgins when we met. sex is great once you figure out wtf is going on. you can feel the progress, too. it's like working out. so worth it.
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Anonymous 05/17/14(Sat)06:53 UTC+1 No.14272207 Report

>>14271794
I'd say what you guys have is more like a companionship type relationship, where you're basically best friends plus dating.

I was in your shoes, the only thing we ever fought over was that I wasn't in love with her and didn't want to marry her.
It made her really depressed and everyone I talked to told me to break it off so I just did, without argument.
It was a really painful experience for a long time and then it got a bit better and then got even worse, and I've been really depressed since.

My greatest regret is that I didn't talk about how I felt and try and make it work before deciding it was over.
Which is my advice to you.
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Anonymous 05/17/14(Sat)07:16 UTC+1 No.14272258 Report

been with the same guy since highschool for 3 years now. I don't even touch him anymore. were pretty much just roommates. I use to be obsessed with him now I just look at him in disgust.
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Anonymous 05/17/14(Sat)07:31 UTC+1 No.14272303 Report

>>14272207
>>14271794
I've been dating a guy for 10 months, never once had a fight (we even live together). The reason why I think is because we are just both very laid back and respectful people. We don't get offended or hurt by most things, and what issues I've had I usually just tell him calmly and we work something out, no fights. I'm not sure why you guys don't fight, but I'd suggest looking over things for a second. Do you not fight because nothing comes up (or it is resolved peacefully)? Or do you guys just not bring up things that bother you? It can sometimes be intimidating bringing up something when it might create a fight, but if you do so in a respectful and non-aggressive way the issue can usually be easily dealt with. If you are not bringing up issues it can obviously lead to building resentment.
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Anonymous 05/17/14(Sat)11:45 UTC+1 No.14272789 Report

Bump
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Anonymous 05/17/14(Sat)12:04 UTC+1 No.14272802 Report

My boyfriend is so caring, loving and funny, he makes me smile, feel so special and always laugh. I love him so much.

He's changed and grown a lot during the past three years of our relationship, and I more in love with him then ever and to this day he still makes me feel so loved and precious.

Right now I'm really proud that he's trying so hard at finding a job here so we can live together again. I'm so excited to see him again and I honestly hope he get's a job he loves. He has struggled before with finding work so I honestly am hoping it works out and am so impressed he's trying this hard.

He is sensitive and full of so much love sadly there is a lot of sadness within him too.

I'm beyond impressed and so happy at the progress he has made both with his social issues and anxiety (almost completely gone now) and depression. It amazes me how resillent he is and how far he has come also with his independence.

He is my best friend, an incredible lover, my confidant, my everything.

His touch makes me quiver, his words comfort me and his love brings me so much life.

On a deeper level I feel we are very similar people and that we are each other's halves. He's helped me through a lot and made me a better person, and he's told me that I saved him (which I feel very blessed that I was able to). Honestly I want to spend the rest of my life with him. He is my first in every sense of the word and I hope he is always.

I think I answered this already but yes with all of my being.
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Anonymous 05/17/14(Sat)12:08 UTC+1 No.14272805 Report

>>14272802
You seem like a keeper, are you really a girl or a neckbeard fulfilling his waifu fantasies? If you are said girl, where can I find one like you? Most just seem to be around for a short wild ride, then become totally absent and uncaring after.
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Anonymous 05/17/14(Sat)12:14 UTC+1 No.14272809 Report

I have been with my boyfriend for two and a half years. I think he is perfect, and we're really good for each other. We've never fought, and he always puts me before anything else. He's really a sweetheart, and just the kind of guy I like. I definitely love him.
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Anonymous 05/17/14(Sat)12:30 UTC+1 No.14272821 Report

>>14272805
Aww thanks anon, I really am a girl! I didn't even mention the part about being a lolita (some people's waifu dream image) or the fact that I like and participate in his 'nerdy' hobbies sci fi, mtg, vidya etc.So I find it bizarre that you already questioned my legitimacy.I'm not perfect though and I have some issues myself (pertaining to body dysmorphia/image and esteem) but I'm working on them and I'm much better, I'm very grateful to have such a supportive partner though. I think we are both lucky we have found sound someone who cares so much about us, that they are there through it all and during long distance at times.

