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Anonymous 05/13/14(Tue)22:53 UTC+1 No.14259751 Report

How to tell if a guy genuinely wants to be a girl's (with a bf's) friend or if he just wants the V?
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Anonymous 05/13/14(Tue)22:56 UTC+1 No.14259756 Report

Hard to tell. He probably wants the V, but the more important question is iff he will act on that want or not. Find out if he has good impulse control.
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Anonymous 05/13/14(Tue)23:02 UTC+1 No.14259765 Report

>>14259756

How do you act with a girl you like vs a girl you don't but are still friendly to?
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Anonymous 05/13/14(Tue)23:04 UTC+1 No.14259771 Report

>>14259751
if you have to ask, he probably doesn't genuinely want to be with you.
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Anonymous 05/13/14(Tue)23:06 UTC+1 No.14259775 Report

>>14259771

I'm not asking about that. I mean, if a guy likes a girl who already has a bf, how would he act?
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Anonymous 05/13/14(Tue)23:12 UTC+1 No.14259790 Report

>>14259775

Depends on the person.

I act like I usually do, more or less, with my male friends.
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Anonymous 05/13/14(Tue)23:14 UTC+1 No.14259802 Report

>>14259790

So if you had a girlfriend, and she had a new guy friend..what's the most benign could he do that would make you go "hmmm, I wonder about that fucker's intentions?"

I don't actually have a situation by the way, I'm just wondering because I have no idea. I'm pretty naive.
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Anonymous 05/13/14(Tue)23:17 UTC+1 No.14259810 Report

>>14259802

I guess if he's really touchy with my GF that would ring some alarm bells or trying to hang around her all the time.
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Anonymous 05/13/14(Tue)23:20 UTC+1 No.14259819 Report

If a guy wants the V, he will (or try) to make sexual innuendo around you. But he won't do it in a completely joking way. He may laugh or it may be funny, but there will be an air of "sexiness", or at least an attempt. He will try to be physical, in any way. He'll try to act like a confident bad ass in front of you, more so than just to look cool. He'll ask you on a date, etc.

If a guy just wants friendship, he'll be friendly. You know how you talk to your friends? Do you flirt with them? No. That's what he'll be like. If you show him clear (as in, overt, not subtle) signs you are interested and he doesn't reciprocate, 9/10 he isn't interested in you like that.
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Anonymous 05/13/14(Tue)23:22 UTC+1 No.14259825 Report

>>14259802

Yes, if he was constantly contacting her, or touching her, I'd know something was up. But it wouldn't be a big deal for me, because she and I both know I have a bigger penis, so it's not like she's going anywhere.
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Anonymous 05/13/14(Tue)23:27 UTC+1 No.14259836 Report

They always want the V
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Anonymous 05/13/14(Tue)23:31 UTC+1 No.14259850 Report

>>14259819

This behavior sounds really overt and OTT though, would people really do that to a girl with a bf?
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Anonymous 05/13/14(Tue)23:32 UTC+1 No.14259856 Report

>>14259850
Yes. Yes they would.
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Anonymous 05/13/14(Tue)23:35 UTC+1 No.14259865 Report

>>14259856

So, how should the girl react in this situation if she's not interested?
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Anonymous 05/13/14(Tue)23:44 UTC+1 No.14259891 Report

>>14259865
Be honest. If he makes you uncomfortable woth what he's saying ask him to stop, or leave. If he asks you on a date politely tell him you're not interested. If he's touching you and you don't like it ask him to stop touching you. These are fairly strong indications you are not interested.

If he's not making you uncomfortable don't make an issue out of it, but don't flirt with him. And bring up your boyfriend casually in the conversation (another fairly strong indication).
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Anonymous 05/13/14(Tue)23:46 UTC+1 No.14259897 Report

>>14259836
this.
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Anonymous 05/13/14(Tue)23:50 UTC+1 No.14259907 Report

>>14259751
Guys ALWAYS want the V, except when they want the D.

Just know that. I have many female friends, and I'd fuck everyone of them (I don't befriend ugly girls lol). That doesn't mean however that I'd fuck them if they asked me to.

