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Let's dump all our...
Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)04:44 UTC+1 No.7637627 Report

Let's dump all our feelings/thoughts/gossip about our local comm in one thread.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)04:51 UTC+1 No.7637641 Report

>tfw want to attend meet at local comm
>tfw only dress in my closet is thick and don't want to sweat over it in the middle of summer
>dress #2 and #3 not arriving until early August
>dress #4 and #5 not arriving until mid September
>will be gone to university by September

goddamn.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)04:53 UTC+1 No.7637645 Report

>>7637641
Girl get one of those prescription deodorants and go for it!
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)07:51 UTC+1 No.7637880 Report
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>>7637627My fucking comm...
>>7637627
My fucking comm is disgusting full of Ita's and ugly people in general ugh. Not to mention they choose the worst meet up spots I'll dump some bris comm photos jfc.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)07:53 UTC+1 No.7637882 Report
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>>7637880More bris comm
>>7637880
More bris comm
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)07:54 UTC+1 No.7637884 Report
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>>7637882When will it...
>>7637882
When will it end? Surprise not anytime soon!
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)07:55 UTC+1 No.7637887 Report
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>>7637884
>>7637884
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)07:56 UTC+1 No.7637891 Report

>>7637884

these girls are so unfortunate looking it's endearing I think
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)07:56 UTC+1 No.7637892 Report
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>>7637887Oh hello...
>>7637887
Oh hello manlet!
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)07:57 UTC+1 No.7637894 Report
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>>7637892Whhhhy my eyes!
>>7637892
Whhhhy my eyes!
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)07:59 UTC+1 No.7637896 Report

Anon I actually feel really bad for you for being with this hoard of unfortunate itas.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)07:59 UTC+1 No.7637897 Report
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>>7637894Shes selling...
>>7637894
Shes selling all her lolita so this ugly butterface will be gone soon anyways!
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)08:01 UTC+1 No.7637900 Report

>>7637897
>>7637892
>>7637887
>>7637884
>>7637882
>>7637880
>>7637894

talk shit, post fit
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)08:01 UTC+1 No.7637901 Report

>>7637896
Unfortunately it was so much better when Elliot, Goldie, Kylie where there. They where kind of like a talisman of beauty warding away ugly fucks from our comm. Now they are gone all the uglies are starting to seep in....
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)08:03 UTC+1 No.7637903 Report

>>7637900
Oh hi butterface!
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)08:09 UTC+1 No.7637906 Report

>>7637903
I'm afraid I'm not on the same continent, but if you are going to talk so much shit you should post a photo of your own coords.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)08:09 UTC+1 No.7637908 Report

>>7637896
I also admin but I am trying to weed out as many of the ita's as I can from the com.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)08:11 UTC+1 No.7637910 Report

>>7637906
>>7637906
Nice try, Not going to show my face then the ita's would know who I am spoiler they go on 4chan also.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)08:12 UTC+1 No.7637911 Report

>>7637910
You can always black out the face

I'm pretty sure if they came on here, they'd be able to figure out who you are anyways
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)08:14 UTC+1 No.7637913 Report

>>7637911
You can always unblack the face with photo editing software although I am an admin so if they do know they can't do shit.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)08:15 UTC+1 No.7637915 Report

> I also admin
> admin
> but I am trying to weed out as many of the ita's as I can from the com
> admin

good job outing yourself there anon
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)08:17 UTC+1 No.7637917 Report

>>7637913
what? No you can't, you can unswirl a face.
and >>7637915
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)08:19 UTC+1 No.7637919 Report

> they can't do shit.

> lmao, you really think that?
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)08:19 UTC+1 No.7637920 Report

>>7637915
Oh no what are they going to do throw their bodyline at me?
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)08:20 UTC+1 No.7637922 Report

I wish the grown-ass woman in my comm would give up on jfashion or wear something that fits her. She looks like she is in her 40s (or late 30s but aging badly), short and obese. I don't see her often at meets, but when I do, she stretches out her dresses all the way in the bust, which makes them way too short. To put the cherry on top, she wears ankle socks, putting her entire lumpy stumps on display. I am sure the dress rides up during the day too and I am scared to look in her direction at the end of the day.

I love my comm and I see other members interacting with her, but I wish somebody would say something and/or she starts covering up and dress like the grownass woman that she is.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)08:21 UTC+1 No.7637923 Report

>>7637920
Well you seemed concerned enough that you don't want to post a coord despite the fact that you'd be easily identifiable.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)08:21 UTC+1 No.7637924 Report

>>7637897
She is ugly as sin but it's okay I'm getting Vampire Requiem off her for cheap as! As long as I can rescue VR off her everything will be okay!
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)08:22 UTC+1 No.7637925 Report

> you are hilarious if you really think this won't come back to bite you someday
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)08:23 UTC+1 No.7637927 Report

This is old as balls now but my god the amount of ita and cringe:

http://youtu.be/rAlhxPuD3lA
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)08:24 UTC+1 No.7637930 Report

I barely even know my comm because I'm too shy to ask for the time off work. I'm that fag who always replies "maybe" to invites in the hopes I'll get the day off by chance but that has never happened so far. I'm sorry.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)08:24 UTC+1 No.7637934 Report

>>7637925
While I wouldn't disagree that quite a few of these look pretty bad, most are nitpicks and this girl choosing the worst photos and the worst lighting.

>also not the first time since this person has mass posted these same photos at least 2 other times
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)08:28 UTC+1 No.7637939 Report

>>7637924
She's a regular cgl goer, sucks to be you when she sees this.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)08:29 UTC+1 No.7637942 Report

>>7637880
>>7637882
>>7637884
>>7637887
>>7637891
>>7637892
>>7637894
>>7637897
>>7637908
>>7637910
>>7637920
You're a cunt.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)08:30 UTC+1 No.7637943 Report

>>7637939
Wat....Oh well if she backs out I'll just leave neg feed back!
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)08:33 UTC+1 No.7637947 Report

>>7637880
>>7637882
>>7637884
>>7637887
>>7637891
>>7637892
>>7637894
>>7637897
>>7637908
>>7637910
>>7637920
>>7637924
>>7637943

are you drunk or something

i can't wait to see where this goes
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)08:35 UTC+1 No.7637950 Report

>>7637927
Wow this hurt my eyes
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)08:44 UTC+1 No.7637953 Report
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Sydfag enjoying the fuck out...
Sydfag enjoying the fuck out of this thread. Even if it wasn't stated, you can always spot a Brisbane thread, kek.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)08:45 UTC+1 No.7637956 Report

>>7637953
Fellow sydfag sitting here with a bucket of popcorn.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)08:47 UTC+1 No.7637957 Report
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I think this is the only...
I think this is the only lolita comm in my area.
I know a few of them from local cons but I never really got to know them with lolita. They've improved a lot.

Not the best, could use a lot of improvement, but overall, nice people. so I'd rather have a non weeaboo climbing out of ita slowly nice comm than a really bitchy and problematic one who dress amazing.

of course it'd be nice to meet in the middle sometime
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)08:48 UTC+1 No.7637958 Report
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>>7637924Hi
>>7637924
Hi
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)08:50 UTC+1 No.7637959 Report

>>7637958
Fuck you bitch doesn't matter it's mine anyways!
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)08:50 UTC+1 No.7637960 Report

My local comm seems to be full of socially awkward itas that I can't be seen in public with. Every time I see a FB post from a meet up if I am both saddened and happy that I didn't go.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)08:51 UTC+1 No.7637961 Report

>>7637953
Should we throw pity brand at them?
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)08:52 UTC+1 No.7637962 Report
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>>7637927
>>7637927
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)08:54 UTC+1 No.7637965 Report

>>7637958

omfg this is golden
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)08:56 UTC+1 No.7637966 Report
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>>7637958>>7637959>>7637956SOMEONE...
>>7637958
>>7637959

>>7637956
SOMEONE GIVE ME SOME POPCORN
>>7637961
Mmmm.... maybe
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)09:00 UTC+1 No.7637971 Report

>>7637960
So......your a fellow Bris loli?
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)09:02 UTC+1 No.7637972 Report

>>7637971
You're*
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)09:15 UTC+1 No.7637977 Report

>>7637958
Do people just hate her because they think she's ugly?
The only interactions I've had with her was when I bought something, that came a bit more damaged, than I was lead to believe, things happen. But she was incredibly nice, helpful and apologetic for the entire transaction. If she wasn't a good person she wouldn't have gone as far as she had to make sure I was happy with the transaction in the end.
Tbh, I don't get all the hate. She seems like a nice person to me.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)09:17 UTC+1 No.7637978 Report

Where would you leave negative feedback? If people found out why she backed out of the sale (because you're a cunt) I'd say they would be pretty forgiving of that.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)09:18 UTC+1 No.7637979 Report

>>7637974
No I'm the admin and I'm the different girl to her she was bitching about heather.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)09:19 UTC+1 No.7637980 Report

>>7637979
Oh so the cuntrag isn't the admin? I'll adjust then
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)09:20 UTC+1 No.7637981 Report

>>7637977
Nice try Heather.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)09:20 UTC+1 No.7637983 Report

>>7637971
They would have to be to have access to those photos or one of the few people added to the group who aren't from Brisbane or don't live in Brisbane anymore.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)09:22 UTC+1 No.7637987 Report
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Anonymous
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)09:28 UTC+1 No.7637994 Report
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>>7637987oh damn
>>7637987
oh damn
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)09:32 UTC+1 No.7637999 Report

>>7637987
Busted!!!
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)09:32 UTC+1 No.7638001 Report
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>>7637880>>7637882>>7637884>>7637887>>7637892>>7637894>>7637897Really??...
>>7637880
>>7637882
>>7637884
>>7637887
>>7637892
>>7637894
>>7637897
Really?? Really?? This is why we can't have nice things... people like you. Posting these girls to cgl is a dick move. They may need improvement as far as coordinates go but seeing themselves plastered all over isn't going to help them. If it hurts your eyes so much private msg them and offer to help them come up with something better to wear using your oh so specuuu amazing coordinate skills.

