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Anonymous 07/23/14(Wed)23:25 UTC+1 No.14532093 Report

here is the deal
I'm average looking, great body type and whatnot.
only thing I'm missing is confidence, and no I don't care about getting girls right now, I don't have enough confidence to even talk to strangers on the phone, and if it's not behind my screen I will not talk at all.

I have a huge life problem right now, it started over 8 years ago and just got bigger.
Used meds and that didn't help obviously, but I found out that working out makes my day better.

BUT HERE IS THE BIG/SMALL PROBLEM

I can't even take myself to the gym to sign up, I got way too deep into my depression and I hate being a useless NEET.

oh and my self esteem got low too.

tl;dr: how do I return to life if my confidence is below zero
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Anonymous 07/23/14(Wed)23:37 UTC+1 No.14532138 Report

>>14532093
wait, why can't you go to the gym again?
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Anonymous 07/23/14(Wed)23:38 UTC+1 No.14532145 Report

>>14532138

Cause hes even afraid of talking over the phone,dont you get it
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Anonymous 07/23/14(Wed)23:40 UTC+1 No.14532153 Report

Just try to be open to talk about simple things, find small common interests, confidence can be acquired in a exercise basis
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Anonymous 07/23/14(Wed)23:46 UTC+1 No.14532174 Report

>>14532145
Ah, alright. Assumed he could get an online membership.

In that case just get at the grindstone, OP. Take action in baby steps. "Thanks" to a cashier after they give you the receipt, so on. If you're scared, too bad, suck it up.
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Anonymous 07/24/14(Thu)00:03 UTC+1 No.14532241 Report

just so you know, I already know what to do, it's just that seeing you guys telling me to do what I think is right helps me a lot.

thanks
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