So the REAL question is not whether he WANTS the V, but whether he INTENDS to get the V
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)00:01 UTC+1 No.14259946 Report

You will never fucking know because everyone is different. Surprise!
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)00:01 UTC+1 No.14259947 Report

>>14259907

I disagree, man. I'm pretty loyal to my gf.
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)00:04 UTC+1 No.14259959 Report

>>14259947

kill yourself
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)00:04 UTC+1 No.14259963 Report

>>14259836
100% this, if you're somewhat attractive you better believe he wants to fuck you. Whether he acts on it is a different story
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)00:16 UTC+1 No.14260008 Report

>>14259947
being loyal has got NOTHING to do with wanting another V
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)00:17 UTC+1 No.14260012 Report

>>14259751
>How to tell if a guy genuinely wants to be a girl's (with a bf's) friend or if he just wants the V?

>yfw you fucking realize that the reason boys get attracted to YOU in the first place to is plant his dick in there and get you to squirt at a baby version of him.

>yfw you realize the reason YOU like SOME BOY is because you are programmed by nature to seek out a stable or protective (strong physically or able to manipulate/bully his environment or other people) guy to have him plant his dick in you and squirt out a baby you, and make sure he can protect you and baby until it's old enough to survive on its own.


Teenage love has been and awalys will be teenage LUST. Anyone who tells you otherwise is a grade A retard.

Honesty about why and how people get together can be helpful in accepting or changing situations you're in.

Don't be one of those chicks that whines about their selfish asshole boyfriend but keeps going back to get rooted nightly. No guy wants to hear someone complain about something a person has the power to change.
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)00:26 UTC+1 No.14260054 Report

>>14260012

Huh? I never complain about my boyfriend.

>>14259963

That's kind of creepy. I hope they don't find me attractive. I'm thinking about staying away from guys now..
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)00:29 UTC+1 No.14260064 Report

>>14260054
>That's kind of creepy. I hope they don't find me attractive. I'm thinking about staying away from guys now..

>Derp, I got no clue what human sexuality is all about.
>Derp, I'm uncomfortable with reality.

Live in a cave.
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)00:29 UTC+1 No.14260065 Report

>>14260054
Oh please. Can you honestly say you don't find any men besides your boyfriend attractive? Do you go fuck them? People have self-control, don't let attraction turn you into a recluse.
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)00:30 UTC+1 No.14260068 Report

>>14260054
ITT: immature 12 year old girls.
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)00:32 UTC+1 No.14260074 Report

>>14260065
I do, of course, but I meant..I don't have any feelings of 'wanting their D'. I find people attractive but I'm not interested in anyone else sexually. Every guy here keeps saying they all want their friends V. I'll keep my old guy friends but I feel like I can't trust new ones.
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)00:37 UTC+1 No.14260091 Report

>>14260074
Old guys are creepier than young guys, their standards just go down so they get laid more.
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)00:45 UTC+1 No.14260118 Report

>>14260091

No, I meant as in old friends, not that their age is old.
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)00:50 UTC+1 No.14260144 Report

>>14260091
>their standards just go down
>standards go down
>implying younger chicks are a low standard.

Old fat aging ugly bitches are low standards.
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)00:51 UTC+1 No.14260149 Report

>>14260091

You heard it here first, all guys are creepy, and as you get older you get creepier.

There you go guys. Enjoy knowing the opposite gender feels like you're a closet rapist.
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)01:00 UTC+1 No.14260177 Report

>>14260118
They feel the same way you know...
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)01:01 UTC+1 No.14260184 Report

>>14260149
Eh the only difference between creepy and not creepy really is attraction. I don't hold it against guys if I find something creepy about them unless they make it my issue.


And I mean you're less likely to find a younger guy that will take anything home as you will an older guy.

I mean, I'm a creep in my head too don't get me wrong, and I'm sure I've creeped people out, men are just less likely to be dramatic bitches about it because they realize the world doesn't revolve around them
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)01:05 UTC+1 No.14260195 Report

All guys want the V, this is basic human sexuality.