>I bet you look like shit.

Am out.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)09:33 UTC+1 No.7638005 Report

>>7637987
>>7637994
>>7637999
Am I the only one getting the feeling that someone is setting this person up to take the fall?

I mean, it's possible that she's actually just that stupid. But you have to be epic leves of stupid to say "this person posts to CGL" followed by "here's a specific, detailed way to find out exactly who I am"?
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)09:35 UTC+1 No.7638007 Report
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>>7637994>>7637999talk...
>>7637994
>>7637999
talk so much shit, post fit
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)09:35 UTC+1 No.7638008 Report

>>7637987
so is this supposed to be proof that this girl was shit talking her comm? Is she the admin and she bought VR off of someone I guess? Other than that I don't understand how those comments link it back to her?
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)09:39 UTC+1 No.7638013 Report

I find this thread really rather mean and unnecessary. I'm saddened that friends of mine who are beautiful and amazing people have been posted again. I also wanted to clear up some things I am not actually leaving lolita although being in a community with so much hate and vitriol makes me consider it. I have only sold a few pieces not my whole wardrobe. As for me being ugly, everyone is entitled to their own opinion.

As for you Maddy I actually thought you were quite nice but I guess not and I am glad you got your dream dress cheap and all (which is always an amazing thing) but this is a really petty and bitchy way to act boasting that you got your dream skirt off an ugly girl who looks like you. Just grow up.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)09:39 UTC+1 No.7638015 Report

>>7637924
>>7637897
>>7637959
Holy shit, is she drunk or something?

I'm new to the comm but from what I've seen/interacted with Heather she's nothing but a sweetheart and her hair is fucking LUSH.
>Piggy-faced hipster girl calling the kettle black.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)09:39 UTC+1 No.7638016 Report

>>7637901
But they're all ugly themselves. Especially Kylie, her face makes me uncomfortable.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)09:40 UTC+1 No.7638017 Report

>>7638005
She is this dumb in real life though come on this is the brisbane comm we are talking about.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)09:41 UTC+1 No.7638019 Report

>>7638008
If that did end up being the case then it's easily removed so long as no anon's save it. If someone else posts it around, then it's likely the person re-posting the image is the true culprit.

However it could be either way but leans more to the person in the picture being the sandbag. I feel if it wasn't them they would be talking more and would have taken the opportunity to post a photo of "their" own coord
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)09:41 UTC+1 No.7638022 Report

>>7638016
Yeah but at least Kylie could kind of co-ord unlike the rest of the shits these days ugh.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)09:43 UTC+1 No.7638023 Report

>>7637958
I think we can all mutually agree that we will ignore any negative feedback that you get for refusing to sell to this person, honestly behavior like this is good enough to stop the transaction.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)09:43 UTC+1 No.7638024 Report

>>7637943
How and exactly where are you going to leave said feedback when the transaction was on the fb page?
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)09:43 UTC+1 No.7638025 Report

>>7638005
This. Feels like elaborate vendetta. But then again, everyone she posted really aren't the most attractive bunch.
And then she's basically throwing her identity to the wind, repeating how she's an admin.
Still, it's likely she could be drunk and/or just plain stupid.
Carry on.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)09:44 UTC+1 No.7638028 Report

>>7637958
did she actually buy it though?
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)09:46 UTC+1 No.7638031 Report

>>7638025
see >>7638019

I think if it was someone trying to frame this girl, she would have posted a coord of this girl's.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)09:46 UTC+1 No.7638032 Report

>>7638013
So it's already been sold? Damn.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)09:47 UTC+1 No.7638034 Report

>>7638008
Nope I call epic troll putting the blame on others.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)09:48 UTC+1 No.7638037 Report

>>7637961
Well this group definitely needs some, they other one doesn't!
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)09:49 UTC+1 No.7638042 Report

Haha I'm so glad we broke off the Briscom early to avoid the children, holy shit you guys killed it.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)09:52 UTC+1 No.7638047 Report

>>7638042
There's a sub-group? The main problem with Brisbane literally is the children; Assuming that this really is Maddy, she's basically being a normal, terrible 17-year-old.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)09:53 UTC+1 No.7638049 Report

>>7638042
Shhhh Goldie I can smell your fishy mangina from here.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)09:54 UTC+1 No.7638050 Report

>>7638047

Yes there is. Mostly veterans. That is all I'm saying about it.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)09:54 UTC+1 No.7638051 Report

>>7637953
>>7637956
Moving to Sydney for less drama and glorious brand lovers.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)09:55 UTC+1 No.7638052 Report

>>7638047
Uh yeah only the elite are allowed no ita's allowed!
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)09:56 UTC+1 No.7638055 Report

>>7638047
so what if there is?

bodyline is good for soaking up tears dear
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)09:57 UTC+1 No.7638059 Report

>>7638050
How do I become one of you?
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)09:57 UTC+1 No.7638061 Report

Y'all a bunch of cunts. I've only interacted with Heather. She is kind as can be. I don't attend brisbane meets tho. I'm gonna be honest it seems like a train wreck. Plus Sydney lolis are more fun.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)09:58 UTC+1 No.7638064 Report

>>7638059
Lick my vagina and donate a puppet circus to me!
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)09:58 UTC+1 No.7638065 Report

>>7638061
Interacted briefly**
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)10:00 UTC+1 No.7638067 Report

>>7638059
Lick my puppet circus and donate a vagina to me
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)10:00 UTC+1 No.7638068 Report

>>7638047
>17-year-old
>that unfortunate face
>4chan is 18+

Good lord I wish I had money to throw around like that when I was 17.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)10:01 UTC+1 No.7638071 Report

>>7638059
You have to be invited, mostly to keep the drama away.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)10:03 UTC+1 No.7638072 Report

>>7638071
Don't worry I will be your Queen soon enough and you will all bow down to my frills.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)10:03 UTC+1 No.7638075 Report

>>7638064
Ah..it's you. We meet again Senpai. Have you noticed me yet??
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)10:04 UTC+1 No.7638076 Report

>>7638072
yeah

nah
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)10:05 UTC+1 No.7638079 Report

I'm so ashamed of my comm
North east uk
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)10:05 UTC+1 No.7638080 Report
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>>7637880>>7637896>>7637920>>7637953>>7637956>>7637966HA>>7638051Sydcomm...
>>7637880
>>7637896
>>7637920
>>7637953
>>7637956
>>7637966
HA

>>7638051
Sydcomm is superior Brisfags.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)10:07 UTC+1 No.7638083 Report

>>7638075
Yes I have noticed you my little dove you have a keen eye more keen than the rest of these plebs. Yes soon you will be chosen as an apprentice.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)10:08 UTC+1 No.7638085 Report

>>7638076
Suck my clit ita aww gonna go have a bawwww and host another shit meet at fats?
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)10:09 UTC+1 No.7638087 Report

I'll think of this thread next time someone tells me women cannot be sociopaths
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)10:10 UTC+1 No.7638088 Report

... This is why I don't go to meets and save my precious brand for Sydney trips.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)10:11 UTC+1 No.7638090 Report

>>7638085
Andrea leave the itas alone!
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)10:12 UTC+1 No.7638091 Report

>>7638087

So what if I enjoy causing social chaos and discord does that make me a sociopath? I jut enjoy manipulating the masses to baww and squirm like the filthy ita's they are.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)10:13 UTC+1 No.7638093 Report

>>7638090
Andrea is a fat slut go fuck yourself I'll spill tea on her next time I see her.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)10:14 UTC+1 No.7638095 Report

>>7637981
> Heather
I'm not Heather. Just from my interactions with her, she seems like a nice person. Is that really hard to believe?
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)10:15 UTC+1 No.7638097 Report

>>7638080
every comm is superior to brisbane
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)10:16 UTC+1 No.7638099 Report

>>7638093
>>7638090
>>7638091
>>7638085
Fuck you're a bunch of bogans, this is great.
I need more popcorn.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)10:16 UTC+1 No.7638100 Report

>>7638091
but you're also ita. can itas call itas ita???????
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)10:17 UTC+1 No.7638102 Report
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I'm back.
I'm back.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)10:17 UTC+1 No.7638103 Report

>>7638091
>the masses
Your audience consists of the people that you're causing drama for in your comm and probably three other people.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)10:19 UTC+1 No.7638105 Report
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Idek what's going on in...
Idek what's going on in this thread anymore
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)10:20 UTC+1 No.7638106 Report

>>7638103
My audience is all life I am an artist spreading such beauty to all sentient beings. Feel the feelings,feel the game!
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)10:21 UTC+1 No.7638107 Report

>>7638102
Don't eat to much of that centrelink funded popcorn girly you won't fit into brand anymore!
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)10:23 UTC+1 No.7638108 Report

Whoa, the Aus lolis are fucking mental.

