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Joining a 2nd Comm
Joining a 2nd Comm Anonymous 07/20/14(Sun)19:23 UTC+1 No.7697608 Report

I know there are a number of lolitas who have done this before.

Have you ever joined a 2nd lolita Comm?

Was there a reason behind join that Comm?

Do you consider the 2nd Comm to be better than your 1st Comm?

Did you leave your 1st Comm a while after joining the 2nd Comm?

Do you ever attend meetups of your 2nd Comm?
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Anonymous 07/20/14(Sun)20:10 UTC+1 No.7697700 Report

>>7697608
I'm considering joining a second comm. Ilive so close to the border, and most meetups take forever to get to. I don't know if I'd be any closer if I joined another though, and for some reason I'm a bit freaked out by the idea?
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Anonymous 07/20/14(Sun)20:19 UTC+1 No.7697712 Report

I'm in two different comms, on in my own country and and one in the country that borders mine. I go to meets from both comms although I've only been to one meet from the other comm. The reason to join the other one is because I'm close to the border so their meets aren't that far away for me.

I don't think I'll leave my main comm tho, meets are frequent and I have a lot of friends in there who haven't joined the other comm.
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Anonymous 07/20/14(Sun)20:35 UTC+1 No.7697740 Report

Officially i'm a member of 4 comms, on fb at least. But Most members of these are members of at least one of the others. Its because they're all about 2 hours away the closest isn't that active though.
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Anonymous 07/21/14(Mon)07:46 UTC+1 No.7698839 Report

The only lolitas I know who consider themselves part of multiple comms are the ones who nobody in their proper comm likes. They kinda just go around buttering up neighboring communities, making besties with fellow lolcows and leaving drama in their wake. This is one of the reasons why the girls in my region are hesitant to "adopt" anyone who isn't local.

Not saying it's always like this, but damn if I haven't seen it play out like that many times.
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Anonymous 07/21/14(Mon)10:21 UTC+1 No.7698991 Report

>Have you ever joined a 2nd lolita Comm?
Yes, I'm a member of around 3 comms online. My old city and my new city has 2 comms

>Was there a reason behind join that Comm?
to what the fuss was about after reading about them on cgl

>Do you consider the 2nd Comm to be better than your 1st Comm?
Nope, my hometown comm is the bomb. No drama, plenty of card RPGs, no tumblr bullshit or SJW and some damn good sweet potato pie on the side

>Did you leave your 1st Comm a while after joining the 2nd Comm?
Nope, when I visit home I make time to catch up with the girls

>Do you ever attend meetups of your 2nd Comm?
I've gone to a few and I'm disappointed with the quality of dressing. Everyone has a brand dress on but they go for the cheapest wigs and accessories. Only thing to do is to wear your best every time so girls either up their outfits or don't turn up.
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Anonymous 07/21/14(Mon)13:25 UTC+1 No.7699124 Report

>>7698839
I don't think it's like that for me, I hope not anyway. I'm pretty new so have only been to one or two meets. I only joined them when I was brand new and looking for local lolitas and found all the comms were the same distance away.
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Anonymous 07/21/14(Mon)13:50 UTC+1 No.7699149 Report

>>7697608
I'm part of two simply because I moved, and I have a ton of friends in my old comm who I plan to visit.

Question: if you have moved, did you stay in your old comm group page or leave them?
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Anonymous 07/21/14(Mon)14:23 UTC+1 No.7699173 Report

>>7699149
I stayed in the old common group. It's not like you're intruding. It's nice to see what they get up to sometimes.
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Anonymous 07/21/14(Mon)14:26 UTC+1 No.7699176 Report

>Have you ever joined a 2nd lolita Comm?
I'm in my local comm and a comm thats a couple hours' drive away.

>Was there a reason behind join that Comm?
There was a large meet at a nearby convention where most of the girls who attended were from both comms. At the time, I was pretty new to Lolita and that was my first meet so consequently I met and formed relationships in both comms kind of at the same pace.

>Do you consider the 2nd Comm to be better than your 1st Comm?
Yeah, their meets are way more fun and frequent.

>Did you leave your 1st Comm a while after joining the 2nd Comm ?
No, I mostly go to local meets and am friends with local girls, but I feel like its easier to be friends with girls from the second comm for some reason.

>Do you ever attend meetups of your 2nd Comm?
When I'm in the area, like if I have to do shopping in their town or if there's another event or reason I'm in town.
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Anonymous 07/21/14(Mon)14:59 UTC+1 No.7699202 Report

>Have you ever joined a 2nd lolita Comm?
Yeah, I moved to a different city for school so I joined the comm here. I also once moved to a different country to study and joined the comm while I was there, which was a really great way to make friends, but of course it's impossible to be active there now that I've moved back.

>Was there a reason behind join that Comm?
It's nice to have people you know you can hang out with when you move to a new place!

>Do you consider the 2nd Comm to be better than your 1st Comm?
No, the girls in the second comm are all really sweet, but they're all pretty young. I don't really feel like I mesh well with the group aside from a couple of girls.

>Did you leave your 1st Comm a while after joining the 2nd Comm?
No, I'm still much more active in my first comm even though it's far away. I'll leave the second comm if I move back.

>Do you ever attend meetups of your 2nd Comm?
Sometimes! They make me miss my first comm's meets though.
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Anonymous 07/21/14(Mon)17:48 UTC+1 No.7699404 Report

>Have you ever joined a 2nd lolita Comm?
Yes, my city's comm and I also joined Chicago's

>Was there a reason behind join that Comm?
My friend invited me to go with her to an event in Chicago, it was fun, so I asked to join.

>Do you consider the 2nd Comm to be better than your 1st Comm?
It has its perks, but I do like my hometown comm better. We have a better, laid back atmosphere.

>Did you leave your 1st Comm a while after joining the 2nd Comm?
Hells no.

>Do you ever attend meetups of your 2nd Comm?
I try when I can. I'll be at the megameet!
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Anonymous 07/22/14(Tue)05:41 UTC+1 No.7700769 Report

>Have you ever joined a 2nd lolita Comm?
I'm actually a member of 5 different comms on facebook.

>Was there a reason behind join that Comm?
I live in a large state, and there are cluster of lolitas in different areas, several of them are less than a 3 hour drive away, not counting my immediate local comm. The one that's the farthest is only four hours away and in a large city where there are a lot of cons. I joined the other comms to have more frequent meet ups.

>Do you consider the 2nd Comm to be better than your 1st Comm?
Tough to say. The other comms I've been to have a lot more older lolitas closer to my age and girls with similar buying habits than my local, so I feel like I have more of a connection purely based on that. But of course I don't see them as often, so who's to say?

>Did you leave your 1st Comm a while after joining the 2nd Comm?
Nope

>Do you ever attend meetups of your 2nd Comm?
If it works with my schedule and the event is worth the drive.
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