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Anonymous 06/23/14(Mon)23:06 UTC+1 No.14409967 Report

tl;dr
>>Girl is interested in me
>>Don't want to pursue while she has a boyfriend
>>How to keep her interested without being an asshole who pulls other guy's girls

24/m here from Boston.

There is a sweet girl that I met through a friend the other week. Very cute, and seems level-headed. She's 23.

My friend showed me texts from her and apparently she is really sweet on me, too. She stalked my social network profiles, and was asking questions to my friend about stories that I've told and looking up girls who are in pictures with me to see how she stacks up.

I want to pursue, but she has a boyfriend.

I wouldn't do anything with her while she has the boyfriend because that's bad karma which I don't need.

However, I don't want to disqualify myself from her graces. I know that she has been dating the guy since 2010, and he hasn't asked her to move in with her yet. I know at this age is when girls typically throw the ultimatum, and many guys don't sack up.

The challenge is that I'm getting closer with her and her friend platonically, and I'm worried about her getting too cozy with me and losing interest. Is that a thing? That's the friend-zone, right?

It's tricky because I'm scared if I come off too cold, then she isn't going to go out of her way to hang out with me. I'm no Don Juan, and I'm sure she would be able to smell me trying to play hard to get a mile away. However, I don't want to get into such a platonic point where I'm taking her out for brunch and become the gay friend.

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Anonymous 06/24/14(Tue)02:55 UTC+1 No.14410706 Report

is she fuckable?
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