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Anonymous 07/23/14(Wed)18:24 UTC+1 No.14530782 Report

It's physically impossible for me to let a girl down. Like it physically makes me ill.

A dorky girl from class started texting me a couple months ago and while she's fun to talk to, I'm not really attracted to her and im not looking for a relationship. She's a long term goody goody type girl and I just like to get fucked up. But she is obsessing over me. She is sending me selfies and shit and has been trying to get me to hang out. Like an idiot I agreed but then I blew her off. She was upset.

But like an even bigger idiot I apologized and rescheduled. Thinking of blowing her off again but I feel like I should just hang out with her once. But I don't want to lead her on anymore.

What do
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Anonymous 07/23/14(Wed)18:54 UTC+1 No.14530914 Report

pls
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Anonymous 07/23/14(Wed)18:57 UTC+1 No.14530929 Report

Rejecting someone is hard but you would be an even bigger dick if you continued to string her along. You have to bluntly let her know that you're not romantically interested in her so she can deal with it and move on instead of being hung up over some guy who is giving her false hope.
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Anonymous 07/23/14(Wed)18:58 UTC+1 No.14530936 Report

>>14530929
thiiiis.
hehehehh next time just reject them out right, you save a lot of time and emotional investment.
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Anonymous 07/23/14(Wed)19:05 UTC+1 No.14530961 Report

>>14530782
nathan fielder.
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Anonymous 07/23/14(Wed)19:09 UTC+1 No.14530969 Report

>>14530782
I've been in this spot, just avoid her and always reschedule, she'll get the hint.

There was this girl on campus that liked me and I would always see her on the way to class. I accidentally agreed to "date" her so I just avoided the area. The route I took was hot and twice as far.
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Anonymous 07/23/14(Wed)19:12 UTC+1 No.14530981 Report

>>14530969
What a little bitch. God forbid you be honest with her and spare her long term feelings. Fuck you.
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Anonymous 07/23/14(Wed)19:16 UTC+1 No.14530998 Report

>>14530969
>be in 8th grade
>like girl
>she has bf
>well fuck that
>start to like her best friend
>girl breaks up with her bf for me
>but I actually like her best friend
>she asks me out
>too beta to say no I don't like you anymore
>agree to date
>never show her affection
>be purposefully mean to her
>never call her
>always hang with my friends at school and not her
>she breaks up with me
>I ask her frind out that I still liked
>she says no
>they both hate me for the rest of my middle school and high school years
>autism
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Anonymous 07/23/14(Wed)19:25 UTC+1 No.14531034 Report

>>14530969
Fuck no. That's what women do.

Tell her straight up you aren't interested. That's what you should have done in the first place, you dumb faggot. You're seriously advising Opie to string along this poor girl? Dumb nigger.
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Anonymous 07/23/14(Wed)19:27 UTC+1 No.14531043 Report

OP here

So we have plans to hang tomorrow night. Do I go through with them? Or cancel? She's a cool girl I don't want to totally end the friendship. Should I just go and give off the signal that I just want to be friends?
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Anonymous 07/23/14(Wed)19:33 UTC+1 No.14531068 Report

>>14531043
>Should I just go and give off the signal that I just want to be friends?
ding ding ding
go, have a good time, but be super platonic and remind her what a good friend (emphasize this) she is
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Anonymous 07/23/14(Wed)20:12 UTC+1 No.14531240 Report

>>14531068
Cool. We will probably just watch a movie and talk or something. What if she asks to hang again?
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Anonymous 07/23/14(Wed)20:43 UTC+1 No.14531389 Report

>>14531240
Treat her like a friend. Would you blow off a male friend? pun intended.
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Anonymous 07/23/14(Wed)20:47 UTC+1 No.14531408 Report

The longer you act like friends with someone you don't want to be friends with the harder it is to end it.
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Anonymous 07/23/14(Wed)20:47 UTC+1 No.14531414 Report

you are pathetic.
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