How come whenever y'all show up your insults are always so embarrassing?
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)10:24 UTC+1 No.7638111 Report
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>>7638083So fucking...
>>7638083
So fucking excited you have no idea.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)10:24 UTC+1 No.7638112 Report
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>>7638108Because...
>>7638108
Because Amerifags don't understand our humor.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)10:26 UTC+1 No.7638113 Report
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>>7638102>>7638107Bitch,...
>>7638102
>>7638107
Bitch, I am brand.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)10:26 UTC+1 No.7638115 Report

>>7638108
Hey Amerifag go suck on Misakos meatcurtains!
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)10:27 UTC+1 No.7638116 Report
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>>7638113what
>>7638113
what
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)10:27 UTC+1 No.7638117 Report

>>7638112
shouldn't it be spelled humour? there's an extra u in everything.
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IlluminatiLolita 06/26/14(Thu)10:28 UTC+1 No.7638120 Report

>>7638111
Good now retrieve one of Misako's pubes videotape it as proof then eat it to be ultra kawaii! FEEL HER KAWAII INSIDE YOU!
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)10:29 UTC+1 No.7638121 Report

>>7638117
I'm making it easy fir the Amerifags. God knows they hate 'u'.
>also autocorrect
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)10:29 UTC+1 No.7638122 Report

>>7638117
Ouh. Yuou're sou riught. Muy baud.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)10:29 UTC+1 No.7638123 Report
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>>7638112Get out of my...
>>7638112
Get out of my country
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)10:29 UTC+1 No.7638125 Report
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>>7638115
>>7638116
HAHAHAHAHAHAHA
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)10:30 UTC+1 No.7638126 Report

>>7638112
>>7638115

I'm not even American.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)10:32 UTC+1 No.7638130 Report

>>7638126
relaaaaaax we don't really give a fuck
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IlluminatiLolita 06/26/14(Thu)10:33 UTC+1 No.7638132 Report

>>7638123
It's not even wearing brand! It should be shunned KOALAITA
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)10:34 UTC+1 No.7638134 Report

>>7638120
You always show up when we need you. All hail!
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)10:37 UTC+1 No.7638135 Report
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>>7638132It's...
>>7638132
It's clearly the treelita's kawaii accessory

>urrine Natural
Oh captcha
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IlluminatiLolita 06/26/14(Thu)10:39 UTC+1 No.7638138 Report

>>7638134
I never left ever, I will always be here in a rustle of organza and brand to defend those I take under my petti!
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)10:43 UTC+1 No.7638144 Report

My local comm is mostly made up of itas and fatties. There's two cute, well-dressed girls who don't even go to local meets anymore because the local comm is just so embarrassingly loud and obnoxious. I haven't been to a meet for so long because they're just not nice people but I still see them around every now and again. It makes me sad that they're our local representation of the fashion.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)10:50 UTC+1 No.7638147 Report

bris comm settle petals
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)11:05 UTC+1 No.7638158 Report

>>7637887
This meet was like 6mths ago and this was my first coord oh god, I knew it would come back to haunt me haha It's really disappointing that there's girls out there though that will pull up old photos and post them anonymously, does being mean really bring you that much happiness?
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)11:13 UTC+1 No.7638164 Report
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>>7637924What if I...
>>7637924
What if I already sold Vampire Requiem yesterday?
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)11:13 UTC+1 No.7638166 Report

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Mx_dCxt7nXA
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)11:15 UTC+1 No.7638167 Report
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>>7638158don't...
>>7638158
don't sweat it, it's a solid first co-ord.
What bag did you use?
Just add a better blouse and a more supportive bra.
I use a sports bra so the girls stay nice and high.

Question though, would you as a newer member, want to have a buddy or mentor system available? Even if it was just a list of people you could message if you had a small question
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IlluminatiLolita 06/26/14(Thu)11:17 UTC+1 No.7638172 Report

>>7638164
Than you let her (The girl messing with you) walk all over you duh you got played fool
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)11:18 UTC+1 No.7638177 Report

>>7637897
For you scumcunt
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)11:19 UTC+1 No.7638181 Report

>>7638172
Illuminati chan, I've only just gotten on to a computer and did not see the thread until it was mostly over. I don't care that someone has had a go at me but I really do feel bad for Maddy she's only young and just getting into lolita, she doesn't need to see the mean and drama side of lolita so early.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)11:20 UTC+1 No.7638182 Report
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>>7637897
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0AJ0mBp-a-w
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)11:20 UTC+1 No.7638183 Report

>>7638158
It's disappointing you think you can be a lolita with such an ugly face. Frills won't make you prettier plastic surgery will fix that.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)11:20 UTC+1 No.7638184 Report

>>7638183
You are an absolutely horrible person.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)11:22 UTC+1 No.7638187 Report
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>>7638183Mine will leave...
>>7638183
Mine will leave you like this, cowgirl.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)11:22 UTC+1 No.7638188 Report

>>7638184
At least I don't look like a pig.
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IlluminatiLolita 06/26/14(Thu)11:25 UTC+1 No.7638191 Report

>>7638181
It's obvious she's playing innocent to worm her way out of what she has done to you. I do applaud her posting a post to make it seem like she had nothing to do with this. Don't let yourself be fooled get your dress back and wear it with pride!
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)11:26 UTC+1 No.7638192 Report
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>>7638188Pics or it...
>>7638188
Pics or it didn't happen slutguts.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)11:26 UTC+1 No.7638194 Report

>>7638188
At least I don't look like an Ita!
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)11:26 UTC+1 No.7638195 Report

>>7638167
I should have specified, I'm the girl on the right lol
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)11:28 UTC+1 No.7638196 Report
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>>7638093agreed. make...
>>7638093
agreed. make sure its scalding hot
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)11:28 UTC+1 No.7638198 Report

>>7638183
Fuck you're sandy. Did you buy some shit stained bloomers and want to take it out on the world?
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)11:29 UTC+1 No.7638199 Report

>>7638172
wait I thought she was saying that she didn't sell it to >>7637924 but to someone else yesterday?

So is that Maddy girl the one posting here or is she just someone who happened to post on the sale thread and it got screenshotted to try and drag her into this?
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)11:29 UTC+1 No.7638200 Report

>>7638195
In that case I take bag the pig comment; that was for the other girl. You look okay. Maybe use some highlighter around your eyes and get rid of those crappy lace gloves, though.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)11:31 UTC+1 No.7638201 Report

>>7638195
So you are the uglier one from the bunch?
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)11:31 UTC+1 No.7638202 Report

>>7638158
I actually really like your coord; It's good enough as a whole, but for your first it's a hell of a lot better than what most people start out with.

The only thing I'd change is the gloves.
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Soto 06/26/14(Thu)11:32 UTC+1 No.7638203 Report
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This is why we can't have...
This is why we can't have nice things
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)11:33 UTC+1 No.7638205 Report

Is it possible if I could have some con-crit about my cat window coord?
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)11:34 UTC+1 No.7638206 Report

>>7638200
It was my first coord, pretty much every accessory I wore that day is in the bin hah. My makeup game is much better now, those were dark times. But everyone has bad coords and bad days, that's why I wish people would be so vicious towards each other
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)11:34 UTC+1 No.7638207 Report

>>7638199
You are correct anon who ever posted this >>7637924 is a vendetta.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)11:40 UTC+1 No.7638212 Report

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eTosQerWBzU
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)11:44 UTC+1 No.7638219 Report

>>7638191

This. It was pretty obvious. Maddy is in this thread being a fuckin ita bitch.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)11:47 UTC+1 No.7638220 Report

Trying to become friends with everyone is suffering.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)12:01 UTC+1 No.7638245 Report

>>7638220
Is this about a bris comm member?
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)12:10 UTC+1 No.7638256 Report

>>7638245
not that anon, but it could be a general statement about life.

