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Anonymous 07/23/14(Wed)23:19 UTC+1 No.14532061 Report

I'm so confused.

I'm talking to/dating this girl and everything goes well when we are together, she never flakes or anything, but when I ask her when she wants meet again, she doesn't give me an answer, but if a few days later I ask to meet, she will say yes. Does she just want me to set all the dates? I'm ok with that, but I was asking at her convenience. I'm pretty sure a lot of woman do this yes?
What is your reason for this, femanons?
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Anonymous 07/23/14(Wed)23:21 UTC+1 No.14532071 Report

bump since im in a similar situation..
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Anonymous 07/23/14(Wed)23:21 UTC+1 No.14532073 Report

She has on average 2-3 guys she is interested in at any given time and has to juggle them. It's not complicated
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Anonymous 07/23/14(Wed)23:22 UTC+1 No.14532079 Report

>>14532073
Ok, so wouldn't setting a day to go on a date be a good thing for her then?
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Anonymous 07/23/14(Wed)23:23 UTC+1 No.14532084 Report

I know there are some vile girls but honestly in my case, and most of my girlfriends' cases, it's just forgetfulness combined with a busy schedule. I'll open your text and think "oh cool, I'll reply once I'm done with this assignment" or whatever, but then I'll forget for hours.
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Anonymous 07/23/14(Wed)23:24 UTC+1 No.14532088 Report

>>14532079
No because the guy she likes most might want to ask her out that day so she keeps them open for him. It's not complicated
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Anonymous 07/23/14(Wed)23:25 UTC+1 No.14532094 Report

>>14532084
How lazy are you?
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Anonymous 07/23/14(Wed)23:27 UTC+1 No.14532100 Report

I wait for him to ask me because I hate rejection
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Anonymous 07/23/14(Wed)23:27 UTC+1 No.14532102 Report

>>14532094
lol no more than average
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Anonymous 07/23/14(Wed)23:31 UTC+1 No.14532117 Report

>>14532100
What if I'm clearly into you? At worst we just reschedule.
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Anonymous 07/23/14(Wed)23:35 UTC+1 No.14532132 Report

>>14532088
Makes sense. I don't think she's like that but who knows, I'm not worried about it.
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Anonymous 07/23/14(Wed)23:37 UTC+1 No.14532139 Report

>>14532117
It depends how clear it is. If you reschedule frequently then she'll think you don't want to see her.
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Anonymous 07/23/14(Wed)23:41 UTC+1 No.14532158 Report

>>14532139
I've only rescheduled like twice, and it was usually on the day of or the day after we set the date. Is that enough for doubt?
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Anonymous 07/23/14(Wed)23:42 UTC+1 No.14532162 Report

I wouldn't worry. There are hundreds of reasons she could be doing it. Some of them sinister like this guy thinks: >>14532073 or she might just be a bitch that is stringing you along or maybe she just feels obligated to date you or there could be perfectly innocuous or even sweet reasons such as her being busy or shy.

Whatever the case you should just keep going for it and if you become an item she will drop this shit.
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Anonymous 07/23/14(Wed)23:55 UTC+1 No.14532205 Report

>>14532162
What do you mean become an item?
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