Our relationship started out of a friendship which started online due to same music taste so there is that but I have known many other girls similar to me although a lot of them are in very happy long lasting supportive relationships. Don't give up hope though anon I really do think you will meet the right girl one day. I also wish you the best when you do. It's sad to hear that the girls in your life so far have only been caring for a small amount of time. I really do wish you all the best anon.
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Anonymous 05/17/14(Sat)12:37 UTC+1 No.14272828 Report

>>14272821
>So I find it bizarre that you already questioned my legitimacy
4chan you know...
Yeah thanks for your words, as I'm beginning to feel really pessimistic about people in general. I'm getting sick of this fake game people are playing.
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Anonymous 05/17/14(Sat)12:49 UTC+1 No.14272841 Report

>>14272828
>4chan you know...
Oh yeah that is true.

You are most welcome anon. It's very sad to hear that you are feeling that way about people in general. I really hope you meet people who treat you the way you deserve to be.
My boyfriend used to feel the same way as you as he has been treated similarly by many people especially in past relationships but even before we were dating he told me this and that I had made him feel a bit better about people/females that some people really do care and are good. I honestly feel the majority of people are good, and I really hope that someone caring, loving, honest and positive enters your life as a friend or girl friend. That your pessismistic view of the human race turns into a more optimisitc or a view of realism.
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Anonymous 05/17/14(Sat)12:56 UTC+1 No.14272845 Report

>>14272841
Thanks, its good to hear these words. I guess I just need to work on myself and try to maintain a positive outlook (which will translate to being more open to others).
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Anonymous 05/17/14(Sat)13:03 UTC+1 No.14272849 Report

>>14272845
My pleasure anon. That's such a positive way of thinking and I hope that it not only helps you to find caring, supportive, honest people but that you feel a lot better too. Goodnight and goodluck.
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Anonymous 05/17/14(Sat)14:31 UTC+1 No.14272941 Report

>>14271625
Why dont you just talk to him more. Most guys can be a complete dunderhead at times. And im sure he feels strongly towards you
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FF3 05/17/14(Sat)14:33 UTC+1 No.14272948 Report

YES
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Anonymous 05/17/14(Sat)14:38 UTC+1 No.14272959 Report

I've been married for 13 years, and I love someone else.
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Anonymous 05/17/14(Sat)14:44 UTC+1 No.14272973 Report

>>14269658
My best friend had broke up with his gf two weeks ago beacuse she lost all her feelings to him during 3 months. His gf loves me more than i could imagine so right now she is MY gf.
BF still loves her, he suffers. BF does not know about things that happen between me and gf. Actually nobody knows.
PS i love her :(
f*ck, idk what to do now
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Anonymous 05/17/14(Sat)14:52 UTC+1 No.14272991 Report

>>14271325
>no relationship is equal
This gets thrown around a lot in /adv/ and /r9k/ and it's really not true.
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Anonymous 05/17/14(Sat)14:57 UTC+1 No.14272998 Report

It's complicated. I'm not really fond of people to begin with, really introverted.

It just seems like there's always something negative going on in her life, and I guess it kind of wears me out a bit. At one point, I want to support her, but I don't want to become part of the foundation. I honestly can't tell whether she's exaggerating or making these stories up anymore. I don't know what she's saying, or how it's being said because she just gets drawn into these blind rages whenever something becomes remotely difficult. It's not surprising, I understand how this behavior has come to be, but I really do wish she'd be a little bit more independent at times. That's pretty rich coming from a guy that lives with his mother, I guess. I don't even really know what to say to her anymore. There's nothing I could say to resolve the conflict, nor do I wish to make assumption without knowing the whole story. So naturally, I'm at a loss of what to say and end up with the trigger pointed towards me.

When all is well and out in the open, I enjoy her company. However, that time spent seems to be becoming a minority. We're both at weird points in our lives right now, and I think that's why we work. I don't know what's going to happen when that changes, though.

She's my first lover, and my first tragedy. The girl I gave everything to, and the one I watched smash it in front of me. "It was years ago," she retorts. How am I supposed to respond? No, why should I respond? It's subjective, it's my experience, and it's my understanding. I've given her freedom at every turn, but of course that's always too easy.

Is it love? I don't know. It's not selfish.
Perhaps it'd remain better undefined, lest it become a clearer target.
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Anonymous 05/17/14(Sat)15:09 UTC+1 No.14273017 Report

>>14272973
I was in a similar boat, however, my options were presented to me in a much clearer fashion.

In essence, I was basically told to either choose the girl, or my friend. My decision here is irrelevant, as the basis of your decision depends entirely upon the variables at play from your perspective.

Consider everything. Every possible solution, all the information you've received up until this point. Splay it all out, and the path is obvious.