Best thing to do is be polite and respectful to everyone but have a handful of friends who'll take your secrets to the grave
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)12:16 UTC+1 No.7638266 Report

>>7637927
I spotted Mistress M or whatever her name was. Poor thing.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)12:21 UTC+1 No.7638272 Report

Can the Brisbane comm ever become a good comm again?
Or should I just pack up and leave?
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)12:28 UTC+1 No.7638277 Report

>>7638272
Leave if you're ugly or an ita stay if you have brand and are pretty!
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)12:38 UTC+1 No.7638283 Report

>>7638199
I highly doubt Maddy is posting. Seems she just got screen posted and dragged in. Though it seems everyone fell for it. Poor kid.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)12:41 UTC+1 No.7638284 Report

>>7638283
That's pretty messed up.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)12:43 UTC+1 No.7638285 Report

>>7638283
Nice try Maddy never show your pig face in the brisbane comm again.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)12:46 UTC+1 No.7638288 Report
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>>7638285eh.
>>7638285
eh.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)12:49 UTC+1 No.7638290 Report

>>7638192
This turns me on
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)12:50 UTC+1 No.7638293 Report

>>7638290
how could it not anon?
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)12:59 UTC+1 No.7638301 Report
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>>7638290Y u no respond?
>>7638290
Y u no respond?
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)13:00 UTC+1 No.7638303 Report
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>>7638093lol what is...
>>7638093
lol what is this the 2000s, I haven't loaded this shitberg of a board for years till now cuz I'm hearing about it and suddenly you think it's me?
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)13:01 UTC+1 No.7638304 Report

>>7638285
yeah, I'm calling bullshit on this since you couldn't pin it on Contessa, you've picked the next best thing which is a new member
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)13:03 UTC+1 No.7638305 Report
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>>7638301I-I was busy
>>7638301
I-I was busy
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)13:15 UTC+1 No.7638313 Report

>>7638304
Yeah okay Maddster keep making yourself out to be innocent.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)13:21 UTC+1 No.7638320 Report

>>7638313
she's gone to bed anon, just like you should
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)13:34 UTC+1 No.7638333 Report

>>7638304
Why would it be Contessa anon? She was posted. Does someone have issues with Contessa?
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)13:36 UTC+1 No.7638335 Report
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It's alright guys...
It's alright guys I'll just sell all my burando and start up my record collection again.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)13:38 UTC+1 No.7638336 Report

>>7638320
Are you a lesbian ehis that how you know she went to bed? You jump under her petti and give her a licky licky on her clitty.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)13:45 UTC+1 No.7638343 Report

>>7638336
Fucking hell, Bris lolis are really fixated on vag.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)13:57 UTC+1 No.7638352 Report

Oooookaaaay well let's just ignore the weird Bris drama and try and get this thread back on track, eh?

My comm is pretty cool, except we had a major con in the area recently and it brought an influx of newbies. Most are fine, just asking the same questions we put in the FAQ, but one of them is just terrible at dressing herself, gives advice to other newbies that basically amounts to "find all your lolita clothing at Good Will", and keeps spamming the comm with anything that pops into her head. She's also very much not open to concrit or improvement, and has flat-out said she'd cry if someone told her what she was wearing wasn't lolita. It's really frustrating because there is so much wrong but she's living in this tumblr bubble and even though several people in the comm have been hinting to her that she might not want to be giving "advice" like she has been, nothing penetrates her immovable fortress of hugbox.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)14:30 UTC+1 No.7638385 Report

>>7638352
Someone's gonna have to be straight with her eventually, and it might as well be you. What's the worst that could happen? She'll flounce? Good.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)14:34 UTC+1 No.7638391 Report

I know most people in Brisbane community, and they are all good people, good friends, and they look just fine. They wear a mix of brands and have normal interests and welcome newbies to meetups.
I know a lot of Aus communities that are the same and they all generally have the same dramas with claims that they are elite or bullies or itas and whatever else. It only takes one anon to make everyone believe there is drama.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)14:50 UTC+1 No.7638399 Report

>>7638391
Oh hi other mod you only think that because you have illusions of grandeur grimy ho!
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)14:50 UTC+1 No.7638400 Report

>>7638391
That happened with my comm recently too. One or maybe two people kept stirring up drama and starting shit on cgl and BtB and now our comm has a rep for being crazy and dramatic, even though we're all on really good terms and don't have a single problem with each other in reality. It died down after a certain member left the group though, hmmm.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)14:50 UTC+1 No.7638401 Report

>>7638399
I think you mean delusions.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)15:10 UTC+1 No.7638421 Report

>>7638400

Ohio?
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)15:20 UTC+1 No.7638441 Report
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>>7638399>>7638401Oooooh...
>>7638399
>>7638401
Oooooh BURN!
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)15:22 UTC+1 No.7638446 Report

>>7637897
Post yourself anon, lets see if you're any bettter
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)15:24 UTC+1 No.7638454 Report

>>7638401
I think you mean you are an ita bitch goldie and elliot where way better than you ho.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)15:25 UTC+1 No.7638458 Report

>>7638441
If that's classed as a burn in your book than well you must be some boring frigid ass airhead.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)15:32 UTC+1 No.7638472 Report
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>>7638458That's all...
>>7638458
That's all you got. >Flounce MoFo<
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)15:46 UTC+1 No.7638492 Report

>>7637957
Hi fellow Vegas anon. I too think our comm is very nice if not the best dressed, but I wish our admins would get more creative with the meets. They are ALWAYS at either Town Square or Kaba Curry, and I despise karaoke. We live in motherfucking LAS VEGAS. Let's do something fun for once!

Also I'm sick of certain creepy predatory men coming to meets and shitting up the comm page. I'm fine with bfs or legit brolitas, but GTFO if you're not one of those. No one wants you around.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)15:56 UTC+1 No.7638500 Report

NYC again showing how it's an endless pit of drama.
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Alex 06/26/14(Thu)15:57 UTC+1 No.7638504 Report

Announcer: Welcome to Total Drama Thread!

>Audience furiously eats popcorn in between laughing madly at the bitter, angry catfights

Shit, I should use this script as an episode for a reality TV show. This is pure gold.

Is this really what the lolita fanbase is like? If so, I'm going to every meetup with a bucket of popcorn and a camera.

>sage for off topic
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)16:11 UTC+1 No.7638515 Report

>>7638504
Nobody would dream of acting like this to anyone in person. They are chicken shit and would get called out and laughed at. But hiding behind anonymity and people will take every chance they can to say things they wouldn't have the guts to online. Of course, some of the examples above really are not an example of everyone. Most people live by the adage, "If you can't say something nice don't say anything at all." but would give their honest opinion outright if asked.

Personally, I believe in karma, and can testify that it is a bitch. So I keep my thoughts to myself and never let them materialize. It's a waste of energy and time.

Plus, if you are overly vocal, people can figure out who it is easily. I stay anonymous on here, but people can usually pinpoint who I am simply by what I talk about, how I type, and it's pretty tame or generally helpful things. It's even more obvious when you're fingers are flapping and raging repeatedly.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)16:22 UTC+1 No.7638522 Report

>>7638515
It's kind of funny how "Say that to my face, fucker, not online" would probably actually be an effective response to being shit on in these threads.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)16:24 UTC+1 No.7638526 Report

There is this situation in my comm and I'm wondering how to deal with it. (I'm the admin of the fb comm) This girl used to bring her boyfriend to meets all the time. Cute, well dressed couple. Then he cheated on her and they broke up, so he stopped coming to meet ups. Well, about four months later he's started coming to meets again but with a new girlfriend who is obviously new to the fashion. The last meet they showed up to he stared at his ex the whole time. I'm getting bad vibes. Should I do something?
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)16:27 UTC+1 No.7638530 Report
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>mfw Australians are the...
>mfw Australians are the literally the biggest shitposters, even on /cgl/
What is it with you people and your country?
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)16:32 UTC+1 No.7638542 Report

>>7638522
Nah, they pretend it's not them and samefag until they give themselves away.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)16:37 UTC+1 No.7638548 Report

>>7638504
You're the one posting in like every thread now, right? You have got to be autistic. Leave now and invest in lessons on social skills.

Sage for different kind of drama.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)16:48 UTC+1 No.7638562 Report

>>7638522
Except I would fuck your shit up in real life and spit it into your face.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)16:51 UTC+1 No.7638565 Report

>>7638562
lol no you wouldn't
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)16:58 UTC+1 No.7638571 Report
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>>7637627I kinda just...
>>7637627
I kinda just want to apologise on behalf of Australia to the rest of you seagulls, sorry all we do is spew filth lol
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)17:05 UTC+1 No.7638581 Report
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>SoCal Comm>fucking...
>SoCal Comm
>fucking tired of fairytale boutique
>why the fuck are 30+ lolitas being squished together in that tiny oven of a store
>fashion walks like every month
>two workers + the mom are bitches
>owner always squeezes into tiny AP salopettes
>vomit.jpg
>tries to be kawaii uguu animu girl
>big ass weeb
>majority of meets that aren't there are quite the distance
why? Is it just me who feels this way
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)17:07 UTC+1 No.7638585 Report

>>7638441
OT but I'm so proud that people started using this image I made. It's like my favourite thing.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)17:13 UTC+1 No.7638598 Report
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>>7638571but seagulls...
>>7638571
but seagulls love the filth
we are thirsty for your polluted waters more please
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Alex 06/26/14(Thu)17:15 UTC+1 No.7638600 Report

>>7638515
Suppose I'll save my popcorn to these threads, then.