Once you get over this you'll probably be ready for a real human relationship.
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)01:33 UTC+1 No.14260278 Report

>>14260184
>I don't hold it against guys if I find something creepy about them unless they make it my issue.

What the fuck? How narcissistic are cunts of this generation.

>Its my issue that I find them creepy, but as long as they don't call me out on it, I won't hold it against them.

That's exactly the type of behavior that you see from entitled cunts in clubs and bars. They're the ones with the problem, but they'll hate or shame any guy that calls them on their bitch shit.

Fucking degeneracy in this generation.. count me out.
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)01:36 UTC+1 No.14260287 Report

>>14260278
Err? How is that terrible or making me a cunt?

If a guy looks at me, or whatever it's fine. If a guy keeps trying to touch me, or tries to kiss me, or somehow makes it my problem or my issue, it's not fine. If by an entitled cunt in the bar you mean I don't suffer every crack head or 45 year old alcoholic regular that wants to touch me, then yes, I suppose I will be the fucking entitled cunt and wear that crown with honor.

You sound more stuck up than me sir.
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)01:57 UTC+1 No.14260347 Report

>>14259836
this. everything else pseudo psychological bullshit.
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)02:07 UTC+1 No.14260381 Report

>>14260287
>somehow makes it my problem or my issue, it's not fine.

What you think of people is your problem. You're avoiding responsibility for your thoughts or forcing others to take that. If someone says Fuck you for thinking they're creepy they're putting your own problem back on you at which point then you get rustled jimmies because they don't take your bitch attitude like some sort of doormat.

Touching or trying to kiss someone who doesn't want it depends on the issue.
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)02:12 UTC+1 No.14260400 Report

>>14260287
Honestly, Im hitting on chicks your age while Im at the same age. When I get to 45, I will still be doing it, and at 45 you will be crying into your double fudge ice cream over how guys now find you unattractive, and you didn't develop a personality that can make up for it.

>pic related.

The kind of chicks Im hitting on now and will be hitting on for the next 35 years. Get used to it, whore.
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)02:14 UTC+1 No.14260408 Report

This thread is now a "laugh at stupid hypocritical women" thread.
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)02:16 UTC+1 No.14260415 Report

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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)02:18 UTC+1 No.14260423 Report

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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)02:19 UTC+1 No.14260430 Report

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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)02:22 UTC+1 No.14260447 Report

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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)02:25 UTC+1 No.14260459 Report

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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)02:26 UTC+1 No.14260464 Report

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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)02:27 UTC+1 No.14260469 Report

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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)02:29 UTC+1 No.14260479 Report

>>14260287
I can imagine this person being like the one in pic.
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)02:31 UTC+1 No.14260488 Report

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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)02:33 UTC+1 No.14260491 Report

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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)02:34 UTC+1 No.14260495 Report

>>14260400
That's great for you?
>>14260381
So because I find someone creepy and keep it to myself until the infringe on my personal space or cross the line, I've got a bitch attitude.

Good to know. Some guy showed me his dick at the bar the other day and I laughed at the silliness of it and walked away, a full on crackhead tried to hug me in the smoke pit, so i told him to get the fuck off of me, and thats what makes me a bitch?


>>14260400
Cool story bro. You think being a 45 year old alcoholic that is hanging all over young girls is cool, well that's great for you, and if the girls like it even better.
>>14260479
Both of them are retarded.
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)02:35 UTC+1 No.14260498 Report

>>14260459
That just seems weird on both ends.

Am I reading this correctly, two people approached each other then suddenly did u turns and walked the opposite direction in which they were going?
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)02:39 UTC+1 No.14260507 Report

>>14260495
>oh god, all the male privilege is exploding inside me from reading this.

Next time I see 21-24 year olds chicks in bars getting hit on by 45 year old guys, I'm going to stand and applaud and cheer. If she cops an attitude I'll run to his defence.

I love how you're using derogatory terms to tack onto guys that you've already decided were creepy. He's not a crackhead or an alcoholic until you decided you didn't like how he was acting, I bet.
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)02:40 UTC+1 No.14260511 Report

>>14260495
Why you bigoted agaisnt guys' age, doe?
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)02:44 UTC+1 No.14260523 Report

>>14260507
No i'm fairly certain the black man wearing six pairs of sweaters with crusty hands, and burnt lips as well as sores all over his face was a crack head.

beyond that, if you are a respectable 45 year old man, acting like any adult should it's fine.

