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I want to have a family. I...
Anonymous 06/17/14(Tue)09:26 UTC+1 No.14384986 Report

I want to have a family. I don't mind never having sex. If that was the only thing appealing about women to me I'd just give up now.

But I want to have a family, a relatively large one.

My problem is I'm shit with girls. I'm quite good looking and I am relatively successful, yet I guess I'm pretty unsociable so I don't even talk to females or have any female friends.

What do?
Anonymous 06/17/14(Tue)09:31 UTC+1 No.14385008 Report

Talk to people. Talk to women. Fail and try again.
Anonymous 06/17/14(Tue)09:33 UTC+1 No.14385014 Report

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Anonymous 06/17/14(Tue)09:48 UTC+1 No.14385063 Report

This. There's nothing that gives you better confidence around women that talking to them.


- Be sure to be a good listener and to be active during the conversation. Try to make the conversation evolve around her and try to bring up new subjects, but also don't be afraid to talk about yourself and your interests. Try to find a good balance here. Nobody likes to be the sole purpose of a conversation. (Well maybe some attention-whores, but that's not what you're looking for)-

If you can't come up with any good subject, ask further questions about what she has told you before.

- Try to ask questions that aren't answerable with one word or one sentence. ("Do you like x?" most likely leads to 'yes' or 'no', so ask your questions in a different way.)

- Smile. (Don't overdo it, though. People that have good social skills can easily spot someone who's only faking a smile. You don't want that to happen. You might even want to train that in front of a mirror)

- Be confident. There's nothing sexier than a man who knows what he wants, what he can do and who he is. As you said you're quite successful, try to display that in your behavior.
Be that successful man and convince her that you can give her something somebody else can't.

Also something that helps here is good posture, a healthy body and a clean look. Smell nice, dress nice, be nice.

- If you're getting closer with her, don't fall into the friendship-trap. A healthy balance between some distance and time spent together can work magic here. Don't be the guy who hangs by her side 24/7, but rather the guy she gets excited to meet two times a week. You'll get to spend more time with her later on.

(If you fall into the trap, don't break the contact. Keep up with her, you might get to know some of her lady-friends)

- Go somewhere where you're around like-minded people. If you have a doctoral degree, go and meet up with other intelligent persons, not with dumb idiots.
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