Lolita interests me in the aspect that I am fascinated by it, but won't partake in it (don't want to be a brolita, It's just not for me). Would it be out of place for me to sit in at lolita panels?

>>7638548
I don't understand at all.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)17:25 UTC+1 No.7638623 Report

>>7638492
Why the shit is it up to admins to make meets? Organise one yourself instead of being a lazy shit.

>>7638530
Sorry, can't help myself. But I'm serious this time.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)17:26 UTC+1 No.7638627 Report

>>7638023
Agreed
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)17:27 UTC+1 No.7638629 Report

we're having a lot of birthday meet ups lately. It makes me want to host an un-birthday meet up.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)17:31 UTC+1 No.7638635 Report
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Houston comm bitching post...
Houston comm bitching post go:

>You're either A)ita and a newbie that's sweet but has shameful public behavior and can't dress herself for shit OR B) a shady, fake, brand whore who alienates everybody until you need something from them.

>Nobody fucking talks to anybody unless they're in the same circle of friends.

>Obvious social hierarchy where the only people who get benefits are the people kissing ass at the top

Come on, HLC, get your shit together.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)17:34 UTC+1 No.7638644 Report

Some local girls are discussing making and handing out fliers/cards to people to explain what lolita is and to not harass us.
I think it's a horrible idea but I'm not going to say anything.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)17:37 UTC+1 No.7638648 Report

>>7638644
That's like giving the local bully a formal letter with pretty stationery that reads "plz don't bully me plz".

Has that ever worked in any situation? Ask them that. The best way to deal with harassment is to not respond or react. Fucking christ, when will people get a grasp of this concept?
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)17:42 UTC+1 No.7638659 Report

>>7638320
What the fuck it's like noon
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)17:44 UTC+1 No.7638666 Report

>>7638013
What comm are you from?
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Alex 06/26/14(Thu)17:50 UTC+1 No.7638682 Report

>>7638648
Ignoring only works out in some cases, and can only be done in some cases. When the harrassor is being a threat (physically or in extreme mental cases) or when he/she is impairing whatever activity is going on, they can't be ignored. Sometimes, the harrassor doesn't even know that what they are doing is harassment. In such cases, it is also good to confront the harassment. Now, would a letter/pamphlet work? In the second situation, yes. If the harassor is fully aware of his/her actions and continues to harass, then no. It won't work.

It's case by case. We'll hope that it works out.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)17:59 UTC+1 No.7638706 Report

>>7637977
I think she's annoying because she comes across as an overly eager noob who seems to think she knows a lot more than she does
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)18:00 UTC+1 No.7638709 Report

>>7638659
>what are time zones
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)18:01 UTC+1 No.7638711 Report

>>7638005
This.

Smells like a setup tbh.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)18:02 UTC+1 No.7638713 Report

>>7638013
Be careful before making assumptions. This could be someone pretending her to be her who is mad they missed out on getting it.

Ask the girl directly, link her to this post, gauge reaction, then form an opinion.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)18:03 UTC+1 No.7638714 Report

>>7638526
No advice?
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)18:03 UTC+1 No.7638718 Report

>>7638648
>>7638682
Well the idea isn't because of actual harassment, just people being ignorant shits. I guess recently some of the girls are getting tired of people taking their pictures without asking. Apparently some people were filming girls without their permission recently (not creepers, just ignorant tourists) and an old woman lifted up someone's skirt.
I still think it's dumb because why can nobody just talk to these people? "Please don't film me without permission" "please don't life my skirt up, it's rude" fliers just seem so passive aggressive and unnecessary. They were also talking about explaining what lolita is and how it's not anything sexual on them which I just think is so awkward. Since when is introducing yourself with "it's not a sex thing!" ever a good idea?
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)18:05 UTC+1 No.7638726 Report

>>7638183
She's cute as hell
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)18:06 UTC+1 No.7638728 Report
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>>7638718>it's...
>>7638718
>it's not anything sexual
That just reminds me of the episode of It's Always Sunny with pic related.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)18:11 UTC+1 No.7638738 Report

>>7638728
Oh god. I can't believe I forgot about that. Thanks anon, I got a good laugh.
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itaqueen 06/26/14(Thu)18:11 UTC+1 No.7638739 Report

dear vancouver, bc comm:
i lurve y'all
xo
ita

we're a super chill bunch, hardly any drama, largely pretty well dressed, and everyone knows how to behave in public
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)18:12 UTC+1 No.7638742 Report

>>7638581
I think the (isn't it 3 now?) girls who work there come across as very judgmental and... pretentious? I assume because they work there? The way they have spoken to me while talking to them has just been uncomfortable and not very friendly. I felt like I was talking to a batch of high school students. The mom is really nice though.

The owner is really sweet and welcoming though. I agree that they should have a limit on the size of their events, or have them somewhere else. It is getting too hot in that little store.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)18:25 UTC+1 No.7638778 Report

>>7638629
>un-birthday meet up
That would be fucking awesome. I would come for sure if I were in your comm.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)18:26 UTC+1 No.7638782 Report

>>7638742
Eh the third girl is a volunteer, she's really nice though. It's because they're basically high school students. H gets all the brand she wants from her parents and S thinks she's some sort of gift to fashion idfk. The events are getting really really monotonous, and people were dying in line at the last event. And yeah, the owner needs to grow up...
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)18:28 UTC+1 No.7638786 Report

>>7638709
>America has the best time zones
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)18:30 UTC+1 No.7638789 Report

>>7638739
Don't really know the comm, I wonder what ita havoc will go down at NWFF.
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itaqueen 06/26/14(Thu)18:53 UTC+1 No.7638860 Report

>>7638789
i'm running the fashion content there so hopefully it won't be too terrible lol
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)19:00 UTC+1 No.7638869 Report

>>7638782
H really rubs me the wrong way, every encounter I've had with her is just off somehow. S is nice, but pretty stuck up, which is especially annoying when her coords are usually pretty mediocre. I don't know who the third one is referring to...

The people that used to organize a lot of the meets seem to be too busy or have grown away from Lolita, and the Fairytale events don't really do much to fill the void.

At least the OC and SD comms have pretty regular meets, if you don't mind driving a bit.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)19:23 UTC+1 No.7638898 Report

>>7638526
Can you ban boyfriends for a while?
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)19:37 UTC+1 No.7638920 Report

>>7638644
Some people in my local comm have been talking about doing something similar. But, it's more like business cards to give out to people who are interested in finding more info about our group or something.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)19:39 UTC+1 No.7638921 Report

>>7638644
I agree. I think I'm in the same comm.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)19:42 UTC+1 No.7638927 Report

>>7638898
I can't really ban anyone is the thing. I don't really know how to talk to the boyfriend. I've noticed him taking pictures of his ex when she wasn't looking. Any idea on how to confront him about that maybe? I know other comms have had drama after banning members and I'm trying to not cause any.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)20:04 UTC+1 No.7638978 Report

>>7638500
I've been hearing there's a whites only comm now in NYC.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)20:05 UTC+1 No.7638983 Report

>>7638898
If we are talking about the same comm, his new girlfriend that he's been showing up with his the girl he was cheating with.The girl that was cheated ON was actually his wife. I feel really bad for her, because now she doesn't want to go to meetups in case they might be there.

Or who knows, we might be talking about different comms. I would pm him first and talk to him, either giving him a warning or a temp ban for a while. If the girls have problems openly a meetups, then politely talk to them too. Make sure they understand that if they come to meetups, to try not to publicly involve other members by making things too uncomfortable. Try not to take sides when it comes to performing admin duties.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)20:07 UTC+1 No.7638988 Report

>>7638927
Tell something to the mods, and have them do a formal intervention about his behavior. Tell him if he's only there to harass his ex, that he's not welcome. He'll probably flounce due to the confrontation; problem solved. Common fucking sense.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)20:18 UTC+1 No.7639016 Report

>>7638988
This
A lot of these fuckups do this stuff just because nobody ever calls them out on it. Especially in lolita communities, where practically everyone is beta as fuck.
Then again if he's dumb enough to flaunt his new whore in front of a bunch of people who knows exactly what he did who knows
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)20:25 UTC+1 No.7639038 Report

>>7638983
Different comm, how crazy that this has happened twice.

>>7638988
I'm the mod of the community. I'm hesitant to ban anyone because of the reactions from the other girls. Another Lolita comm near us had drama over banning a member, and they all thought that comms admins were out of line. I'm not going to cause drama by calling for a vote or anything like that, which they think is the only fair way to settle the other situation.