If you are an old, alcoholic guy that suffers himself onto not just a girl, but her entire group of friends (( happens quite often )), fuck at that point age doesn't even matter, it's just plain creepy behavior that crosses a line.

I like how you're taking everything I say out of context to fit this view that you've constructed of me, but I really don't see how not wanting random people to touch you as a male or female is wrong.

Would you want an old drunk 45 year old woman hanging all over you when your trying to hang out with your friends, or would you kindly tell the lady to fuck off. I've seen the later happen as well, as I mentioned, girls can be seen to be just as fucking creepy as guys can, guys just usually handle it better than the average girl, which leads to >>14260498
stupid shit like that.
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)02:47 UTC+1 No.14260538 Report

>>14260523
>Would you want an old drunk 45 year old woman hanging all over you when your trying to hang out with your friends, or would you kindly tell the lady to fuck off.

I'd probably fuck her, I'd rather give her my dick than a twat like you.
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)02:47 UTC+1 No.14260541 Report

>>14260511
I actually have more of an issue with the alcoholic part, not the old.

generally though where I'm from the young alcoholics are busy with their friends, it's only the old regulars that seem to really bother people.

There's a 75 year old at the bar who flirts with me all the time that I don't take issue with, but words don't offend me.
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)02:49 UTC+1 No.14260551 Report

>>14260541
Stop leading him on. People who are older still have feelings and emotions just like you.
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)02:49 UTC+1 No.14260554 Report

>>14260538
Well I suppose I have higher standards for myself, I would never fuck anyone as a take out order from a bar personally. I prefer to know if they have stds or not, maybe a little bit about them, etc.
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)02:51 UTC+1 No.14260563 Report

>>14260551
Pffft, that man has seen many a pair of tits come and go. You're just being ridiculous now and he's just killing time until he dies.
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)02:53 UTC+1 No.14260576 Report

>>14260495
Youre missing the point lol. Women age like milk, men (if they play their cards right) age like wine.

When you get old you'll literally be worthless unless you had kids. Mean while a quality aged male will be the exact opposite of creepy.

Sorry but this should required shit moms teach their daughters. But then again maybe they don't tell you that to be a cunt?
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)02:54 UTC+1 No.14260578 Report

>>14260554
>Well I suppose I have higher standards for myself, I would never fuck anyone as a take out order from a bar personally. I prefer to know if they have stds or not, maybe a little bit about them, etc.
>>14260554
>I cant figure out STD protection material, a.k.a condoms.
>I need to know more about someone before I casually fuck them.

Don't have kids. Your genes are top tard.
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)02:56 UTC+1 No.14260594 Report

>>14260576

I never argued that, and it entirely depends on genetics.

men do not always get better with age, and some women retain their beauty well into their later years. That's opening up a whole different can of worms though, including but not limited to socio-economics, genetics, environmental factors.. etc.

Women are not tied to men their same age either, I have met plenty of men my age (( early to mid twenties )) that specifically like older women.
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)02:58 UTC+1 No.14260600 Report

>>14260578
because condoms protect against all sexually transmitted diseases at 100% efficacy, and personally I've yet to meet a guy that wants his dick sucked with protection on.

You should be getting bored of this by now.
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)02:58 UTC+1 No.14260604 Report

>>14260563

Are you seriously saying a person's memories substitutes for having human relationships or a warm body in the present day?

Then dump all your friends/boyfriends/girlfriends and family.

Let's see if you don't mind never having any again when you're trying to have some.

I bet you'll have a breakdown out of loneliness. If you're attractive enough, you might find a chad type to stick his dick in you, which means you'll at least get away with not having to deal with having no sexual relations at all.

You're the one being ridiculous, acting like after people are old they suddenly stop having emotions desires and feelings like everyone else.

