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Anonymous 05/08/14(Thu)19:25 UTC+1 No.14242026 Report

need a quick one /adv/, what do I do?

>girl I really like and have been hanging out with "planned" a get-together a week or two ago
>today is the day
>plan was to get a bunch of friends, go out to a lake nearby, and drive back to some cliffs that are only accessible by 4 wheel drive vehicles
>I took her there alone, like a little date, about 2-3 weeks ago, and she really wanted to go back so planned this event
>I have a truck that can do it, and she said she was inviting some friends that also had an SUV
>plan was, she's gonna ride with me, her friends in the SUV, maybe pack a few in the back of my truck, and we were all gonna go have a good time
>today, day of the get-together, other vehicle isn't going, and girl I like is giving her friends a ride to the lake so she won't be riding with me
>friends are a bunch of girls I don't know

I'm basically driving there by myself (like 40 miles, and my truck gets shitty gas mileage), meeting these girls at the trail turnoff, they are packing into the bed, and I'm driving them back to the cliffs. then driving out, and driving myself home.

I really don't want to let down this girl I like, but I also feel like it's gonna be kind of awkward.
Anonymous 05/08/14(Thu)19:27 UTC+1 No.14242031 Report

also, a big part of why I wanted to go was that I love driving with her.

whenever I drive her places, we always have a lot of time to just talk to each other. now I'm just driving out there by myself.
Anonymous 05/08/14(Thu)19:30 UTC+1 No.14242037 Report

Just tell her this. Exactly like you did here in this post, not the bit about it being awkward. Make it a suggestion instead of an accusation basically.

Girls love to hear cute shit like this, so there's that, but it's also key to be upfront about this kind of stuff. Means you aren't afraid to talk things out, which should give you bonus points, and make her reconsider if you're lucky.
Anonymous 05/08/14(Thu)19:36 UTC+1 No.14242051 Report


will do.

I'm supposed to be leaving my house in like an hour or less, so hopefully it's enough time to make her reconsider.
Anonymous 05/08/14(Thu)19:41 UTC+1 No.14242061 Report

Oh fuck, lol. If she cancels that last minute on her friends it might make her seem like a crappy friend, so that's a tough one. Totally thought you had more time.

Still, being upfront and honest about it now will do nothing but good things. Might not be able to swing it in this situation, given the time constraints, but it'll definitely be food for thought for her later in case you decide to do this again.

Good luck OP
Anonymous 05/08/14(Thu)19:45 UTC+1 No.14242064 Report


just sent her

You can't ride with me? Just gonna be upfront, I really like being able to chat with you while we're driving, so would love some company on the way out there.

we'll see. thanks for the push.

>If she cancels that last minute on her friends
that was the problem I'm wrestling with. though I don't see why one of them can't just drive out there and follow us, like the plan originally was.
Anonymous 05/08/14(Thu)19:49 UTC+1 No.14242073 Report

That's good :) I'm going to work under the assumption you two have some chemistry but are still getting to know each other, so your text was safe enough but still got your point across.

If all goes well she'll be able to work something out with her friends. My fingers are crossed for you. Did she tell you why she would have to drive her friends, or was it a last minute change?Not sure what your age range is, but it could be a problem with car availability/people who have licenses if you're on the younger end.
Anonymous 05/08/14(Thu)19:55 UTC+1 No.14242083 Report


>I'm going to work under the assumption you two have some chemistry but are still getting to know each other
very true facts right here. really good chemistry. we're also both dancers, and holy cow, dancing together with her is better than any sex I've ever had. and I slept with a gymnast a few times.
>so your text was safe enough but still got your point across.
confirmed, she's riding with me now

I'm 23, she's 22, her friends are probably of similar age. I think she just decided to drive because she invited the friends, and their ride canceled on them, so she jumped in and volunteered to drive them.

she's a sweetheart.
Anonymous 05/08/14(Thu)19:58 UTC+1 No.14242090 Report

>dancing together with her is better than any sex I've ever had
I'm not normally one to go "aww how cute" over these kinds of things, but it really is adorable. I'm glad you've met someone you connect with. Always makes me happy to see that on here.

Also hurray for her riding with you! Told you it'd work out. I hope you have a great time, OP!
Anonymous 05/09/14(Fri)02:28 UTC+1 No.14243079 Report

just bumping this thread because I just got home from our trip and it was still up on my comp.

if the helpful anon is still around, thank you.

we had such a good time together.
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