Ugh this is a mess.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)20:27 UTC+1 No.7639049 Report

>>7638352
You must be AZ

The goodwil girl is driving everyone crazy
>not open to concrit
>in a hugbox
>dresses horribly
>gives terrible advice

if she had a tumblr I would give it to her straight but I can't locate it
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)21:07 UTC+1 No.7639156 Report

>>7639038
You need to choose between doing what's good for the community and giving fuck all about blowback or letting things slowly simmer until it becomes a huge drama in your community anyway. Seriously. It's not a tough decision. You just need to strap on some balls and moderate the damn community. There's a way of doing it tactfully, and if you keep all evidence (cap up convos), no one is going to be able to fault you later on. Man up.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)21:27 UTC+1 No.7639197 Report

>>7639038
well why was the other girl banned? plus he's not even a lolita, he's a boyfriend. A lot of lolitas don't even like random dudes that don't even wear the fashion at their meets. Some don't even like random dudes who DO wear the fashion.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)21:49 UTC+1 No.7639243 Report

So what's the fucking point of having meets if you're not actually interested in making friends? Meets that happen once a month are hardly enough to form a friendship.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)21:56 UTC+1 No.7639258 Report

>>7639243
I feel this way. It's hard with a small/spread out comm, though, as gas ends up being a lot of money.
I can't wait to move away and join a bigger, regular comm, even if it means more drama.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)21:59 UTC+1 No.7639269 Report

>>7639258
I wouldn't mind a bit of drama. Drama means you care enough about the comm or girls to start shit, or get offended by what they do or don't do.

My comm is drama free, but it's hard as hell to get more than 5 girls to show up, and 3 of them are BFFs that have no room for others.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)23:12 UTC+1 No.7639423 Report

>>7638739
Amen!
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)23:14 UTC+1 No.7639428 Report

>>7638706
Sorry anon I don't mean to come across that way. Although I'm not a noob really I started wearing lolita when I was 17 and strictly brand and taobao until just the other week when I ordered my first bodyline skirt. Many girls who attend meets are newer or started around the same time. I really don't mean to annoy anyone but I guess you can't please everyone. I just wish i knew who you were.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)23:35 UTC+1 No.7639452 Report

>>7638718
A friend at work was asking about her niece joining my comm. I told her to look up the local lolita group on FB. She's like 'that sounds like porn!' I was like 'yeah, that's why I tell people it's Japanese Fashion Club instead.'

If they are putting on the flyers anything about how it's not a sex thing then that is all people will focus on and the rest of the message will be lost. Plus if those flyers are thrown on the ground by those people and the lolita group's name is on the flyer, they can be done for littering. It has happened before.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)23:44 UTC+1 No.7639467 Report

>>7639464
Why did she get kicked from ATL?

ATL take her back.
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Anonymous 06/26/14(Thu)23:50 UTC+1 No.7639473 Report

>>7639464
Can we talk about Atlanta com? It seems like power is shifting there again.
Who has real power there? (not just the mods)?
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Anonymous 06/27/14(Fri)00:17 UTC+1 No.7639519 Report

I love my local com. Everyone is awesome. Like, no complaints.
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Anonymous 06/27/14(Fri)00:22 UTC+1 No.7639526 Report

Seagulls help!
In my com, there is a girl who is super awesome. She has really long hair that I want to pet. I've never seen her be a bitch ever, even when she should be mean.
I want to tell her that I have a crush on her. How? She's really kind... and if I date her I can share her wardrobe.

Also, she always has a pony on her somewhere. It's like Where's Waldo, but with unicorns.
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Anonymous 06/27/14(Fri)00:25 UTC+1 No.7639531 Report

>>7639473
Not going to say anything bad about ATL. They rock. One of them is interviewing for a spot at AP USA! I hope she gets it.
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Anonymous 06/27/14(Fri)00:51 UTC+1 No.7639560 Report

>>7639473
>>7639526
>>7639531
Okay, ATL Samefag. Time to stop posting.

Saging for being fucking tired of talking about ATL.
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Anonymous 06/27/14(Fri)00:53 UTC+1 No.7639567 Report

>>7637958
I am embarrassed for you. So much cringing.
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Anonymous 06/27/14(Fri)01:31 UTC+1 No.7639624 Report

>>7639049
Yupyup, you got it. I would do the same if I knew her tumblr, but I can't find it either. Found a few other things of hers, where it wouldn't be difficult to make a sock acct and message her, but I don't really know how to go about it gently.
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Anonymous 06/27/14(Fri)01:33 UTC+1 No.7639625 Report

>>7638526
Anon, this happened to me, except that I was the one left behind, and my SO was abusive. They took their new partner to meet ups. There was nothing the mods would do at this point because of other drama, so I just quit going. Thankfully my ex and their so got the ban hammer.
Tips (for admin): 1. Remain neutral. Talk to both parties and tell them that they MUST behave civilly to each other.
2. Try to let the one with the issue know when her bf is coming to a meet.
3. If one of them starts feeling threatened, ask the other party to back off. If the behavior continues, ban the instigator from the next event as a warning.
4. If one person continues to violate the rules, don't be afraid to give a temp ban. Also, go to the police if it turns into stalking.
Try to make sure that each party has a buffer until they can along. They don't have to be best friends, just cordial. Also, trust your gut. If it feels skeevy, than it is. If one of the parties feels uncomfortable within boundaries (ie, stupid stuff like he's at the meet!1! doesn't count), then LISTEN. Sorry for long post.
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Anonymous 06/27/14(Fri)01:40 UTC+1 No.7639633 Report

>>7638927
Talk to the mods. Please. Behavior like this can escalate. Talk to the victim. Make sure everyone is on board to watch him. He pulls something like that again, take his camera, delete the photos and tell him he's out if he harasses her again.

For her safety, please. If you were in my comm, I would help, but I don't think it is.
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Anonymous 06/27/14(Fri)01:42 UTC+1 No.7639636 Report

>>7639038
If you are talking about ATL comm, a major part of that was a person was banned without any discussion.
There is a place for banning, but it needs to be used in conjunction with communication.
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Anonymous 06/27/14(Fri)02:13 UTC+1 No.7639681 Report

>>7639531
I'm not a mod anymore, but thanks anon.

What's this about power shifting in ATL? I'm usually pretty in the loop and I haven't heard anything about it. Sounds like a baseless rumor.
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Anonymous 06/27/14(Fri)03:36 UTC+1 No.7639826 Report

>>7639625
Thank you so much for me this. This must have been difficult to write about, but I'm so grateful for the advice.
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Anonymous 06/27/14(Fri)04:26 UTC+1 No.7639955 Report

>>7638629
I hate when people post birthday meets and then no one goes, and they through a shit fit after.
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Anonymous 06/27/14(Fri)04:48 UTC+1 No.7640003 Report

>>7638644
actually, our comm does this at meets, but only if people ask what's going on or want more information.
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Anonymous 06/27/14(Fri)04:49 UTC+1 No.7640005 Report

>>7639955
And this is why I don't have birthday celebrations with lolitas. I like y'all. But I know you're flaky as shit sometimes.
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Anonymous 06/27/14(Fri)06:14 UTC+1 No.7640176 Report

>>7639428
You're a fuckin ugly itatastic noob mess and should just leave the brisvegascomm. Put frills on a pig it's still a pig.
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Anonymous 06/27/14(Fri)06:46 UTC+1 No.7640215 Report

>>7638400
>>7638401

Every comm ever.
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Anonymous 06/27/14(Fri)06:59 UTC+1 No.7640234 Report

as an outsider to this board, watching people rip into other like this is fucking hilarious and sad to watch

a lot of you really seem like shitty people
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Anonymous 06/27/14(Fri)07:24 UTC+1 No.7640276 Report

>>7640234
And you seem like quite the charmer, yourself.
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Anonymous 06/27/14(Fri)07:31 UTC+1 No.7640286 Report

>>7640234
So you get off on other peoples misery? Hmmm seems like your a shittier person!
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Anonymous 06/27/14(Fri)07:34 UTC+1 No.7640292 Report

>>7640276
>>7640286
I'm not really laughing at anyone's misery, I just find it funny how mean people get behind the screen of a computer, especially about something as silly as cosplay
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Anonymous 06/27/14(Fri)09:02 UTC+1 No.7640394 Report

>>7640176
Jeez anon seriously what did I ever do to you? Do you even attend meets? Also stop being a coward and message me on Facebook or tell me in person if you truly want to have a go at me. Also you called me a butterface earlier so the pig comment seems unjustified even for you and please post a photo of yourself in bad lighting from a few months ago so we can all see how truly beautiful you and your coords are.
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Anonymous 06/27/14(Fri)09:20 UTC+1 No.7640417 Report

>>7640394
Please don't let anon get to you, H. She's just being a shit because she can.