The choice I had to make was between what I had always longed for, the greatest thing I'd ever had, and something I had never even dreamed possible. In the end, I feel like the result was the natural one. I've learned a lot about my old friends due to our conflicts and distance, and I've learned a lot about the person I'm with for the same reasons. In the end, the choice you make is always the correct one. You are the one making it, after all.
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Anonymous 05/17/14(Sat)15:16 UTC+1 No.14273036 Report

Is it possible to love two people /adv/isors?
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Anonymous 05/17/14(Sat)15:20 UTC+1 No.14273045 Report

>>14273036
no
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Anonymous 05/17/14(Sat)15:21 UTC+1 No.14273046 Report

>>14272973
My mom told me when I was a kid, "Never let a girl come between you and a friend."

When I finally learned that lesson, from both sides of the coin (being left for a friend, stealing from a friend), I realized that people don't give two fucks about you when it involves their desires. Do whatever you want, dude, because you lose either way
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Anonymous 05/17/14(Sat)15:21 UTC+1 No.14273047 Report

>>14273036
Sorry, that conflicts with the physical laws of the universe. Better luck next time!
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Anonymous 05/17/14(Sat)15:21 UTC+1 No.14273048 Report

>>14273045
Would a girl really stay in a relationship with someone they don't really love?
I'm still really confused then
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Anonymous 05/17/14(Sat)15:22 UTC+1 No.14273052 Report

>>14273048
No.

You stay because you hope. You leave when there's none.
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Anonymous 05/17/14(Sat)15:27 UTC+1 No.14273062 Report

>>14273052
Well a girl confessed feelings for me after 3 years still. About a year of disconnection before she did
She got into a relationship a year ago
She says she really cares about the guy
She says she feels like she's choosing between two people
She said "I felt like I had a deeper connection to you"
I never gave confirmation on how I felt. I just kept saying, "I feel you will choose *guys name* in the end"
Or I would say "I can't really advise you here."
I asked her later over text "We're just staying friends, right?"
She said of course.
I feel played like a fiddle even though I had no interest in her at first; now I'm starting to notice something.
I usually ignore it. It pains to see her anymore. I think it's a mixture of annoyance and anger.
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Anonymous 05/17/14(Sat)15:28 UTC+1 No.14273065 Report

I'm pretty sure I made it official with my bf way too early.

Sometimes he annoys me just by speaking because he is a huge hypocrite and a liar and I'm starting to notice. He kisses me with his eyes open (my friend told me). Last week I told him to stop bringing his gun to my house because it bothers my roommate and I thought he'd be cool with that because we're hardly ever at my house but he straight up told me no and then changed the subject and ignored me talking about it just so he didn't have to make a compromise with me. I want to spend more time with him but he only wants to hang out a couple times a week. I have this weird feeling like he doesn't really like me but I'm just the only girl he can get. He doesn't make any effort to get to know me better but I try so hard to talk to him. He doesn't always hear me, he is either ignoring me or just not listening because he's not interested. He says he loves me but he doesn't show it very well.

My ex is still in love with me and I sometimes want to cheat on my bf with him because the sex with my ex is better. I'm pretty close to just dumping my bf and getting back with my ex but I hate my ex so much. But I don't just dump my bf because I'm scared of what his brother could do to me because he's fucking nuts. I'm also kinda scared at what my bf might do.
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Anonymous 05/17/14(Sat)15:35 UTC+1 No.14273079 Report

>>14273065
>I sometimes want to cheat on my bf with him because the sex with my ex is better
They're an ex for a reason. Don't fucking consider that.
>scared of the family
get support from others. Press charges if something worse happens. Don't stay in a relationship if you feel no connection to the person.
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Anonymous 05/17/14(Sat)15:38 UTC+1 No.14273085 Report

You need to explore.
"Stahp gun plz?" "no."

Ask him why, try to understand, and compromise.
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Anonymous 05/17/14(Sat)15:44 UTC+1 No.14273101 Report

>>14273062
I feel like I'm correct in not trying to get with her since she has a bf
I just don't know how to make things better again
I ain't a crook son. I'm just a shook one
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Anonymous 05/17/14(Sat)15:47 UTC+1 No.14273109 Report

>>14273101
ur a nigger
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Anonymous 05/17/14(Sat)15:49 UTC+1 No.14273113 Report

>>14273109
thanks
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Anonymous 05/17/14(Sat)15:52 UTC+1 No.14273120 Report

>>14273113
no problam
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