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So here's the...
Anonymous 06/17/14(Tue)07:38 UTC+1 No.14384615 Report

So here's the story:
>be me
>pretty fucking beta, but starting to man up
>decided to ask a girl out in person (Pic related, it's her)
>she says yes, says she needs to ask her mom about it first
>I assume I'm the first person to ever ask her out, so that's probably why she needed to ask her mom
>1 week later
>"my mom just got remarried, so she a little protective, so she wants me to wait until I'm 16"
>her birthday is next month
>AlrightThen.jpg
>1 month later, that's today
>message her
>"Happy Birthday. I'm gonna try not to dance around this question... Are you still interested in going out?"
>She read the message, no response
>It's been 12 hours since I sent it
Wat do? Am I overreacting?
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Anonymous 06/17/14(Tue)07:40 UTC+1 No.14384626 Report

>>14384615
Also, I forgot to mention this. After I asked her out, she was shy at first, but eventually she warmed up a bit throughout the month, and we've had a few full blown conversations. So, I think her excuse is legit.
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Anonymous 06/17/14(Tue)07:40 UTC+1 No.14384627 Report

>>14384615
How fucking old are you?
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Anonymous 06/17/14(Tue)07:41 UTC+1 No.14384628 Report

>>14384615
Honestly this is a copout. If she really wanted to go out with you, she wouldn't tell her mom. It doesn't seem like she's interested; sorry man. Of course wait for a straight answer, but it seems like she's just trying not to hurt your feelings. Good on you for going for it.
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Anonymous 06/17/14(Tue)07:43 UTC+1 No.14384642 Report

>>14384615
Your overthinking this, shes like a 6 at best
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Anonymous 06/17/14(Tue)07:43 UTC+1 No.14384643 Report

>>14384627 18.
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Anonymous 06/17/14(Tue)07:46 UTC+1 No.14384656 Report

>>14384642 I think she's more of an 8.5. Her body proportions are fantastic.
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Anonymous 06/17/14(Tue)07:49 UTC+1 No.14384671 Report

>>14384628
This. Sorry bro, that's the way it crumbles some days. But, you sacked up and put yourself out there, so there's nothing to feel bad about. There's another girl out there for you.
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Anonymous 06/17/14(Tue)08:10 UTC+1 No.14384735 Report

>>14384615
Move on thats all I can tell ya. If a girl turns you down the first time its totally alright to wait a bit and ask again months later but heres the catch, if she uses an excuse then you just hit your first red flag.

Lets say for example you ask a girl if she wants to grab a coffee and shes like "I am hung up at work soz :/" then its totally fine to try again later. However if you ask the same question and it turns out something ridiculous happened like her great aunt just died or she tells a story then thats her subconsciously trying to push you away and you need to pick up on it.

Girls aren't good at being straight with someone unless they're really bothered by something or don't know how to approach the situation. The quicker you learn this the better you can make a relationship work.
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Anonymous 06/17/14(Tue)08:54 UTC+1 No.14384875 Report

>>14384615
Go to her house and tell her "you're going out with me, now woman"
Don't ask her, tell her. They like that bravado shit. if she says no you never had a chance anyway.
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Anonymous 06/17/14(Tue)09:00 UTC+1 No.14384900 Report

>>14384626
>we've had a few full blown conversations
lel

She wants nothing to do with you, if she was interested she'd make it clear.
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Anonymous 06/17/14(Tue)09:10 UTC+1 No.14384922 Report

>>14384615

>wants me to wait til I'm 16

B&
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Anonymous 06/17/14(Tue)09:11 UTC+1 No.14384926 Report

>18 year old
>asking out a 15 year old initially

Top fucking gog OP. Ask out girls your own age you rampant turbofaggot
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Anonymous 06/17/14(Tue)09:19 UTC+1 No.14384956 Report

dat bitch 16? she looks like a 28-year-old mom
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