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What does it mean when a girl...
Anonymous 06/17/14(Tue)09:45 UTC+1 No.14385056 Report

What does it mean when a girl wants space?

Check my situation, should I just wait or should I break it off before it fucks with my head completely and utterly.

I met this girl last year, she had a boyfriend but circumstances meant we saw a reasonable amount of each other for a few months (studying together), and then remained kind of friends after that was finished. I always felt there was some sexual tension there, but I didn't want to push it because I really liked her and I thought that it would be better to wait than try and fail. I had a massive crush on her.

So I waited. Then a couple months ago she invited me for lunch. This was the first time we had really properly seen each other since we stopped studying together. I realised she was single, so invited her out again. We get together for lunch, then dinner/movie nights over like 3-4 weeks. Still no sex at this point but kissing and feeling each other up in the movies type shit going on.

One night she gets drunk and texts me silly shit then next day she text saying she just wanted us to be 'chill' because although she likes me she is trying to concentrate on finishing her last few weeks of her degree and she is only freshly single.

So I backed off, but it continued in this high school sweetheart type romance texting and shit. I ask her to come to my friends house for some drinks. She didn't know them and she drank quite quickly. She was all over me all night, totally gagging for it. Eventually we left to go back to hers. She was pretty drunk but so was I.. Anyway we taxi back to her house, have some great sex, spend the night holding each other and then sex again in the morning. She drops me back at my car.

2 days later we go out for lunch with her friends, all seems good. I text her later that night hinting at more sex. Turned down. The next couple days she is cold to me so I ask what is wrong. She wants some space again, and she wasn't happy we had sex when she was drunk.

What do I do.
Anonymous 06/17/14(Tue)09:47 UTC+1 No.14385059 Report

She wants you to pull down the heavens and give them to her.

Butt all srsness.
She is probably having second thoughts. She wants to be with you but a part of her doesn't.
So she will be taking space to think about what she wants and/or to see if she misses you while parted.
Anonymous 06/17/14(Tue)09:52 UTC+1 No.14385077 Report

So I should sit back and wait then?
Anonymous 06/17/14(Tue)10:23 UTC+1 No.14385166 Report

She's back with her boyfriend. She cheated, but felt guilty about it so she wants you gone now. Girls don't want space, they want you away from them for good. A girl seeks comfort and they get that in a man, it just isn't you.
Anonymous 06/17/14(Tue)10:26 UTC+1 No.14385178 Report

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