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Warring God 06/23/14(Mon)23:04 UTC+1 No.14409956 Report

alright I need help and im poor and cant afford a therapist, but I need someone to talk to. I cant also talk to my friends about it because im insecure about my own damn feelings.

First thing is I hate my family. They all do nothing but either get drunk or get pregnant. They also think im gay all because im a no gf virgin. (I know its not a big deal, to them they think it is)

Second is there is this girl I kinda like, bit she has a bf and the dude is like, the poster child for betas.Hes a fat guy, plays yugioh and pokemon (I wont lie, the things I like are weebish, but I hide my power level and im pretty fit) and like he was talking to me at my work about how he likes this one game since theres big tit lolis and shit. Anyway the girl is cute, I was a complete ass to her in highschool, felt bad about it and apologized and now I find myself having feelings for me. I know if I tell her how I feel about her, she wont and probably never have the same feelings.

Third thing is, how the fuck do I get in a relationship? I know im supposed to flirt, be kind and all that shit, but im unlucky when it comes to girls. Ive had gfs before and all those relationships ended terrible. I have no problem hiding my power level, but like I dont wanna change everything about me just to get back into dating. Its been like, 7 months since my last relationship.

Sorry if this is alot of shit, im just really confused and need someone to vent to .
Tl;dr I have family and dating problems
Anonymous 06/23/14(Mon)23:11 UTC+1 No.14409979 Report

Wow, I fucking hate you. You've only typed a few paragraphs but I can sense the hypocritical douchebaggery eminating from your keyboard. In case you're actually looking for advice.
>I hate my family
Then move out. Oh wait, you're probably underageb&
>the girl is cute, I was a complete ass to her in highschool, felt bad about it and apologized and now I find myself having feelings for me.
lol, Freudian slip much? Anyways, drop it. She's in a relationship and you were a douchebag to her. She found someone that she's happy with and all you can think about is how YOUR feelings should trump hers and her bf. The only reason you don't like her bf is because he has what you can't get. You said yourself, he likes the same things you do.
>im unlucky when it comes to girls
No, you're not unlucky, you're not playing the lotto. You're failing at interacting with other human beings. If literally all of your relationships have ended terribly then that is indicative of YOUR behavior, not fate or luck.
tl;dr grow some balls and take responsibility for your situation. Find out your weaknesses and work on them.
Warring God 06/23/14(Mon)23:14 UTC+1 No.14409991 Report

Warring God 06/23/14(Mon)23:21 UTC+1 No.14410011 Report

wow did I really make you rage that much?
I cant move out because I have shitty income.
As for the girl youre kinda on par with the whole "my feelings over hers" and I understand that if shes happy she should stay happy.
And all my relationships ended badly because either the girl I was dating thought I was gonna marry them or they cheated on me.

also I said that what I like is considered weebish, I didn't say him and I like the same things. he likes lolis where as I like mechas
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