The only reason people are your friends are obviously due to physical attractiveness. It's definitely not your cunty personality.
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)03:00 UTC+1 No.14260613 Report

>>14260600
>because condoms protect against all sexually transmitted diseases at 100% efficacy, and personally I've yet to meet a guy that wants his dick sucked with protection on.

I've done that with chicks I knew had multiple guys she was fucking at the same time.

That's why flavored condoms exist. You're being retarded on purpose.
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)03:01 UTC+1 No.14260621 Report

>>14260613
Condoms still don't protect against all bodily fluids with 100% efficacy, you're retarded and I hope you shave your balls one day and then get warts.
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)03:02 UTC+1 No.14260626 Report

>>14260613
Actually flavored condoms exist so if you finish before her while wearing one her pussy tastes nice when you finish her off with a lick out.
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)03:02 UTC+1 No.14260629 Report

>>14260613
And I don't think,.. the guys.. have an issue with the flavor of latex so much as the condom itself..

I mean I've never asked.. I always assumed they hadn't tried it but to each their own I guess on your front.
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)03:04 UTC+1 No.14260633 Report

>>14260629
>>14260626
>>14260621

This is why fuck bitches get money, /adv. You neckbeards aren't missing a thing, as you are witnessing how it really is to be with a chick. Irrational, solipsistic, completely lacking in introspective capability, etc.

Guys are for friends, pussies are for fucking. Remember that and don't get them confused. You'll spend your life with someone like this otherwise.
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)03:06 UTC+1 No.14260641 Report

>>14260633
This is why girls can never win ladies. You want to have sex? What a slut, don't you know condoms don't protect against STDs fully? You don't want to have sex with someone you met a a bar because of STDs? You are everything that is wrong with women.
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)03:08 UTC+1 No.14260649 Report

>>14260633
>> All women are attention seeking whores
>> Why don't you give everyone you meet your attention

This thread.
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)03:10 UTC+1 No.14260658 Report

let us disregard conversation and post hot female bodies instead
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)03:10 UTC+1 No.14260662 Report

>>14260633
Fair point but I don't see how it ties in with any of the posts you responded to.
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)03:11 UTC+1 No.14260664 Report

>>14260658
I'm down and done arguing with autism bot about whether or not I'm a cunt.

please continue.
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)03:12 UTC+1 No.14260667 Report

>>14260662
>this cant be a real person.

>>14260641
you could win by not making excuses for shit behavior, and acting like sex isn't a terrible crime males perpetrate onto females.
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)03:13 UTC+1 No.14260672 Report

>>14260664
>He smoked me out!
>must call him autism to feel better!
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)03:14 UTC+1 No.14260678 Report

>>14260667
because men aren't at the same risk when they use a condom? Women for the most part are actually safe as far as contact is concerned, anything that effects the lower scrotal areas is generally easily observed. Men on the other hand get their entire groin covered in our fluids.

There is a risk still with a condom to both sexes though.
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)03:16 UTC+1 No.14260684 Report

Posting this from my dump files to practice. Fuck the dumb whore in here (not that I would, she doesn't deserve my dick).
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)03:16 UTC+1 No.14260687 Report

>>14260667
Males are the one who act like that.

"A key that can open any lock is a master key, a lock that can be opened by any key is a shitty lock"
"Never ask a fish for fishing advice"
And much more. Guys act like they have to trick us into sex, and a girl that has a lot of it is bad quality, used goods, mentally unsound, etc
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)03:19 UTC+1 No.14260700 Report

>>14260684
Why do you think everyone wants your dick?
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)03:19 UTC+1 No.14260703 Report

>>14260687
The irony is that it's a chicken-egg thing.

If all girls were open to any guys and owned their sexuality, instead of being the "fish" guys would stop saying those things or acting like that. They say those things and act like that for the very reason that girls have been taught by culture and their mothers and their mothers before them to pretend to not want or like sex, and to use sex as a gateway to monetary supportive relationships via a man.

Those phrases or ideals in male circles would die out exactly when women stop being irrationally choosy and slutty at the same time, that is, when they stop pretending while at the same time ride the dicks of all the 'alpha' bros, and only them.