Eventually anon, too, will grow out of this phase and start acting like a decent human being.
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Anonymous 06/27/14(Fri)09:26 UTC+1 No.7640423 Report

>>7640417
Thanks kind anon. I just hope the anon will stop as I know it upsets others more than it upsets me and it truly is not needed. I really do hope she grows up and stops trying to cause drama, its pretty immature. I just wish I knew who anon was as this has been going on for a while.
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Anonymous 06/27/14(Fri)09:34 UTC+1 No.7640429 Report

>>7640394
Bitch I've attended meets before you where even apart of the comm.
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Anonymous 06/27/14(Fri)09:58 UTC+1 No.7640452 Report

>>7640176
Person she was replying to, she's not ugly or ita although I have never met her in person and can't remember what she looks like in great detail. She just comes across as annoying on the Aus comm pages with her constant posting that is often nooby sounding yet overly confident. If your problem with her is her appearance and not her posts then just shut up. Even if she was ugly, it doesn't really matter as long as you can dress okay and you're not a deformed monster.
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Anonymous 06/27/14(Fri)10:00 UTC+1 No.7640453 Report

>>7640429
I meant nowadays and if your looks match your personality then you truly are the ugliest in all of the comm. Stop hiding behind the internet and dissing your comm members and get a real life.
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Anonymous 06/27/14(Fri)10:08 UTC+1 No.7640465 Report

>>7640453
It's pretty obvious that she doesn't have any friends to gossip quietly with, so she has to come to /cgl/.
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Anonymous 06/27/14(Fri)10:18 UTC+1 No.7640476 Report

>>7639826
You are welcome, anon. If you need more advice, I'll be glad to give you my email so we can talk directly.

I wish you the very best of luck!
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Anonymous 06/27/14(Fri)10:25 UTC+1 No.7640481 Report

I got into Lolita because I didn't have a lot of confidence. This year, because of several things that happened, I feel like I'm really coming into my own as a lolita, and my comm is accepting me. I feel like I should give back by taking on more responsibility. However, now that I'm trying to help out more, someone in my comm keeps interfering with my efforts. It is like I offend someone by becoming well-liked. I've done everything I can think of, including not asking for credit for what I do. But short of going back to the loser shadows, I don't know how to fix this. I'm not trying to hate on anyone, but I'm really frustrated.
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Anonymous 06/27/14(Fri)10:32 UTC+1 No.7640486 Report

>>7640481
How are they interfering?
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Anonymous 06/27/14(Fri)10:34 UTC+1 No.7640487 Report

>>7640481
Have you ever thought that maybe you're not doing a good job at what you're trying to do? Or that you're possibly unqualified? If they're that resistant, sounds like you're the problem. How new are you? No one likes noobs that think they can run the ship over girls who have been in the fashion for years and years longer. It's like the blind leading the blind. Stop being pushy. If people don't like your events or want your help, stop offering.
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Anonymous 06/27/14(Fri)10:42 UTC+1 No.7640490 Report

>>7638869
I think they mean O, and yes she's absolutely the nicest and most approachable out of all the girls. I will beat whoever with a parasol who says O isn't a sweetheart.

And O used to be the main coordinator of our LA big meets. She's too busy now, and Fairytale wants to keep all the lolitas close in order to suck money from them. At the big meets we used to have swap meets and potluck, which brought the comm closer together and let us do a lot of trading and bargaining with each other.

Ah, I feel so damn old... totally agree that meets and fashion walks are getting old and boring. Nothing happens.
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Anonymous 06/27/14(Fri)10:42 UTC+1 No.7640491 Report

>>7640481
Sometimes, other people who are insecure target people who are confident and competent. I find it best to just continue on as you are. If they have a problem due to their view of themselves preventing them from enjoying things/making friends, well that's their issue to sort out for themselves.

In regards to what >>7640487 says, run through a quick mental checklist to figure out if it is something you have done or someone with a chip on their shoulder:
Did I do or say anything offensive?
Was there anything I could have handled better?
Did anyone react negatively to my actions?
Am I stepping on any toes?

If unsure, as another for honest feedback on the answers and adjust the way you interact. Or maybe back off a little and see if there is any change.
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Anonymous 06/27/14(Fri)10:46 UTC+1 No.7640493 Report

>>7640465
That's probably true anon. I don't really understand why gossiping is so popular but each to their own.
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Anonymous 06/27/14(Fri)11:03 UTC+1 No.7640503 Report

How about some good Brisbane feels?

I'm so ridiculously excited for the Halloween meet, I'm ditching all my other Halloween plans just for it and debating if I want to get my hair actually done at a salon ( because it's so long and would take hours to style ) or do it myself at home with a quick wig - or buy a new wig and style it just for the night. Sad that I haven't gotten my ticket yet because I get paid next week. KEEN
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Anonymous 06/27/14(Fri)11:24 UTC+1 No.7640515 Report
File: 420838_10151267891231449_627178080_n.jpg-(125x83)
Remember when Brisloli was...
Remember when Brisloli was good
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Anonymous 06/27/14(Fri)11:28 UTC+1 No.7640518 Report

>>7640503
Hells yeah!!
I'm glad someone decided to hold a big event for Halloween rather than do a dinner. I hope it's successful and the hosts decide to do more events as it would nice to have a mixture of big and casual events, makes everyone step up their lolita game

ahhh what to wear!!
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Anonymous 06/27/14(Fri)11:34 UTC+1 No.7640525 Report

>>7640515
back when every wig was a cyperous wig...

How do you fix the brisbane comm? Burn it all and start a new one?
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Anonymous 06/27/14(Fri)11:38 UTC+1 No.7640530 Report

>>7640515
Whatever happened to all the people in this picture?
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Anonymous 06/27/14(Fri)11:59 UTC+1 No.7640545 Report

>>7640518
Yeah a big proper event sounds amazing, plus they're getting a photographer for the night so it means decent pictures might actually surface of me for once. With a $70 entry fee I feel everyone will really be bringing their best out - I've got two never worn dresses I've been saving for something big since they're both super OTT and not fit for Queensland Summer or too expensive to chance an outside meet.

On the other hand I want to really dress 'for the room' so classical for sure, but would a mint rococo ensemble still work or am I better going for more wine tones? CHOICES CHOICES CHOICES.

Memo to me; buy new contacts before October.
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Anonymous 06/27/14(Fri)12:00 UTC+1 No.7640548 Report

>>7640515
>am americlap
>live in brisbane

i am from a tiny city in the US that had a tiny comm of like 4 people. What's the bris comm like? i am 2scared to go scope it out but I think I can muster the courage for it. Do they take kindly to americlaps?
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Anonymous 06/27/14(Fri)12:05 UTC+1 No.7640552 Report

>>7640548
You'll be fine anon, quite a few of the members are americlaps and besides this dramu they are normally pretty nice.
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Anonymous 06/27/14(Fri)12:41 UTC+1 No.7640601 Report

>>7640503
>>7640545
Yesss! I'm ridiculously excited for the masq. I finally have an excuse to make my dream OTT dress (so much bridal lace) and coord it with a unicorn theme.

>>7640548
I'm terrified of properly joining the comm too. We should be frilly buddies!
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Anonymous 06/27/14(Fri)12:48 UTC+1 No.7640608 Report

>>7640548
Come join us, despite this terrible thread we're nice in person.
>>7640601
You had me at Bridal lace with a unicorn theme. Sound amazing!
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Anonymous 06/27/14(Fri)13:04 UTC+1 No.7640617 Report

>>7640601
We're petty noice to your face your back however is open season!
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Anonymous 06/27/14(Fri)13:05 UTC+1 No.7640620 Report

>>7640486
>>7640486
>>7640491
Every time I offer help, be it in the form of volunteering, loaning money, or bringing items, I get the response "We'll contact you." Or "X will contact you." No one ever contacts me, and furthermore, whenever I talk to X or Y or whomever, they tell me that this girl did not pass on my information and that, yes, they could have used my help. I don't want to be too specific here, but what this person does is leave out vital information to whatever job I need to be doing.
I will have the support from other comm members, but the girl who keeps blocking me is the gatekeeper to me getting my jobs done.
If you are asking why I don't just go over her head, for this next series of events, the buck stops with her. I'm not the only one having issues, but no one is willing to stand up currently because we just had issues with this person and her group. For the sake of advice, please give me the benefit of the doubt as I don't want to start trouble, I just want advice.

If you were wondering about me being a bossy noob, I'm not like that. I'm not trying to boss people around and I'm not sitting here doling out advice to people when I know nothing. I was asked by other members of my comm to do these things. Should I just stop trying? I'm also not trying to take her position. I have apologized for things that weren't my fault and bent over backwards for this one girl, and I still can't win. I just want to do my best.

