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Anonymous 06/23/14(Mon)23:58 UTC+1 No.14410127 Report

My gf's having a party and she invited her ex. I won't be there and there'll be drink and stuff - what do? The thought of something happening makes me sick.
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Anonymous 06/23/14(Mon)23:59 UTC+1 No.14410131 Report

You could try trusting her. If you can't do that get a friend of yours to go and have a good time while keeping eyes on her.
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Anonymous 06/24/14(Tue)00:04 UTC+1 No.14410146 Report

>>14410127
>My gf's having a party and she invited her ex.

Why the fuck did she do that?
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Anonymous 06/24/14(Tue)00:06 UTC+1 No.14410152 Report

I was never a guy to kneel down and let my gf be friends with her exes, either they go or I go, u should have put your foot down from the beginning and told her that this was a problem, now I'm not saying there gonna do anything. But she found him attractive in the past, that's why they went out , and sparks return all the time so don't even let it have a chance too, tell her it's a problem and stand your ground, if she truly has feelings for you she will cut ties with him, I'm serious! If she doesn't then u needa step up and leave her because she didn't care about you enough in the first place
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Anonymous 06/24/14(Tue)00:10 UTC+1 No.14410166 Report

>>14410146
>>14410152

They're both part of the same tight-knit social group (they're both friends with a lot of people in the same group).

I don't know man, I'll give it some thought.
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Anonymous 06/24/14(Tue)00:11 UTC+1 No.14410172 Report

>>14410166
You friends with any of them besides her?
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Anonymous 06/24/14(Tue)00:11 UTC+1 No.14410179 Report

>>14410172

A few, why?
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Anonymous 06/24/14(Tue)00:15 UTC+1 No.14410198 Report

>>14410127
Don't make a fuss to her about it. I did that and we ended up fighting and breaking up. Think carefully before you say anything to her.
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Anonymous 06/24/14(Tue)00:18 UTC+1 No.14410211 Report

>>14410198

What if they're dared to kiss during a drinking game or something? I know it's not fucking, but it's the little things like that that piss me off about it.
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Anonymous 06/24/14(Tue)00:18 UTC+1 No.14410213 Report

>>14410179
Why aren't you going stupid?
Just show up
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Anonymous 06/24/14(Tue)00:22 UTC+1 No.14410222 Report

>>14410127
How old are you? How old is she? And how old are her friends?
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Anonymous 06/24/14(Tue)00:29 UTC+1 No.14410246 Report

>>14410211
Speaking as the guy who like to get friendly with bitchs while drinking;
Just calm down buddy. Girls are meant to be shared and enjoyed. Girls are meant to be touched and teased and kissed, it's fun for both parties.
Quit being so possessive guy :^)
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Anonymous 06/24/14(Tue)00:29 UTC+1 No.14410247 Report

>>14410222

I don't see how any of this is valid.

>>14410213

I can't, I'm busy on the day.
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Anonymous 06/24/14(Tue)00:32 UTC+1 No.14410254 Report

>>14410247
>I don't see how any of this is valid.

How mature is everyone involved, fuckwit.
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Anonymous 06/24/14(Tue)00:33 UTC+1 No.14410256 Report

>>14410247
It will help me to better advise you based on your situation
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Anonymous 06/24/14(Tue)00:35 UTC+1 No.14410262 Report

>>14410247
Busy doing what?
Just cut whatever it is short and go to the party, even being late is better then nothing
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Anonymous 06/24/14(Tue)00:39 UTC+1 No.14410270 Report

Something will DEFINITELY happen. There is no 'if'. 100% guaranteed. Women do not have honor or loyalty. Those are masculine traits.

The fact that she is willing to have her ex over for a drunken party means she wants to and is TRYING to fuck him again. She wants his probably alpha male cock again.

Have a stern talk with her and tell her that it is not okay. If she has a problem with it, man up. Control your woman or she will control you.
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Anonymous 06/24/14(Tue)00:43 UTC+1 No.14410281 Report

>>14410270
>Women do not have honor or loyalty. Those are masculine traits.
What?
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Anonymous 06/24/14(Tue)00:51 UTC+1 No.14410293 Report

why do whores do this stuff?
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Anonymous 06/24/14(Tue)00:51 UTC+1 No.14410294 Report

>>14410281

Did I stutter?
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Anonymous 06/24/14(Tue)00:53 UTC+1 No.14410299 Report

>>14410293
Women live moment to moment. If you expect them to be like men, you're gonna have a bad time.

Why do you think the douchebag guy is always surrounded by chicks? He commands respect and doesn't take shit. Women like masculinity. Be that guy.
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Anonymous 06/24/14(Tue)01:02 UTC+1 No.14410314 Report

>>14410247
>I can't, I'm busy on the day.

Busy with what?

>I don't see how any of this is valid.

I sincerely hope he fucks her. You deserve it for being a vague annoying fuck. Judging from the way you're behaving in this thread I'd say the best way for you to confront her without stepping outside your comfort zone is to tell her "I have a problem with ...something" then run and hide behind the couch with a set of earmuffs.
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Anonymous 06/24/14(Tue)01:03 UTC+1 No.14410318 Report

>>14410246
Honestly anon. I'm not OP but you literally just helped clear my fucking mind with that simple post. Thank you.
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Anonymous 06/24/14(Tue)01:03 UTC+1 No.14410319 Report

>>14410127
>>14410247
Op is not asking for advice
Op is not giving out details or even trying to be helped
Op is just a troll
A fag with a made up story
To try and start a troll women bashing thread
Look it's already happening
>>14410270
>>14410293
>>14410299

Op is a fag and this shit don't belong here, take it back to /r9k/ or /b/ you fucking clown shoe
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Anonymous 06/24/14(Tue)01:04 UTC+1 No.14410326 Report

>>14410318
Wow, and that one wasn't even trying to be helpful... your welcome guy
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