The door goes both ways, you know.
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)03:20 UTC+1 No.14260706 Report

>>14260700

fuck off, whore.
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)03:21 UTC+1 No.14260707 Report

>>14260687
Meh, women are just as bad as men are.
I've seen plenty of guys that were attractive enough be shot down because they dated this or that girl, or simply too many girls.

I think it's mainly the difference between people's standards, not their gender,
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)03:23 UTC+1 No.14260721 Report

Guys less talk, more pix of sloots.
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)03:24 UTC+1 No.14260726 Report

>>14260703
But I can't be every woman or control every woman. It's ridiculous to think I can. I personally own my sexuality and enjoy sex. But aside from setting a good example I can't make anyone else do that. And guys are still saying this kind of shit, around me or even right to me (on 4chan that is, not in rl).
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)03:25 UTC+1 No.14260732 Report

>>14260726
People will say things, You're a big girl. Words can't hurt you.

Not who you're responding to, but yeah. the moment you let words offend you, you've lost the battle.
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)03:26 UTC+1 No.14260734 Report

>>14260726
Set a stellar example of treating any and all guys like safe people in real life then, and having good conversations with them, while being open and comfortable with sexuality. You can't force others but you can lead. If you've got a boyfriend no need to stop talking to guys or get uncomfortable.
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)03:26 UTC+1 No.14260736 Report

>>14260707
Girls never say "don't ask a fish for fishing advice" about men. You never see a girl that *has* to date a virgin because anyone else is "used goods".

Girls may be picky about who they mate with but they don't spread around vile stuff about any man who has sex.
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)03:27 UTC+1 No.14260742 Report

>>14260732

Your sexism saying big girl offends me.

>>14260736
maybe its because of the concept that girls themselves feed into that guys who've had more sexual partners are conquerors or attractive and worthy of fucking.
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)03:28 UTC+1 No.14260745 Report

>>14260734
I will try, but I don't think anything will change for my efforts, either in girls following my example or guys being more tolerant.
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)03:29 UTC+1 No.14260751 Report

>>14260736

Immature men say that, not men.
Just like Immature women judge men for stupid reasons as well, including but not limited to like I mentioned the amount of sexual partners, what they drive, etc

Immature people are stupid, surprise, and there's a lot of immature people on both sides
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)03:29 UTC+1 No.14260753 Report

moar sloots, less talks
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)03:32 UTC+1 No.14260766 Report

>>14260745
Im intolerant of chicks who call guys creepy or otherwise talk shit about guys they don't even know. If you're not some stunted-ego twat like that, we'll get along fine. I'm offended on behalf of other guys when I have chicks say that shit, and I usually make it a point not to get too close to knowing girls like that.

Social rejection is a powerful tool against anyone, guys need to stop being every man for themselves and start treating girls like they're human beings with the same rights and responsibilities for their behavior as other guys. Stop letting 'em get away with shit just because you might have a shot at pussy, etc.
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)03:33 UTC+1 No.14260774 Report

>>14260742
Sexism? Are you a child? Then get off of 4chan.

Also, I do not know many women who value the number of partners a man has had.

true women do not generally want a virgin, but I don't think stacking up numbers helps mens cases either
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)03:33 UTC+1 No.14260778 Report

>>14260732
You really believe that words cannot hurt anyone at all? That nothing anyone said to you, no matter how vile, would ever make you feel sad or angry?

The main reason I bring up mean things that people have said is that that certain anon said if I just stepped up, it would all go away. I feel like I have a healthy view of sex and it's changed nothing, I am still surrounded by people who have a less healthy view of sex and say mean things.
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)03:34 UTC+1 No.14260782 Report

hawt
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)03:36 UTC+1 No.14260794 Report

>>14260778
You can't change other people.
You can attempt to influence someone, but you cannot influence every person around you.

Words do not hurt you, unless it is somehow in correlation to your body, and it's treatment or state.

If you let words, simply words of people you do not agree with stress you out, youll find yourself in hell
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)03:36 UTC+1 No.14260795 Report

>>14260523
>>14260495

I've been to Madreless the porn site, and seen plenty of guys 35-45 with 18-24 year old chicks or in three-somes web cam whoring. Those old guys did the sifting through the duds like you to find the ones that will say yes.
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)03:37 UTC+1 No.14260799 Report

>>14260794
>implying words aren't the means by which everyone forces you to choose jobs, friends, family, hobbies, etc.