I don't usually get on CGL, because I'm interested in staying away from drama. But this time, it's found me out, and I figured I could get some advice here without stepping in toes.
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Anonymous 06/27/14(Fri)13:08 UTC+1 No.7640622 Report

>>7640491
Thank you. I have been running over checklists, over and over, it seems like Other girls have noticed how this person treats me to my face verses her actions. She's done this to others who get too influential; I'm just the only one right now.
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Anonymous 06/27/14(Fri)13:18 UTC+1 No.7640629 Report

>>7640617
Man, none of this makes any sense to me. You can acknowledge that you're more attractive/better dressed/more knowledgeable etc than somebody without dwelling on it and bitching/gossiping about it. Likewise, if you have a genuine beef with somebody you shouldn't be acting so nice to their face and then bitching them out behind their back; obviously you dislike them enough to not care about your interactions with them. Have a little self respect and be honest about it.

>Don't shoot a man unless youre willing to look him in the eyes while you do it.
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Anonymous 06/27/14(Fri)13:32 UTC+1 No.7640645 Report

>>7640629
^this. It would be so much easier to just speak our minds.
>Can we have a Lolita fight club? I'd pay to watch.
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Anonymous 06/27/14(Fri)13:37 UTC+1 No.7640651 Report

>>7640645
As someone who prefers honesty I really wish this would happen.

>Fight club, I like that idea...a sweet lolita can be angelface.
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Anonymous 06/27/14(Fri)13:48 UTC+1 No.7640676 Report
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>>7640292>cosplay
>>7640292
>cosplay
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Anonymous 06/27/14(Fri)13:49 UTC+1 No.7640677 Report

>>7640620
Next time tell X or Y that any time they need help with something to ask you directly?
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Anonymous 06/27/14(Fri)14:11 UTC+1 No.7640709 Report

>>7640622
Then it sounds like it's her with the problem. Personally, I wouldn't be apologising or bending over backwards. This just reinforces her bad behaviour (as in you said sorry, therefore you were in the wrong, therefore she is right in acting that way, therefore she will continue to do it).

You can go two ways:
1) Sit her down and ask what the issue is.
2) Ignore it and continue on.

I can guess at her personality type because I have worked with it before. I don't want to put you off from choosing either option, but from my previous experience option 2 generally has less drama. Option 2 is workable when everyone else around acknowledges that the other person is acting irrational or strange and that you aren't the problem. The shitty behaviour continues but she just ends up looking like a psycho when she does it.

With option 1, if she is the histrionic victim type, you will be giving her fuel to her delusions. She will be able to quote you out of context to others to provoke outrage and get others in on it. More than likely she will deny that there is a problem and infer that the issue is you. However it will put her on notice and the behaviour will die down. For a while.

As >>7640677 says, go direct. As in saying to this girl "oh, I am going to ask X & Y if they need a hand, if you see them first can you let them know I'll be in touch?" This way you aren't going over her head & she is still in the loop. If she tells you not to bother, just say that you'll offer anyway because it's a polite thing to do.

Good luck, these types of people are a headache. Don't let her doubt yourself or stop you from doing things.
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Anonymous 06/27/14(Fri)15:58 UTC+1 No.7640793 Report

>>7640629
It's all in the mental warfare of seeing them suffer etc. It would be spoiled if I gouged her eyes out with a cakefork etc...
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Anonymous 06/27/14(Fri)16:33 UTC+1 No.7640872 Report

>>7640490
Ohhh yeah, I forgot that O helps out. She is an absolute sweetheart. I miss when she or A and her sister would set up these huge awesome meets. It made driving out to LA worth it, but now I rarely go because hanging around Little Tokyo don't basically nothing isn't really worth a two-hour drive. I stick to OC and SD meets now.
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Anonymous 06/27/14(Fri)17:00 UTC+1 No.7640926 Report

>>7638782
>>7640490
>>7640872

I'm >>7638742

Ohh, I didn't realize O was a volunteer. I was mainly talking about H and S who reminded me of high schoolers. I never talked to O personally, I only thought they added another shop girl since she was behind the register so much.

>>7638869
I agree, although they both rubbed me the wrong way equally not just H. I actually think their coords are generally nice during non-event days (during events something happens and they look worse somehow) but every time I would go into the store and H or S or both were working I would feel uneasy and want to go. It's mainly how they talked to me. Not only did they both sound stick up a few times I talked to them, but most of the time they talked to me as though I wasn't worth their time because I wasn't going to buy anything. Sometimes a group of friends (all dressed in lolita) and I would walk into the store and they wouldn't even look up because they were busy talking between themselves and never said hello or goodbye.

Mind you I have probably dropped close to $150 in Fairytale since they first opened, not a ton of money but it's something. I do like the owner M though, every time I go in with her working she is incredibly sweet and is happy to chat. She is really down to earth. I think she also pulls off salopettes really well because she does a nice job on her coords. But H and S make me really not want to shop there, especially since my purchases were to support the store since I can get everything I bought cheaper online.
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Anonymous 06/27/14(Fri)17:14 UTC+1 No.7640945 Report

>>7640005
that's the biggest thing I hate about my com. 8 people say they are totally going and day of the event 2 show up an hour late. Recently someone suggested buying tickets at once for a group discount and I'm like hell no I don't trust these girls with my money let alone them paying on time for a group discount.
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Anonymous 06/27/14(Fri)20:37 UTC+1 No.7641365 Report

>some awesome girls who are fabulous 24/7
>a bunch of alright girls who are very nice
>very loud minority of ita/weeb/bitches
>always posting that theyre too broke to come to meets
>or that meets are too far away (within same city)
>or not suited to their extremely special needs
>neon dyed hair with everything
>"event" made three days before because someone is bored that weekend and expects everyone to show up
>constant bad choice of meet locations (crowds, no parking, not enough space for everybody, or just plain stupid/pointless shit)
>2edgy4u/lolrandum "superstar" has to post on everything 7 times
>hey
>hey guys
>wouldn't it be hilarious if like
>we wore GOTH LOLI
>to a
>CHUCK E CHEESE
>that would be so kawaii
>any attempt at a not-100%-inclusive meet is screamed about for months
>how dare you try to meet at a bar/have a meet for lolitas into a specific hobby/go to a restaurant that isn't gluten free/vegan/in a humidity controlled bubble
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Anonymous 06/27/14(Fri)20:53 UTC+1 No.7641420 Report

>>7638644
Is this Portland comm, cus I think I saw something about them doin it too. I thought it was unnecessary.
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Anonymous 06/27/14(Fri)21:01 UTC+1 No.7641437 Report

>>7640872
Yeah. Remember that delicious pancake meet?! And the Christmas one?

I really miss getting the comm together like that. It wasn't even about spending money, just getting to know each other better. A's moved on to cosplay now, I think.
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Anonymous 06/27/14(Fri)23:22 UTC+1 No.7641742 Report

>>7641365
oh hey, sounds like my comm. "wah wah i cant go to a 21+ meet, i'm too young!" "wah wah i'm an hour from there!"
fucking deal with it.
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Anonymous 06/27/14(Fri)23:23 UTC+1 No.7641745 Report

>>7638079
> North East

I didn't even know there was a comm there. What's it like?

> Live in London
> Fb page has people from all over the country, and some international members
> Core group are very well-dressed, and all hang out as friends a lot
> Uncomfortable joining meets because it's usually just them, and although everyone I've met is nice, I don't want to impede on their group
> Most other people in group are inactive, or teenagers who post noob questions and then never actually start wearing the fashion

but

> organised a meet recently
> group of four of us + normalfag student photographing us for her dissertation
> really nice day out, hopefully going to meet up again over the summer
> want to organise more meets but schedule is too hectic
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Anonymous 06/28/14(Sat)00:04 UTC+1 No.7641827 Report

>>7638739

Oh shit really? I live in vancouver area and haven't joined a comm or anything yet.I'm glad to hear its not overly catty.
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Anonymous 06/28/14(Sat)00:38 UTC+1 No.7641853 Report

>>7641437
OMG yes, the pancake meet! Even the basic swap meet/potluck types were awesome.

We try to have meets like that here in San Diego, but usually we end up defaulting to picnics because the weather is nice and is free. That and just going out for tea or dinner together is quite common. I miss when LA did stuff like that, but at least now I can go to stuff regularly down here.
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Anonymous 06/28/14(Sat)00:53 UTC+1 No.7641874 Report

>>7638860
UPD8: LACEMONSTERS EVERYWHERE! SEND HELP!
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Anonymous 06/28/14(Sat)02:07 UTC+1 No.7642003 Report

>>7641745
What's london like? I'm stuck in the North :(
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Anonymous 06/28/14(Sat)02:08 UTC+1 No.7642005 Report

>>7641745
What is London like? I'm stuck in the North
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Anonymous 06/28/14(Sat)02:16 UTC+1 No.7642018 Report

>>7642005

What are the Northern comms like? Never seem to hear much about them.
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Anonymous 06/28/14(Sat)02:40 UTC+1 No.7642047 Report

>>7642018
I'm not UK, but I've seen some... interesting pictures of the Northern lolis. Rabbit777's from Oop North somewhere as well (I want to say Newcastle?), which kind of speaks for itself.
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