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Anonymous 08/21/14(Thu)06:14 UTC+1 No.14652254 Report

Sup /adv/.
I have an issue, well it's not really an issue but I need advice, so that's why I'm here.
So here's the deal.
This girl I've known for a while had started coming over a lot more recently. Now I know, a girl coming over isn't really a sign of much, but hear me out.
So, while she's over and we smoke, we talk about random things, but share a lot of interests. She got me watching Game Of Thrones, and we watched a fair bit together. We always have a good time. So here's the thing, she's in a long term relationship. She brings up her boyfriend a whole lot, and has been having troubles recently, but nothing major as they apparently have an on-off relationship. She also always tells me that I'm a real great person (I never asked her out or anything of the sort, so not friendzoned). I am not sure how to interpret this. The rational side of me tells me that she is just behaving as she always would, as she's in a relationship. The other less rational part tells me that I should consider that she could be out smoking with her boyfriend rather than coming over to my house, and that her always bringing up her relationship (especially when she told me about her breaking up with her boyfriend, although they are back together now) is her attempting to signal me to see her as more than a friend and make a move, especially since most females wouldn't want to risk being denied in a situation like this, as she'd end up with nothing if I didn't return the affection.
I must admit, she is a great girl, she's bright, hard working, and has a great future ahead of her. I would snatch her up in a second, but I'm not good for the long term. I had dreams of something once, a girl I loved, but that went south, and I just can't be that guy anymore.
I want to be happy, but I just don't know if I can be (in the traditional sense, like really settling down, not just calling her my girl and still out and about)
Help me, give me advice faggots.
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