Unless you're happily living under a bridge with no money while being a fat slug from 1000% Mcdonalds diet, words have already affected you more than you know.
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)03:39 UTC+1 No.14260810 Report

>>14260766
I'm guilty of saying a certain guys were creepy. I've tried to throw that one around less since I started reading /adv/. It's just that sometimes a guy really makes me uncomfortable, "gives me the creeps" if you will, and "creepy" just sort of seems like the right way to describe that.

I think part of the problem is that some girls are just taught to distrust men, lest they be assaulted. I remember there was an incident where I was meeting extended (step) family and my mom was horrified that I had let my step-grandfather drive me to an appointment, saying I should be more careful or I could be raped. When I was on the swim team, god forbid I wrap a towel around my shoulders and walk the two blocks home. I might be abducted and raped if I wasn't wearing a t-shirt over my bathing suit. This sort of thing doesn't help, you know?
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)03:41 UTC+1 No.14260822 Report

>>14260794
The other anon thought that if I simply acted better, it would be enough to change everyone. That is all. I actually agree with you, I cant change anyone but me.

I still think words can be painful, but obviously we disagree. I wish they could be just noise that had no power to make me feel happy or sad. But I think I'm more emotional than that.
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)03:43 UTC+1 No.14260834 Report

>>14260810
you'd walk around in broad daylight in a bathing suit? YOU WHORE. Don't show off your figure to guys unless you're craving dick.
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)03:47 UTC+1 No.14260859 Report

Sociopath male here... I'm only friends with women to appease my wife (her friends), keep people I plan to fuck nearby, or to advance my career (work friends). Women aren't that interesting to hang out with. There are exceptions, but I tend to drive them away by offering the D.
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)03:57 UTC+1 No.14260911 Report

>>14260859
Teach an overly anxiety neurotic self conscious late 20's guy how to be sociopathic and pull pussy, pls :(
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)04:04 UTC+1 No.14260944 Report

>>14260834
Yeah, all the rules about when we can show ourselves or what it means if we do don't help.
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)04:14 UTC+1 No.14260966 Report

>>14260911
Make lots of female friends in any way possible... I doesn't matter how they look as long as they have vaginas. Meet their female friends and hang out. Start getting them to party with you bit don't invite dudes. Start picking them off, one by one. Slutty ones first, then judgmental ones by telling them that you never really wanted to sleep with the slutty one(s), and was feels vulnerable, etc. Always be fun and a source of debauchery, but keep your shit together so that you remain interesting to them. Disappear early from group events without saying goodbye and don't ever explain yourself without lying to get more pussy. Don't let people come over or know many of the details of your life. I don't know... just be a dick and let them think you're mysterious and impenetrable. Work the chain of referral (aka fuck their friends).
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)04:29 UTC+1 No.14260995 Report

>>14259751
the only way to tell is if he is gay if he is dating a girl already then he is keeping you as a backup gf. now don't get me started on trying to make friends with single straight guys.
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)04:37 UTC+1 No.14261030 Report

>>14260966
>Make lots of female friends in any way possible... I doesn't matter how they look as long as they have vaginas. Meet their female friends and hang out. Start getting them to party with you bit don't invite dudes. Start picking them off, one by one. Slutty ones first, then judgmental ones by telling them that you never really wanted to sleep with the slutty one(s), and was feels vulnerable, etc. Always be fun and a source of debauchery, but keep your shit together so that you remain interesting to them. Disappear early from group events without saying goodbye and don't ever explain yourself without lying to get more pussy. Don't let people come over or know many of the details of your life. I don't know... just be a dick and let them think you're mysterious and impenetrable. Work the chain of referral (aka fuck their friends).

on it. Top thx.
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Anonymous 05/14/14(Wed)10:32 UTC+1 No.14261874 Report

>>14260118

I'm OP. This was my last post..

What the fuck haha.
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